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Debi Lester Anglican Celebration of Life

Debi Lester Anglican Celebration of Life

An impressive eight-page program was handed to all of the attendees as they entered the celebration of life for Debi Lester. As the Parish Administrator for Christ the King Anglican Church of Albuquerque, Debi had created many programs like this for families who had held funerals there.

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Remembering Phillip Jordan

Remembering Phillip Jordan

Phillip Jordan traveled all over this country, from Maine to Alaska, Montana to New Mexico, Seattle to Long Island, and up and down the East Coast. 

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National Pet Memorial Day

National Pet Memorial Day

September 9, 2012 is National Pet Memorial Day, so declared by the PLPA, the Pet Loss Professionals Alliance, a committee of the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association.

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Patrick (Paddy Mae) Heckler

Patrick (Paddy Mae) Heckler

Patrick Heckler was also known as Paddy Mae – especially when he donned wig, makeup and costume as a drag queen. He was a hair dresser, a bartender, a leader in Albuquerque’s gay community, and he was a Catholic.

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Randy Staggs Memorial Service

Randy Staggs Memorial Service

In a way, Randy Staggs’ mother Opal paved the way for his memorial service. No one knew he would have a fatal heart attack a month later.

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Charles and Claire Fenolio

Charles and Claire Fenolio

Charles "Chuck" Fenolio and his wife Claire "went home to be with their Heavenly Father" within 20 hours of each other on August 29 and 30. They would have celebrated 65 years of marriage on September 10. Today their life celebration was a standing room only event at their church, Glory Christian Fellowship. The first thing I noticed about this large, loving family: the men were wearing white shirts and blue jeans. The women were wearing blue...

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Everyone Dies: Lessons From Six Feet Under

Everyone Dies: Lessons From Six Feet Under

Everyone Dies: Lessons from Six Feet Under By Gail Rubin From 2001 to 2005, the award-winning HBO television series Six Feet Under took viewers behind the scenes at the Fisher & Sons Funeral Home in Los Angeles. Over the course of the series, the program explored themes of death, grief, mourning and transformation. In spite of its emphasis on death, Six Feet Under offers important life lessons. I just spent my summer vacation watching all...

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Remembering Annie Jones Hogan

Remembering Annie Jones Hogan

Annie Jones Hogan spent the last ten years of her life at a senior living center, and that’s where her grown children held a gracious memorial service in her honor.

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Ralph Perea: A Victory Celebration

Ralph Perea: A Victory Celebration

A victory celebration for Ralph Perea coming into the radiant presence of his heavenly Father filled the funeral home chapel with family and friends gathered to remember and pray for a man who died too young.

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Celebrating Ellie Sanchez

Celebrating Ellie Sanchez

When Ellie Sanchez’s intriguing obituary drew me to her memorial service, I didn’t know she had been a neighbor who lived two blocks down the street from me.

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A Good Goodbye