Generated by All in One SEO v4.9.9, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # A Good Goodbye Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die ## Posts - [Syndicate](https://agoodgoodbye.com/syndicate/) - [Newly-Dead® The Game Tests Couples and Singles on End-of-Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/newly-dead-the-game-tests-couples-and-singles-on-end-of-life-issues/) - The Newly-Dead® Game is now available as a physical product through online stores at AGoodGoodbye.com, BeforeIDieFestivals.com, and TheGameCrafter.com for $40. - [Mortality Movies TV Show Episode Four: Medicine and Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movies-tv-show-episode-four-medicine-and-mortality/) - This episode of the Mortality Movies TV series explores the limits of medicine, featuring films Wit, Checking Out, Critical Care, and The Descendants. - [Mortality Movies Episode Three: Discussing Death Won't Kill You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movies-episode-three-discussing-death-wont-kill-you/) - Mortality Movies can help us when we ask: Why is it so difficult to talk about death? Everyone knows it will happen eventually, yet many people avoid discussing it altogether. Conversations about mortality, funeral plans, grief, and end-of-life wishes are often postponed until a crisis forces the issue. Unfortunately, by then, families may be left - [Mortality Movies Episode Two: Woody Allen on Death and Humor](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movies-episode-two-woody-allen-on-death-and-humor/) - In Episode Two of Mortality Movies, host Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®, examines how the films of Woody Allen use humor to explore mortality topics. - [Mortality Movies Episode One: Cultural Landmark Films About Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/mortality-movies-episode-one-cultural-landmark-films-about-death/) - The first episode of the television series Mortality Movies examines three films that have become cultural landmarks in how we think about death. - [The Complicated Legacy of Last Tango in Paris, A Landmark Mortality Movie](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/the-complicated-legacy-of-last-tango-in-paris-a-landmark-mortality-movie/) - Last Tango in Paris: Examining grief and the legacy of this film from 1972, featured in the Grief and Growth chapter 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die - [Mortality Movie Chocolat: When the Dead Still Tell Us How to Live](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movie-chocolat-when-the-dead-still-tell-us-how-to-live/) - On the surface, Chocolat is about temptation. But through a Mortality Movie lens, it's about death, grief, and ways the dead can shape the lives of the living. - [Skeletons, Romance, and Paris: Mortality Themes in the Film Amélie](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/skeletons-romance-and-paris-mortality-themes-in-the-film-amelie/) - A French Mortality Movie I recently rewatched is Amélie (2001), in the Mortality and Living Fully chapter of 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die. - [Paris, Je T’Aime: Love, Loss, Laughter, and Vampires in the City of Light](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/paris-je-taime-love-loss-laughter-and-vampires-in-the-city-of-light/) - Paris, Je T’Aime is a collection of five-minute stories directed by different filmmakers, each in a different Paris neighborhood. Some are Mortality Movies! - [From Battlefield to Nursing Home: Two Unlikely Films About Facing Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/from-battlefield-to-nursing-home-two-unlikely-films-about-facing-death/) - We can discuss death in two very different ways, watching the films King of Hearts and The Savages. Mortality Movies come in many different forms! - [98.6 Mortality Movies Book Launch & “Other Side” Documentary Screening](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/98-6-mortality-movies-book-launch-other-side-documentary-screening/) - Join pioneering death educator Gail Rubin, CT, for a special evening marking the launch of her new book, 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die on May 19. - [Death Cafe on World Labyrinth Day – May 2, 2026](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/death-cafe-on-world-labyrinth-day-may-2-2026/) - A Death Cafe will take place on May 2, 2026, which is World Labyrinth Day at La Puerta Natural Burial Ground, located south and east of Belen. - [Nicole Kidman’s Unexpected Apprenticeship as a Death Doula Started in Movies](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/nicole-kidmans-unexpected-apprenticeship-as-a-death-doula-started-in-movies/) - Nicole Kidman recently said she’s interested in becoming a death doula. A number of the movies she's acted in prepared her for this next role. - [Want to Own the Jaguar Hearse from Harold and Maude? It May Be Heading to Auction](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/want-to-own-the-jaguar-hearse-from-harold-and-maude-it-may-be-heading-to-auction/) - The Jaguar hearse from Harold and Maude could be yours! It may be coming to the Russo and Steele Monterey auction later in 2026. - [How to Recreate a Famous Jaguar Hearse](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/how-to-recreate-a-famous-jaguar-hearse/) - How the Jaguar hearse from the film "Harold and Maude" was recreated. - [Death and Taxes: Two Hard Realities You Really Can’t Avoid](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/death-and-taxes-two-hard-realities-you-really-cant-avoid/) - Death and Taxes: two hard realities you really can’t avoid, and some Mortality Movie scenes that illustrate the importance of being prepared. - [A Route 66 Road Trip to Scatter Cremated Remains](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/a-route-66-road-trip-to-scatter-cremated-remains/) - Another Route 66 road trip, with a photo montage of all the sites visited to date, and videos from Albuquerque to Catoosa, Oklahoma. - [What Was I Saving My Money For? Lessons from a Refrigerator Magnet](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/what-was-i-saving-my-money-for-lessons-from-a-refrigerator-magnet/) - Today’s post is a departure from Mortality Movies. It’s about mortality and your money, and your family history with finances. - [Oscar Night Reflections: Let's Celebrate and Remember to Live Before We Die](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/oscar-night-reflections-lets-celebrate-and-remember-to-live-before-we-die/) - Did you watch the Oscar awards on Sunday night? Lessons from the evening on celebration, remembrance, and the surreal hazmat-suited existential punchline. - [Route 66 Alpha to Omega: Scattering Ashes from Chicago to the Pacific](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/route-66-alpha-to-omega-scattering-ashes-from-chicago-to-the-pacific/) - Join death educator Gail Rubin for this road trip scattering ashes at the beginning and end of Route 66, fulfilling the wishes of artist Steven Bleicher. - [98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die Coming Soon!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/98-6-mortality-movies-to-see-before-you-die-coming-soon/) - Gail Rubin's new book, 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die, is now available for pre-sale, and yes, readers get to choose their cover. - [What The Big Lebowski Teaches Us About Funerals (Yes, Really)](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/what-the-big-lebowski-teaches-us-about-funerals-yes-really/) - The Big Lebowski is a .6 Mortality Movie. Death, funeral planning and the finer points of ash scattering sneaks in through this absurdist comedy. - [Leaving It to Chance: Estate Planning Lessons from "Being There"](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/leaving-it-to-chance-estate-planning-lessons-from-being-there/) - Being There is a Mortality Movie that provides important lessons about estate planning. It powerfully shows what happens when someone dies without a plan. - [Chuckles Bites the Dust: How to Talk About Death Without Ruining Dinner](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/chuckles-bites-the-dust-how-to-talk-about-death-without-ruining-dinner/) - Watching The Mary Tyler Moore Show's episode "Chuckles Bites the Dust" is the perfect conversation starter - [Critical Care: When the ICU Meets Kafka (and the Billing Department)](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/critical-care-when-the-icu-meets-kafka-and-the-billing-department/) - Critical Care is the next Mortality Movie Night selection on February 7. It's a comedy that skewers medical care, insurance, and difficult decisions in the ICU. - [Big Hero 6: A Superhero Movie That Sneaks in a Grief Lesson](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/big-hero-6-a-superhero-movie-that-sneaks-in-a-grief-lesson/) - Big Hero 6 is an animated action adventure film that is really all about how we deal with grief. The marshmallow robot Baymax gently guides the conversation. - [Mortality Movies Featuring Funerals and Funeral Directors](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movies-featuring-funerals-and-funeral-directors/) - In this post about Mortality Movies with The Doyenne of Death, Gail Rubin details a list of films with funerals and funeral directors that can teach you a lot. - [Gravity: Grief, Survival, and the Courage to Re‑Enter Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/gravity-grief-survival/) - Gravity (2013) may look like a white‑knuckle sci‑fi disaster epic, but it is a profoundly human story about loss, mourning, and choosing to keep living. - [The Top Three Mortality Movies of 2025](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/the-top-three-mortality-movies-of-2025/) - Here are the Top Three Mortality Movies of 2025, as determined by Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death and Mortality Movies Maven. - [Remembering Rob Reiner: Love, Laughter, and the Movies That Made Us Feel Alive](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/remembering-rob-reiner-love-laughter-and-the-movies-that-made-us-feel-alive/) - Rob Reiner gave us memorable films with even more memorable lines in The Princess Bride, This Is Spinal Tap, and A Few Good Men. - [Medical Aid in Dying: We offer our pets a good death, why not our people?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/medical-aid-in-dying-we-offer-our-pets-a-good-death-why-not-our-people/) - Medical aid in dying is misunderstood. This TEDxABQ talk presented by Gail Rubin on September 27, 2025, helps dispel myths and misconceptions. - [The Twilight Zone: The First Mortality Movies TV Series](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/the-twilight-zone-the-first-mortality-movies-tv-series/) - The Twilight Zone, created and hosted by Rod Serling, was basically the first Mortality Movies TV series. Here are 12 episodes that examine mortality. - [Holiday Mortality Movies: Festive Films that Stare Down the Reaper](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/holiday-mortality-movies-festive-films-that-stare-down-the-reaper/) - These holiday Mortality Movies offer structured meditations on death, regret, and the radical possibility of change, just in time for family gatherings! - [On Screen with the Ancestors: Films that Celebrate Día de los Muertos](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/on-screen-with-the-ancestors-films-that-celebrate-dia-de-los-muertos/) - As we approach Día de los Muertos, it’s time to talk movies that really get the concept of this special time when we remember and honor our ancestors. - [Sitting Shiva on Screen: Jewish Funeral Traditions in Four Films](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/sitting-shiva-on-screen-jewish-funeral-traditions-in-four-films/) - My Mexican Shivah, Nora’s Will, This Is Where I Leave You, and The Cemetery Club offer heartfelt, humorous windows into Jewish funeral traditions and grief. - [Love, Loss, and Loyalty: What Pets (Especially Dogs) Teach Us About Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/love-loss-and-loyalty-what-pets-especially-dogs-teach-us-about-mortality/) - Few experiences in life confront us with the inevitability of death like the loss of a beloved pet, especially dogs. These Mortality Movies will help. - [Video: A Moving Memorial Scattering Ashes Along Route 66](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/video-a-moving-memorial-scattering-ashes-along-route-66/) - The plan was to travel Route 66 as much as possible, stopping and scattering ashes along the way. I recorded video at each location, honoring Steven Bleicher. - [Wait, The Wizard of Oz is a Mortality Movie?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/wait-the-wizard-of-oz-is-a-mortality-movie/) - Is The Wizard of Oz a Mortality Movie? You bet your ruby red slippers it is! Check out this blog post for more details from Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death. - [Podcast: Greg Barnsdale on Do Not Ignore Your Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/podcast-greg-barnsdale-on-do-not-ignore-your-mortality/) - Many men don’t want to talk about death, but Greg Barnsdale does—and he’s got stories you NEED to hear. Listen to this new Doyenne of Death podcast episode. - [Mortality Movies About Medical Treatment and End of Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movies-about-medical-treatment-and-end-of-life-issues/) - This Mortality Movies list has Gail Rubin's recommendations for films related to medical treatment and end-of-life issues. Subscribe to @GailRubin on YouTube. - [Gail Rubin at TEDxABQ 2025: Exploring Curiosity in All Its Dimensions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/gail-rubin-at-tedxabq-2025-exploring-curiosity-in-all-its-dimensions/) - On Saturday, September 27, 2025, TEDxABQ will return with a bold new theme: Curiosity. And Gail Rubin is one of the 15 speakers on the program! - [Mortality Movie Nights at French Funerals & Cremations: Exploring Life and Death Through Film](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/mortality-movie-nights-at-french-funerals-cremations-exploring-life-and-death-through-film/) - The next Mortality Movie Night will take place at French Funerals & Cremations' Lomas location, 10500 Lomas Blvd. NE at 6:30 p.m. on Tuesday, March 11. - [Lights, Camera, Mortality: The Doyenne of Death Launches Mortality Movies Newsletter on Substack](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/lights-camera-mortality-the-doyenne-of-death-launches-mortality-movies-newsletter-on-substack/) - Gail Rubin, CT, also known as The Doyenne of Death®, has launched a new free and paid Substack newsletter: Mortality Movies with The Doyenne of Death®. - [Seeking Voices: Share Your Experience with Death and Dying in a Complex World](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/seeking-voices-share-your-experience-with-death-and-dying-in-a-complex-world/) - Have you experienced the death of someone close to you in the past year? You may wish to participate in this survey about your experiences. - [New Video: Being, Doing, Feeling – Eight Deaths. One Talk.](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/new-video-being-doing-feeling-eight-deaths-one-talk/) - Being, Doing, Feeling traces Gail Rubin's experience navigating grief and deaths while working as a professional death educator. Watch the video of her talk! - [Join the Cool Conversations Online for Death Over Drafts June 19](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/join-the-cool-conversations-online-for-death-over-drafts-june-19/) - On the June 19 Death over Drafts online event, join hosts Stefanie Elkins and Lisa Pahl, LCSW, for a conversation with Gail Rubin, the Doyenne of Death. - [Funeral Consumer Alliance Conference on Funeral Poverty in Our Communities](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-issues/funeral-consumer-alliance-conference-on-funeral-poverty-in-our-communities/) - The Funeral Consumers Alliance (FCA) invites you to attend their 2025 Biennial Conference, The Cost of Goodbye: Confronting Funeral Poverty in Our Communities. - [End of Life Conversations Podcast Interview with Gail Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/end-of-life-conversations-podcast/) - The End of Life Conversations Podcast published an interview with Gail Rubin, the Doyenne of Death. - [Scott's House in Santa Fe Social Model Hospice Home](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/scotts-house-in-santa-fe-social-model-hospice-home/) - Scott's House in Santa Fe, New Mexico offers a compassionate environment for individuals nearing the end of life or in need of temporary respite care. - [Veterans Can Share Their Life Stories Pre-Need with Keeper Memorials](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/veterans-can-share-their-life-stories-pre-need-with-keeper-memorials/) - Veterans can share their own stories and preserve their legacies for future generations with this new online service from Keeper Memorials and the VA. - [Before I Die Festival Day Four Videos on Unexpected Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/before-i-die-festival-day-four-videos-on-unexpected-death/) - These videos from the fourth day of the Before I Die New Mexico Festival focused on the theme of Unexpected Deaths, including indigent burial and cremation. - [Before I Die Festival Day Three Videos on Planning for Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/before-i-die-festival-day-three-videos-on-planning-for-death/) - Day Three of the 2024 Before I Die New Mexico Festival focused on planning for end-of-life, working with death doulas, downsizing, and living funerals. - [Before I Die Festival Day Two Videos on Hospice and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/before-i-die-festival-day-two-videos-on-hospice-and-more/) - The second day of the Before I Die New Mexico Festival focused on hospice, Medical Aid in Dying (MAID), grief insights, advance medical directives, and more. - [Chptr Brings Life-Affirming Obituaries to Local Broadcast TV Stations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/chptr-brings-life-affirming-obituaries-to-local-broadcast-tv-stations/) - Rehan Choudry, founder and CEO of Chptr, discusses how his company provides a unique communications service of value for families and funeral homes. - [Video: Better Place Forests Offers Eco-Friendly Funeral Options](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/video-better-place-forests-offers-eco-friendly-funeral-options/) - This video features Jess Wakefield with Better Place Forests at the Before I Die New Mexico Festival, talking about their memorial forests for cremated remains. - [Video: Learn About Eco-Friendly Funerals with Passages International](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/video-learn-about-eco-friendly-funerals-with-passages-international/) - Darren Crouch with Passages International, talks to Before I Die New Mexico Festival participants on consumer trends toward making funerals more eco-friendly. - [Celebrating the Life of the Remarkable Ruth Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/celebrating-the-life-of-the-remarkable-ruth-rubin/) - Ruth Rubin was my mother. As a Certified Funeral Celebrant, I was honored to write her obituary and create this graveside service for her. - [Remarkable Speakers at the 2024 Before I Die New Mexico Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/remarkable-speakers-at-the-2024-before-i-die-new-mexico-festival/) - Speakers Tammy J. Holmes, Kathy B. Dempsey and Dr. Kimberly Harms are coming to Albuquerque to present at the 2024 Before I Die New Mexico Festival. - [Video: Millennial Morticians with ABQ Brews Death Doula Edition](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-millennial-morticians-with-abq-brews-death-doula-edition/) - The Millennial Morticians with ABQ Brews: Death Doula Edition is a panel discussion with three Albuquerque area death doulas dishing the dirt on what they do. - [Discussing How To Achieve a Good Death on the Doyenne of Death Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/discussing-how-to-achieve-a-good-death-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - On the latest episode of The Doyenne of Death Podcast, host Gail Rubin interviews author Chris Palmer on his latest book, Achieving a Good Death. - [2024 Before I Die New Mexico Festival Video and Schedule](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/2024-before-i-die-new-mexico-festival-video-and-schedule/) - A message from Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death and coordinator of the Before I Die New Mexico Festival about the upcoming events November 1-4, 2024! - [Cheerfully Discuss Death at the Before I Die New Mexico Festival!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/cheerfully-discuss-death-at-the-before-i-die-new-mexico-festival/) - The seventh annual Before I Die New Mexico Festival will take place in Albuquerque from November 1-4, 2024, with preview events on October 24 and 26. - [Video: Your Ethical Will and the Wisdom in Ecclesiastes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/video-your-ethical-will-and-the-wisdom-in-ecclesiastes/) - Sometimes, the most powerful ethical wills and life lessons come in the simplest forms in the most unexpected places. - [2024 Deathcare Superconference: Building Bridges in the Deathcare Landscape Set to Unite Industry Professionals in Seattle](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/2024-deathcare-superconference-building-bridges-in-the-deathcare-landscape-set-to-unite-industry-professionals-in-seattle/) - Attend the 2024 Deathcare Superconference!The vibrant city of Seattle will play host to this groundbreaking gathering of funeral related organizations. - [New TV Series ‘Mortality Movies’ Takes Death Education to a New Level](https://agoodgoodbye.com/mortality-movies/new-tv-series-mortality-movies-takes-death-education-to-a-new-level/) - 'Mortality Movies,' a new television series hosted by Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist, delves into death education with curated film and television clips. - [Hilarious TV Series The Kominsky Method Helps to Discuss Death and Estate Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/hilarious-tv-series-the-kominsky-method-helps-to-discuss-death-and-estate-planning/) - The Kominsky Method shows how to age with humor. Gail Rubin will present a talk about funeral planning issues illustrated with clips from the series. - [Hineni Online Information about Jewish Funerals and Mourning Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/hineni-online-information-about-jewish-funerals-and-mourning-traditions/) - Learn about Hineni, a new online tool to help people understand traditions around Jewish funerals, death practices, mourning, and much more. - [The Not Just a Widow Guidebook on The Doyenne of Death Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/the-not-just-a-widow-guidebook-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - In this episode of the Doyenne of Death Podcast, host Gail Rubin talks with Patty Desiderio and Doug Robinson, co-authors of The Not Just a Widow Guidebook. - [A Real Jaguar Hearse Inspired by 'Harold and Maude'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/a-real-jaguar-hearse-from-harold-and-maude/) - All I want for Christmas is the Jaguar hearse featured in the 1971 cult classic film, Harold and Maude. And a real one exists! - [Funeral Cost Management Issues on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/funeral-cost-management-issues-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - If you don't do funeral planning BEFORE there's a death in the family, sticker shock may set in when you start making funeral arrangements. This week's episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on the costs of funerals and memorial services and the different ways to pay, either in advance or at-need. Jeff Harbeson, Executive - [Estate Planning Issues on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/estate-planning-issues-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Before you get to funeral planning, it's vital to do estate planning. This week's episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on the legal and financial issues that every adult needs to address BEFORE there's a death in the family. Jim Plitz with Morris, Hall & Kinghorn, an estate planning law firm with offices in - [What is MAID - Medical Aid in Dying? A Report from UNM's Conference](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/what-is-maid-medical-aid-in-dying-a-report-from-unms-conference/) - MAID, Medical Aid in Dying, is a legal option in New Mexico. The University of New Mexico medical school just held the first state level conference about it. - [PawsRest Pet Caskets](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/pawsrest-pet-caskets/) - Mark Brewer with PawsRest Premium Pet Caskets highlights the quality wood caskets they make specifically for the burial of dogs and cats. - [New Funeral Professional Continuing Education Presentations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/new-funeral-professional-continuing-education-presentations/) - The Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice recently approved four new entertaining programs from A Good Goodbye for funeral director CEUs. - [The Many Faces of Grief and Mourning in Movies](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/the-many-faces-of-grief-and-mourning-in-movies/) - What does grief and mourning really look like? Movies and television shows can help us understand different reactions to loss. - [News and Notes: Going Green](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-going-green/) - News of green burial presentations, media interviews, and upcoming talks by Gail Rubin, CT. - [Funeral Planning Books](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/funeral-planning-books/) - When it comes to end-of-life and funeral planning issues, what books do you turn to? Here are a few recommendations for your consideration. - [T-Shirts to Treasures Memorial Quilts](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/t-shirts-to-treasures-memorial-quilts/) - T-Shirts to Treasures™ takes the old clothing of the deceased and turns it into a memorial comfort quilt. Keep the memories without taking up closet space! - [How to Talk to Your Doctor or Other Health Care Provider](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/how-to-talk-to-your-doctor-or-other-health-care-provider/) - To make the most of any doctor visit, prepare and plan ahead before going to a health care professional. Here's how. - [How Can Humor Help Us Better Deal with Death?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-can-humor-help-us-better-deal-with-death/) - Jollytologist® Allen Klein joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on April 2 (right after April Fool's Day) to discuss the healing power of humor. - [Casket Trends from Traditional to Futuristic](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/casket-trends-from-traditional-to-futuristic/) - At NFDA's expo, the caskets on display ran the gamut from traditional to futuristic. - [New Caskets and Urns at 2015 ICCFA Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/new-caskets-and-urns-at-2015-iccfa-expo/) - From the 2015 ICCFA expo in San Antonio: check the new casket and urn choices by first-time exhibitors and long-established companies. - [Wills, Trusts and Estate Plans on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/wills-trusts-and-estate-plans-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Attorney Jim Plitz with the premier estate planning law firm Morris, Hall & Kinghorn discusses estate planning issues on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Do Funerals Matter? Dead Serious Grief Expert Says Yes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/do-funerals-matter-dead-serious-grief-expert-says-yes/) - Grief counselor and death educator William G. Hoy, DMin, FT, discusses the purposes and practices of death rituals on A Good Goodbye Radio. - ['Living While Dying' Illuminates How to Live Life to the Fullest](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/living-while-dying-illuminates-how-to-live-life-to-the-fullest/) - The documentary Living While Dying shows people on hospice greeting the inevitable with courage, humor, creativity and acceptance. - [Hundreds Participate in Free Scatter Day Event](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/hundreds-participate-in-free-scatter-day-event/) - The free Scatter Day event at Sunset Memorial Park was a big success. - [Memorial Day Stories at Sunset Memorial Park](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/memorial-day-stories-at-sunset-memorial-park/) - Watch how green toy soldier people honor US veterans at this unique Memorial Day event at Sunset Memorial Park in Albuquerque, NM. - [Eliminate Household Clutter Before You Go Crazy](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/eliminate-household-clutter-before-you-go-crazy/) - Before downsizing to a smaller living space, you need to let go of non-essential items. Here are seven ways to do it. - [Speaking with Stephen Jenkinson, Author of Die Wise](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/speaking-with-stephen-jenkinson-author-of-die-wise/) - Stephen Jenkinson, author of Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul, discusses how we can change dying in our death-avoidant culture. - [Pat and Connor Porter Life Celebration](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/pat-and-connor-porter-life-celebration/) - Pat and Connor Porter died in an airplane crash. Look at how their lives were celebrated. - [Sharon Rosen and ShivaConnect.com](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/sharon-rosen-and-shivaconnect-com/) - http://youtu.be/KiS5jG7n-D8 The Jewish tradition of “sitting shiva,” where a family retreats to their home after a funeral to receive the support of their community for up to seven days, can be a source of confusion. There are so many traditional observances and rituals – covering mirrors, sitting low to the ground, prayers, food, what to - [Tribute Blankets as a Funeral Gift](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/tribute-blankets-as-a-funeral-gift/) - Tribute blankets were another great product I saw at the ICCFA convention and expo. The Funeral Home Gifts company can take a photo of the person who died and overnight, create a woven blanket that incorporates the image of the person. The blanket is delivered to the funeral home in time for the memorial service. - [Elements of a Jewish Graveside Service](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/elements-of-a-jewish-graveside-service/) - Jewish traditions at a graveside funeral services include specific prayers, ribbon tearing, and placing earth on the casket in the grave. - [Funeral Planning Tips from Angie's List Founder](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/funeral-planning-tips-from-angies-list-founder/) - It's good to see the word getting out to consumers that pre-need shopping around is better than waiting for someone to die before doing funeral planning. Angie's List, the popular consumer service ranking site, recently put out some great tips for consumers. I'm pleased to share their information as today's guest post. Planning a funeral is - [Death and Humor on The Doyenne of Death Podcast, Part Three](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/death-and-humor-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast-part-three/) - In this episode of The Doyenne of Death® Podcast, host Gail Rubin and guest Greg Bennick talk about death and humor, and laughing in the face of challenges. - [Discussing Self Esteem and Death with Greg Bennick, Part Two](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/discussing-self-esteem-and-death-with-greg-bennick-part-two/) - Gail Rubin and Greg Bennick discuss self esteem, Becker's work related to the Terror Management Theory, and Stephan Pastis' "Pearls Before Swine" cartoons. - [Doyenne of Death Podcast: Greg Bennick on Ernest Becker, Part One](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/doyenne-of-death-podcast-greg-bennick-on-ernest-becker-part-one/) - Th Doyenne of Death Podcast has host Gail Rubin talking with Greg Bennick about Ernest Becker, author of the Pulitzer Prize winning book, The Denial of Death. - [Pioneering Death Educator Gail Rubin Receives ADEC Community Educator Award](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/pioneering-death-educator-gail-rubin-receives-adec-community-educator-award/) - Death educator Gail Rubin, CT, was recognized by the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC) with their prestigious 2024 Community Educator Award. - [Navigating Loss: A Widow's First Year Journey Through Grief and Healing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/journey-to-a-good-goodbye/navigating-loss-a-widows-first-year-journey-through-grief-and-healing/) - On the first year anniversary of her husband's unexpected death, pioneering death educator Gail Rubin shares some insights about grief and healing. - [Step Right Up: Video Explores Circus Cemetery Showmen's Rest in Hugo, OK](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/step-right-up-video-explores-circus-cemetery-showmens-rest-in-hugo-ok/) - The circus cemetery, Showmen's Rest in Mount Olivet Cemetery in Hugo, Oklahoma, is the final resting place of big top performers, owners, and workers. - [The American Way of (Denying) Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/the-american-way-of-denying-death/) - The Financial Times of London recently ran this thought-provoking column about the American way of living and dying with our current medical system. The author, Kiran Gupta, is a doctor in Boston. Here in the US, efforts to reform end-of-life care quickly lead to concerns about “pulling the plug on grandma”. Dying is inevitable. Doctors - [Memorial Day Photo Contest by Funeralwise.com](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/memorial-day-photo-contest-by-funeralwise-com/) - Funeralwise.com invites photographers across the U.S. to participate in its first annual Memorial Day Photo Contest. This photography contest will recognize and reward photographers whose images convey the meaning and emotion associated with Memorial Day in cemeteries across the United States. The Funeralwise.com Fan-tastic Photo Contest offers a $500 Grand Prize. Memorial Day, originally called - [Take Cemetery Photos for Memorial Day Images](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/take-cemetery-photos-for-memorial-day-images/) - With Memorial Day coming up this weekend, remember that amateur and professional photographers can compete to win in the Fan-tastic Photo Contest by Funeralwise.com. The Grand Prize is $500. Get out there and take your best shot! More details: Funeralwise.com invites photographers across the U.S. to participate in its first annual Memorial Day Photo Contest. - [Albuquerque Journal Mature Life Story](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/albuquerque-journal-mature-life-story/) - Today's Albuquerque Journal Mature Life section has a great article titled "Books help families plan ahead for final goodbyes" by Jane Mahoney. It features yours truly and starts out: Imagine trying to plan for a wedding in two or three days' time - the notifications, the site, the clergy, the flowers and the reception. Sound - [30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/30-funerals-in-30-days-challenge/) - Starting October 30, 2010, the 11th annual Create a Great Funeral Day, event planner Gail Rubin will launch the “30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge.” Rubin, the author of A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, will attend 30 funerals or memorial services in 30 days and write about each - [Don’t Plan to Die? A Good Goodbye is a Must-Read!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/dont-plan-to-die-a-good-goodbye-is-a-must-read/) - People will plan their finances, their families, their retirement, just about everything except their funerals. Without end-of-life planning, life’s other plans can come undone, and the forthcoming book, A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die (Light Tree Press), will help get the conversation started. “Just as talking about sex won’t - [Two New Podcasts with The Doyenne of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/two-new-podcasts-with-the-doyenne-of-death/) - Check out these new podcast interviews with Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death: Money Without Math and The Heart of Hospice. - [Helpful Death Care Removal Tips for Funeral Homes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/helpful-death-care-removal-tips-for-funeral-homes/) - Helpful Death Care Removal Tips for Funeral Homes shares three real life stories of how funeral home personnel treated families while moving a loved one's body. - [Another Book on Saying Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/another-book-on-saying-goodbye/) - There's a new book out on the ways we say goodbye. In Exit: The Endings That Set Us Free, author Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot explores endings through the stories of people in transition. Too often "we tend to ignore and diminish endings," she writes, while celebrating beginnings. Instead, we should "develop the habit of marking the small - [Old Comedy Clip on Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/old-comedy-clip-on-funeral-planning/) - Elaine May and Mike Nichols did this comedy skit, "The $65 Funeral," on the old Jack Parr TV program. There's a lot more to funeral planning than the cost! - [Burial Versus Cremation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/burial-versus-cremation/) - There's a great funeral planning opinion piece in The New York Times today that ponders burial versus cremation. It's written by James Atlas, author of My Life in the Middle Ages: A Survivor's Tale. It's titled "Choosing Our Final Resting Places." Enjoy! “WHAT to do about grave sites?” my wife says at the breakfast table. - [Making Funeral Arrangements After a Death in the Family](https://agoodgoodbye.com/journey-to-a-good-goodbye/making-funeral-arrangements-after-a-death-in-the-family/) - When my husband Dave died in April 2023, we had already made our funeral arrangements the previous year and paid for them. I'm so glad we had done that. - [How to Take Death out of the Hospital with Hospice Care](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/how-to-take-death-out-of-the-hospital-with-hospice-care/) - At the Southwest Hospice and Palliative Care Conference, death educator Gail Rubin speaks on "Taking Death out of the Hospital" January 19, 2024 in El Paso, TX. - [Helpful Tips to Improve Hospice Grief Follow-Up Calls](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-issues/helpful-tips-to-improve-hospice-grief-follow-up-calls/) - There are other ways to provide hospice grief follow-up services besides a cold call from a counselor. What about a text or email to set up a time to talk? - [Home Funerals Without the Funeral Home](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/home-funerals-without-the-funeral-home/) - Growing interest in the home funeral movement and providers to help make it happen get stories in the New York Times and The New Yorker magazine. - [Create a Great Funeral Day 2012](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/create-a-great-funeral-day-2012/) - October 30, 2012 is the 13th annual Create a Great Funeral Day. Notwithstanding the super storm currently hammering the East Coast at the moment, this is an opportune time to start a funeral planning conversation. It's appropriate that Create a Great Funeral Day comes right before Halloween and the Day of the Dead celebration. Before - [2011 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/2011-30-funerals-in-30-days-challenge/) - Gail Rubin is a politically correct funeral crasher. Starting September 30, she will attend 30 funerals or memorial services in 30 days and write about each on The Family Plot Blog. The “30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge” will end on October 30, the 12th annual Create a Great Funeral Day. Rubin, the author of - [More on Donating Your Body To Science](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/more-on-donating-your-body/) - Today's Pittsburgh Post-Gazette has a great article by Marylynne Pitz, titled "Donating Your Body to Science." It's all about how to donate your body for medical research, how the business of organ and whole body donation works, and things to know about the process. While she interviewed me for the story, she quoted mostly people - [FCA Helps Funeral Consumers Shop Before You Drop](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/fca-helps-funeral-consumers-shop-before-you-drop/) - The Funeral Consumers Alliance's local affiliates conduct surveys that pull together pricing information from funeral homes in each state and major market. Find your local affiliate through the organization’s website, www.funerals.org. - ["I Got It At Costco" Funeral Cost Cutting Part Three](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/i-got-it-at-costco-funeral-cost-cutting-part-three/) - Direct burials and cremations Undertakers that specialize in direct burials and cremations can cost much less than traditional funeral homes. They may provide similar services in less fancy settings. I’ve seen one business post their price for a simple cremation on a billboard on a busy street. Direct burials or cremations give the family the - [Time Goes By on A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/time-goes-by-on-a-good-goodbye/) - Time Goes By, the respected blog by Ronni Bennett on "what it's really like to get older," just featured A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die. She calls it "an excellent book with everything you could possibly want to know about burying loved ones." Under Interesting Stuff - 12 February - [13 Things the Funeral Director Won't Tell You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/13-things-the-funeral-director-wont-tell-you/) - Great funeral planning information from Joshua Slocum, executive director of the Funeral Consumers Alliance (www.Funerals.org) - [Saving Money on Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/saving-money-on-funerals/) - The Canton Repository (Ohio) just ran two articles about how to save money on funerals. The stories about funeral planning ran in their newspaper on Sunday, February 6, 2011, and these articles appeared online yesterday. Yours truly was quoted, along with Joshua Slocum, executive director of the Funeral Consumers Alliance. Here are the first few - [Unusual Viewing Request](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/unusual-viewing-request/) - This letter appeared in yesterday's Dear Abby column: DEAR ABBY: My mother is a spry, 75-year-old woman who has expressed an unusual request. She has told us "kids" that when she is called by the angels, she wants to be dressed in an aqua nightgown or PJs, and to be lying on her side. She - [When Mortality Smacks You In The Face](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/when-mortality-smacks-you-in-the-face/) - Josh Slocum, Executive Director of the Funeral Consumers Alliance (FCA), spends his entire day on a soapbox telling people why funeral planning, advance directives and discussing your choices are important. You’d think he of all people would have his affairs in order. Imagine his surprise in December 2010 when a heart attack struck him at - [Help Expand Mortality Discussions by Supporting the Death Cafe Movement!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/help-expand-mortality-discussions-by-supporting-the-death-cafe-movement/) - The Death Cafe movement needs your support to help pay for a trademark renewal in the United Kingdom. Please help by donating to their GoFundMe campaign. - [November 28: Gathering of Grief 100th Virtual Vigil with Reimagine](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/november-28-gathering-of-grief-100th-virtual-vigil-with-reimagine/) - On Giving Tuesday, November 28 at 6:00 p.m. MST, Reimagine is producing a special "Gathering of Grief," a landmark 100th virtual candlelight vigil. - [Cremation Products and Services at NFDA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/cremation-products-and-services-at-nfda/) - Here are some of the cremation products and services on display at the National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) expo, recently held in Austin, Texas. - [Remembering Lincoln's Gettysburg Address](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/remembering-lincolns-gettysburg-address/) - Lincoln's Gettysburg Address is an elegant statement of eulogy and unity - powerful words that still resonate across time. - [Comparing Conventional Burial and Green Burial](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/comparing-conventional-burial-and-green-burial/) - Does conventional burial really use enough metal to build a Golden Gate Bridge and enough concrete to build a highway from NYC to Detroit every single year? - [Green Burial on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/green-burial-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Brian Flowers, president of the Green Burial Council, discusses green burial and eco-friendly funerals on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Greetings from the New Mexico Conference on Aging](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/greetings-from-the-new-mexico-conference-on-aging/) - I've been hanging out today talking about funeral planning along with the fine folks at French Advance Planning. We were in the expo hall for the New Mexico Conference on Aging. Here's a little video from the day. Governor Susana Martinez is going to be speaking here tomorrow - that should be interesting to witness. - [Funeral Elements - Four Rs for A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/funeral-elements-four-rs-for-a-good-goodbye/) - “Don’t have a funeral for me when I’m gone.” People say this, not realizing while the memorial service is about them, it’s not really for them. Funerals are for those still living who grieve the loss of someone they love. Funeral and memorial service rituals help recognize this transition, socially acknowledge the death, and help - [Why Have a Funeral or Memorial Service?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/why-have-a-funeral-or-memorial-service/) - Maybe you don’t care what people do about you after your death. After all, you won’t be around to enjoy the party. But the people who love you care deeply. My friend Gary, a confirmed bachelor in his 60s with no immediate family in the area, says that he doesn’t want a funeral when he - [Funeral Businesses Can Share Before I Die NM Festival Virtual Events](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/funeral-businesses-can-share-before-i-die-nm-festival-virtual-events/) - Funeral homes and cemeteries nationwide can now share virtual sessions of the Before I Die NM Festival in their markets. - [Announcing the 5th Annual Before I Die NM Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/announcing-the-5th-annual-before-i-die-nm-festival/) - The 5th annual Before I Die NM Festival breaks new ground with a combination of in-person/online series of events Oct. 30 to Nov. 2, 2021. - [Highlighting Speakers at the 2023 Before I Die New Mexico Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/highlighting-speakers-at-the-2023-before-i-die-new-mexico-festival/) - We’ve got an incredible line-up of speakers and activities at the 6th annual Before I Die New Mexico Festival, October 16-21, 2023. Check out these highlights. - [Croak and Dagger Talk: I See Dead People](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/croak-and-dagger-talk-i-see-dead-people/) - Croak and Dagger, the New Mexico chapter of Sisters in Crime mystery writers, welcomes Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death, speaking on September 26 at 7:00 p.m. - [“Time Flies” Note Cards Make Lasting Impressions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/time-flies-note-cards-make-lasting-impressions/) - If you are mourning, sending a physical thank you card to those who helped you is a healing activity – if you already have the cards on hand. - [January 17: Albuquerque Historical Society Presentation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/january-17-albuquerque-historical-society-presentation/) - Live Online Presentation On Sunday, January 17, 2021, at 2 PM. Gail Rubin, President of the Historic Fairview Cemetery nonprofit organization, will speak on the topic “Historic Fairview Cemetery: Final Resting Place for Notable People in Albuquerque History.” The program will take place by live stream on the Albuquerque Historical Society Facebook page. Historic Fairview Cemetery - [February 17: Tales from Albuquerque's Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/february-17-tales-from-albuquerques-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - Learn about Albuquerque's Historic Fairview Cemetery and the people buried there in a virtual event on Wednesday, February 17 at 10:30 a.m. MST. - [Expert Advice on Legacy Issues When You Don't Have Children](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/expert-advice-on-legacy-issues-when-you-dont-have-children/) - People who don't have kids need estate planning even more than people who have children. And everyone needs to make a contact list. - [A Funeral Fit for a Queen](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/a-funeral-fit-for-a-queen/) - What is being done for the funeral of Queen Elizabeth II, and for the benefit of your family, how can you do the same? Six tips for planning a royal funeral. - [Digital Address Books and Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/digital-address-books-and-death/) - If your loved ones can even access your digital contacts after you die, how will they know who to contact with news of your demise? - [How to Plan for Weddings AND Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/how-to-plan-for-weddings-and-funerals/) - The similarities between weddings and funerals are striking. Here are my three top tips for planning any life cycle event. - [Let's Vote to Get Mattel to Create a Funeral Director Barbie!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/lets-vote-to-get-mattel-to-create-a-funeral-director-barbie/) - There are at least 70 career Barbie dolls. But there is no funeral director Barbie! Sarah Brown-Derbah is working to change this with a petition to Mattel. - [Video: Sheldon Rubin Jewish Funeral and Readings](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/video-sheldon-rubin-jewish-funeral-and-readings/) - Conducting a funeral for my father was my toughest assignment as a Certified Funeral Celebrant. It was a good goodbye. You can watch the video here. - [Celebrating the Life of Sheldon Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/celebrating-the-life-of-sheldon-rubin/) - Sheldon Rubin, the definition of a mensch, died at age 93 on August 29, 2023. Here's a description of the man, the myth, the legend. - [Before I Die New Mexico Festival Celebrates Life while Preparing for Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/before-i-die-new-mexico-festival-celebrates-life-while-preparing-for-death/) - The 6th annual Before I Die New Mexico Festival is set to take place in Albuquerque from October 16 to 21, 2023, with innovative death discussion activities. - [Video: Cremated Remains Placement Ceremony](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/video-cremated-remains-placement-ceremony/) - How can you make a ceremony to place cremated remains in an ossuary? Here's an example of a service tailored to the life and personality of the deceased. - [Festival Video: Grumpy, Cranky, Fussy: The Unspoken Symptoms of Grief](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/festival-video-grumpy-cranky-fussy-the-unspoken-symptoms-of-grief/) - Grief can be disguised as other emotional reactions. In "Grumpy, Cranky, Fussy: The Unspoken Symptoms of Grief," Todd Van Beck helps you recognize the truth. - [These Books on End-Of-Life Issues Are Enlightening](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/these-books-on-end-of-life-issues-are-enlightening/) - Book Review: Seven books about end-of-life and funeral planning cover what you need to know before you go. - [News and Notes: Live Qeepr Online Conversation Tomorrow!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-live-qeepr-online-conversation-tomorrow/) - Tune in online tomorrow, Wednesday June 17, for Qeepr's second #TalkDeath Roundtable carried LIVE on Google+ & YouTube at 3:00 p.m. ET/noon PT. - [Book Review: On Grief and Grieving](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/book-review-on-grief-and-grieving/) - On Grief & Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss is a classic text which stands the test of time. - [Aetna Accelerates Life Insurance Payments](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/aetna-accelerates-life-insurance-payments/) - Scott Beeman, head of Aetna Life Insurance, which recently introduced expedited payments and funeral planning to their services, knows the value of speedy life insurance claims processing from personal experience. His father died when he was 11 years old. "Any mail that was received for my father, we sat on a dining room table, and - [Life Insurance, Death Benefits and Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/life-insurance-death-benefits/) - If you're like many people, you think your life insurance policy will pay for your funeral. Well, yes, it can -- eventually. You may not realize the money from a life insurance policy usually doesn't become available until an official death certificate for the insured person is issued by the state, and that can take - [Reasons People Avoid Funeral Planning: Embalming](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/reasons-people-avoid-funeral-planning-embalming/) - Embalming is one of the "ickier" aspects of funerals that keep people from considering funeral planning in advance. That's a shame, because no state laws require embalming. It comes down to the question of viewing. The advent of embalming, and its use during the Civil War, changed the course of funeral practice in the United - [June 2: KNKT-FM Interview with Gail Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-2-knkt-fm-interview-with-gail-rubin/) - Mark your calendar to tune in to KNKT-FM 107.1 on Friday, June 2 at 1:00 p.m. MDT to hear a conversation with death educator Gail Rubin on the station's Albuquerque Marketplace program. Host Peter Benson will talk with Gail about practical funeral planning tips such as: 1. The five things you must know NOW about anyone - [Using Cremated Remains to Make Portraits](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/using-cremated-remains-to-make-portraits/) - Yes, you can have a portrait painted using cremated remains and linseed oil - you've got to be happy with a black-and-white picture. - [We Mourn Unexpected Deaths and Religious Intolerance](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/we-mourn-unexpected-deaths-and-religious-intolerance/) - News and Notes on the shootings in Orlando, Islamic funeral traditions, recent Family Plot Blog posts and upcoming events. - [Video: Understanding Sadness and Anger at the Holidays](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/video-understanding-sadness-and-anger-at-the-holidays/) - Gail Rubin spoke at Wings For LIFE International about managing grief during the holidays, using clips from the 2015 Disney Pixar film Inside Out. - [Death Educator Gail Rubin a 2019 Women of Influence Award Winner](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/death-educator-gail-rubin-a-2019-women-of-influence-award-winner/) - Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist, is recognized as one of the 2019 Women of Influence by the Albuquerque Business First business news outlet. - [Charms for Memorial Services from Vilmain](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/charms-for-memorial-services-from-vilmain/) - The Vilmain gift company came to the NFDA convention to offer funeral directors pocket charms and tokens that could make special remembrance items. - [A Good Goodbye Book Coming Soon](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/a-good-goodbye-book-coming-soon/) - I'm please to announce that my book, A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, is moving toward publication and will be available in the coming weeks. Those who wish may pre-order a copy at a discount TODAY. If you order before the book becomes available in mid-October, you get a - [Gail Rubin Discusses Jewish Death and Funeral Traditions August 6](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/gail-rubin-discusses-jewish-death-and-funeral-traditions-august-6/) - Gail Rubin will speak about Jewish funeral traditions at B’nai Israel synagogue, 4401 Indian School Road NE, Albuquerque, NM on Sunday, August 6 at 2:00 p.m. - [A Checklist for Jewish Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/a-checklist-for-jewish-funeral-planning/) - As we approach the Jewish High Holidays, it's a good time to ponder our mortality and plan ahead with this handy checklist for Jewish funeral planning. - [May 23: New Hampshire Phaneuf Funeral Home Talks](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/may-23-new-hampshire-phaneuf-funeral-home-talks/) - Attention residents of Manchester, New Hampshire: Gail Rubin is coming to your town to speak! - [News Series Focuses on a Flawed Guardian System](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/news-series-focuses-on-a-flawed-guardian-system/) - In an editorial responding to the ABQ Journal investigative series on guardianship issues, U.S. Rep. Michelle Lujan Grisham proposes a National Care Corps. - [App for End-of-Life Wishes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/app-for-end-of-life-wishes/) - Technology is updating end-of-life. QR (quick response) codes on grave markers to medical directives on the iPad, check out these end-of-life developments. - [Pet Hospice Article](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/pet-hospice-article/) - There's a very nice article in today's USA Today about pet hospice. It focuses on a no-kill shelter in Denver called MaxFund which sends old, sick dogs and cats to foster homes, where people love and care for these animals in their last days. From the article: Only a tiny fraction of the nation's shelters - [From Photos to Treasured Keepsakes on Canvas](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/from-photos-to-treasured-keepsakes-on-canvas/) - PhotoPros debuted their new service of providing canvas prints of pictures to the funeral industry at the 2018 convention and expo of the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association. - [When a Loved One is Dying: The Soul Sitter’s Handbook](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/when-a-loved-one-is-dying-the-soul-sitters-handbook/) - Stacey Canfield and Candace Conradi, authors of The Soul Sitter’s Handbook, discuss what you can do when a loved one is dying. - [New Mexico's highest court denies right to aid in dying](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/new-mexicos-highest-court-denies-right-to-aid-in-dying/) - Physician aid in dying got a thumbs down from the New Mexico Supreme Court - time to go the legislative route. - [Why Not Join the Lively Woodworkers in Coffin Clubs?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/why-not-join-the-lively-woodworkers-in-coffin-clubs/) - Building your own coffin in a coffin club is a positive way to face your own mortality and improve your woodworking skills at the same time. - ['Patient' is a Compelling, Honest Look at End-of-Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/patient-is-a-compelling-honest-look-at-end-of-life/) - Patient: A Surgeon's Journey documents Dr. Jeffrey Piehler's story and how he honestly faced his own end-of-life and built his own casket. - [Breaking Bad Walter White's Albuquerque Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/breaking-bad-walter-whites-albuquerque-obituary/) - A local "Breaking Bad" fan club placed a paid obituary death notice in the Albuquerque Journal, prompting international news coverage. - [The Immortal Jack LaLanne, Dead at 96](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/the-immortal-jack-lalanne-dead-at-96/) - Today, a tip of the hat to Jack LaLanne, pioneering fitness guru, who died on Sunday at the age of 96 from respiratory failure due to pneumonia. LaLanne popularized the idea of working out and eating right and started what is believed to be the U.S.'s first health club, in Oakland, California in 1936. Living - [Etiquette of Blogging About Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/etiquette-of-blogging-about-funerals/) - In yesterday's Albuquerque Journal, the Ask Thelma column by Thelma Domenici had a question that went to the heart of my 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge. Dear Thelma: I was wondering if you know of proper etiquette regarding individuals who attend funeral or memorial services and then blog or YouTube about it without notifying - [Cool Skeleton and Sugar Skull Suitcases on Amazon Prime Day!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/cool-skeleton-and-sugar-skull-suitcases-on-amazon-prime-day/) - Check out these cool skeleton and sugar skull suitcases on Amazon Prime Day! The Doyenne of Death has put together a luggage collection to die for. - [Saturday Talk at Humanist Society: Discussing Death Won't Kill You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/saturday-talk-at-humanist-society-discussing-death-wont-kill-you/) - Gail Rubin will speak this Saturday, June 24 at 10:30 a.m. to The Humanist Society of New Mexico chapter on the lively topic, "Discussing Death Won't Kill You" - [Thanatopsis](https://agoodgoodbye.com/readings/thanatopsis/) - The poem Thanatopsis, by William Cullen Bryant, provides a moving meditation on death and grief. It ends with the image of lying down to pleasant dreams. - [June 21: Alabama Funeral Directors Association Presentations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-21-alabama-funeral-directors-association-presentations/) - Gail Rubin, CT, is the featured speaker at the Alabama Funeral Directors Association convention June 19-22. Check out her film clip-illustrated talks! - [In-Person Death Cafe in Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/in-person-death-cafe-in-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Sunday, June 11 at 3:00 p.m., meeting in-person outdoors at Historic Fairview Cemetery, 700 Yale Blvd. SE. - [The Truth About Viking Funerals on Film](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/the-truth-about-viking-funerals-on-film/) - This Coronavirus Cinema Collection looks at films that feature Viking funerals, including Beau Geste, The Vikings, Rocket Gibraltar, Eulogy, and The Living Wake. - [Gail Rubin Speaking at NFDA October 9](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/gail-rubin-speaking-at-nfda-october-9/) - Don't miss this presentation on preneed sales on Sunday, October 9, 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. with Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death® - [Authors at the Before I Die NM Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/authors-at-the-before-i-die-nm-festival/) - Check out the authors speaking at the 2019 Before I Die New Mexico Festival and their books in this Mortality Minute Book Review video! - [Downsize Before Death With This Helpful Book](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/downsize-before-death-with-this-helpful-book/) - How to get a sneak preview of Kicking the Bucket List: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die and other news. - [Handcrafted Cremation Urns from Earthhandsfire](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/handcrafted-cremation-urns-from-earthhandsfire/) - These one-of-a-kind ceramic urns for cremated remains hand made by Kevin Blackburn were a hit at the 2016 ICCFA convention & expo. - [Huffington Post’s Jaweed Kaleem Discusses Death and Religion](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/huffington-posts-jaweed-kaleem-discusses-death-and-religion/) - Jaweed Kaleem joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on Wednesday, September 4 at 6:00 p.m. ET/3:00 p.m. PT on The RockStar Radio Network. - [Funeral Poems](https://agoodgoodbye.com/eulogies/funeral-poems/) - Funeral poems, also known as elegies, bring a dramatic level of oratory to a memorial service. Here is a list of suggested readings. - [Retirement Living 101: What Are Your Options?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/retirement-living-101-what-are-your-options/) - This post explores several retirement living options you can take, so you can be ready once the time to make a decision arrives. - [How I Made A Good Goodbye for David Bleicher](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/how-i-made-a-good-goodbye-for-david-bleicher/) - Saluting David Bleicher and his journey through end-of-life issues to A Good Goodbye. Would you know what your loved ones would want in a medical emergency? - [Sadness and Celebration: A Good Goodbye Funeral for David Bleicher](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/sadness-and-celebration-a-good-goodbye-funeral-for-david-bleicher/) - The funeral for my husband David Bleicher took place on May 3, 2023. Here's how we made it A Good Goodbye specific to him within Jewish funeral traditions. - [1Habit for Happiness: Always Embrace Your Uniqueness](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/1habit-for-happiness-always-embrace-your-uniqueness/) - The new book, 1Habit: 100 Habits from the Happiest Achievers on the Planet, gathers life tips from leading speakers and others in one great resource. - [August 17: Before I Die El Paso Event](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-17-before-i-die-el-paso-event/) - The Before I Die Seminar at the El Paso Funeral Museum happens Saturday, August 17, 2019 from 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. at 6111 S. Desert Blvd., El Paso, TX. - [David Bowie's Lessons on Dying](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/david-bowies-lessons-on-dying/) - Some end-of-life lessons to learn from rock star David Bowie, who proactively planned for his death - something only about 25% of the population does. - [Wayne Dyer's Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/wayne-dyers-obituary/) - Learn more about the remarkable life and contributions of Dr. Wayne Dyer in this obituary. - [Recommended Reading for Healthcare Decisions Day](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/recommended-reading-for-healthcare-decisions-day/) - Studies indicate 73% of Americans would prefer to die at home, but up to 50% die in hospital settings. It takes courage and determination to carry out a loved one’s wishes for end-of-life care. Knowing what those wishes are and discussing them is the first step. Since today is National Healthcare Decisions Day, it's a - [Roman Catholic Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/roman-catholic-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights Roman Catholic funeral traditions in a general sense. The actual practices of individuals, families, and congregations may vary. - [Methodist Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/methodist-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for the Methodist Church. The actual practices of Methodist individuals, families, and congregations may vary. You can read about two examples of Methodist memorial services from the 2010 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge: Katherine Spates Buell and Herb Bischoff. There are about twenty-three separate Methodist denominations in the - [Hindu Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/hindu-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices of Hindus. The actual practices of individual families and congregations may vary. - [Native American Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/native-american-funeral-traditions/) - The funeral customs of Native Americans, known in Canada as First Nations people, involve the community in activities to honor the deceased and support the family. There are 564 tribes in America, approximately 1.9 million people. Each tribe has their own variation on funeral customs, including use of Native languages, symbols, ceremonial objects and practice. - [Buddhist Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/buddhist-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices of Buddhists. The actual practices of individual families and congregations may vary. - [Funerals for Various Christian Denominations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/funerals-for-various-christian-denominations/) - Many Christian sects have very similar funeral and mourning customs. This post includes practices for Assemblies of God, Christian and Missionary Alliance, Disciples of Christ, Christian Congregation, Church of the Brethren, Church of the Nazarene, Churches of Christ, Evangelical Free Church, International Church of the Foursquare Gospel, International Pentecostal Holiness Church, Pentecostal Church of God, - [Presbyterian Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/presbyterian-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for Presbyterians. The actual practices of individuals, families, and congregations may vary. The Presbyterian Church (USA) is the result of at least ten different denominational mergers over the last 250 years. There are approximately 3.6 million adherents in the United States. The body is rarely viewed, but the family - [Unitarian Universalist Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/unitarian-universalist-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for Unitarian Universalists. The actual practices of individuals, families, and congregations may vary. Treatment of the body: The body is rarely viewed at the memorial service. Sometimes a visitation is held prior to the service at the funeral home or church. Cremation and embalming are accepted. Funeral or memorial - [Mormon (LDS) Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/mormon-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for the Mormon Church, also known as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (LDS). The actual practices of Mormon individuals, families, and congregations may vary. Treatment of the body: The body may be viewed, either at a visitation event at a funeral home and/or during the funeral. - [Lutheran Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/lutheran-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for the Lutheran Church. The actual practices of Lutheran individuals, families, and congregations may vary. For two examples of Lutheran memorial services, read these stories from the 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge for Carol Ann Exley and Gail Shirley. Treatment of the body: The body may be viewed, - [Islamic Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/islamic-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights general funeral practices of Muslims. The actual practices of Islamic individuals, families, and congregations may vary. - [Episcopalian and Anglican Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/episcopalian-and-anglican-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights funeral practices of Episcopalians and Anglicans in general. The actual practices of individual families and congregations will vary within this religious tradition. For an example of an Episcopalian funeral service, read this post about Irene Adele White's service, from the 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge. Treatment of the body: The body - [Baptist Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/baptist-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights funeral practices of Baptists in general, not specific to any convention, association, or denomination. The actual practices of individual families and congregations will vary within this religious tradition. The 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge post about the service for Jim Henderson provides an example of a Baptist memorial service. Treatment of - [Funeral Traditions for African American Methodist Churches](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/funeral-traditions-for-african-american-methodist-churches/) - This post highlights funeral practices of African American Methodist Churches. The actual practices of individual families and congregations will vary within this religious tradition. Treatment of the body: Embalming is accepted. The body is usually viewed, either at a visitation event at the funeral home and/or during the funeral. Cremation is also accepted. Funeral or - [Why You Need to Revisit Estate Plans](https://agoodgoodbye.com/prelude-to-a-good-goodbye/why-you-need-to-revisit-estate-plans/) - Planning ahead for end-of-life issues includes doing estate plans with a will and a trust. It's just as important to keep those plans up-to-date. - [March 18: Conference Keynote Living With & Beyond Cancer](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/march-18-conference-keynote-living-with-beyond-cancer/) - Pioneering death educator and breast cancer survivor Gail Rubin keynotes the 6th annual Living With & Beyond Cancer conference on March 18, 2017. - [Discuss Wills, Trusts, Probate and More on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/discuss-wills-trusts-probate-and-more-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Retired probate judge Merri Rudd on A Good Goodbye Radio Oct. 9 to talk about life planning issues: what everyone needs to know and act upon NOW. - [Muslim Burial At Sea Laws](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/muslim-burial-at-sea-laws/) - Muslim burial and background on Islamic laws on burial at sea from Leor Halevi, an associate professor of history at Vanderbilt University, in this post. - [Feb. 24: Afterlife Conversation with The Death Chicks](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/feb-24-afterlife-conversation-with-the-death-chicks/) - Tune in this Weds. Feb. 24 for the live Google Hangout Show, "What Happens When We Die??? A Conversation about the Afterlife." - [Remorse and Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/live-for-today/remorse-and-mortality/) - Erica Brown, a scholar in residence at the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington, wrote a thought-provoking opinion piece in Sunday's New York Times. Titled "Death: A Nice Opportunity for Regret," it ponders the combination of regret, repentance and the consideration of our own mortality. She wrote, "We rarely connect regret to death, but then we - [[Video] Pet Loss Issues on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-pet-loss-issues-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV, now available on The Family Plot Channel on YouTube, covers pet loss and ways to memorialize a pet. - [[Video] A Good Goodbye TV on Life Celebrations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-a-good-goodbye-tv-on-life-celebrations/) - This interview focuses on the elements of a life celebration (a.k.a. funeral), funeral celebrants, and options for the "spiritual but not religious." - [[Video] Money Saving Funeral Planning Tips](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-money-saving-funeral-planning-tips/) - On this episode of A Good Goodbye TV. Teresa Civello, Medicaid Trust Expert, discusses many ways families can save money with pre-need funeral planning. - [[Video] Are You Planning to Die Without a Will?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-are-you-planning-to-die-without-a-will/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on the legal issues every adult needs to address BEFORE there's a death in the family. - [[Video] Green Burial and Eco-Friendly Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-green-burial-and-eco-friendly-funerals/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on how to green your final arrangements, eco-friendly funerals, home funerals and green burial. - [[Video] A Good Goodbye TV on Cemetery Questions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-a-good-goodbye-tv-on-cemetery-questions/) - This 26-minute program examines issues regarding cemeteries, burial, and cremation trends. - [[Video] A Good Goodbye TV on Cremation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-a-good-goodbye-tv-on-cremation/) - A Good Goodbye TV, the only television series devoted to discussing funeral planning issues, is rolling out weekly on YouTube. This week: cremation! - [[Video] A Good Goodbye TV on Preplanning Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-a-good-goodbye-tv-on-preplanning-funerals/) - The first episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on preneed funeral planning - why it's a good idea and why many people don't do it. - [Financial Issues Before and After Death: A Good Goodbye TV Episode 9](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/financial-issues-before-and-after-death-a-good-goodbye-tv-episode-9/) - Steve Margulin, CPA, CFP®, discusses financial planning issues before and after a funeral. - [Address Physical Grief Reactions as Well as Emotional](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/address-physical-grief-reactions-as-well-as-emotional/) - Don’t overlook the physical impacts of grief! Dr. Diane Polasky, a Doctor of Oriental Medicine and certified death educator, joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on Wednesday, June 4, 2014. - [Physical Reactions to Grief on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/physical-reactions-to-grief-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Grief can affect us physically in many different ways. How this happens and what individuals can do to help the grieving process is featured on this week's episode of A Good Goodbye TV, "Grief Counseling." Dr. Diane Polasky, a Doctor of Oriental Medicine and certified death educator, is our expert guest. On this program, she - [What Were the Vital Topics of Discussion at ABQ Death Cafe?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/what-were-the-vital-topics-of-discussion-at-abq-death-cafe/) - The third Albuquerque Death Cafe on May 23 was a big success! About 14 participants were expected and 20 showed up. Asked if the group wanted to split into two smaller groups of 10 for discussion, the consensus was to keep everyone in on the same conversation. As one participant described it, our main concerns - [Funeral Directors on Film: New Coronavirus Cinema Collection](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/funeral-directors-on-film-new-coronavirus-cinema-collection/) - This Coronavirus Cinema Collection focuses on Funeral Directors on Film: the TV series Six Feet Under and films The Loved One, My Girl, and Just Buried. - [Houston Before I Die Events](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/houston-before-i-die-events/) - Houston has a Before I Die Festival coming up March 27-29, 2020! This series of events is sponsored by Waldman Funeral Care. - [Feb. 25: Gail Rubin on Jeffrey Candelaria's KKOB-AM Show](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/feb-25-gail-rubin-on-jeffrey-candelarias-kkob-am-show/) - Get your questions on funeral planning, advance medical directives, and other end-of-life issues answered this Saturday on the Jeffrey Candelaria Radio Show. - [Day 2: Howard Strunk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/day-2-howard-strunk/) - The brief obituary was intriguing - particularly the part about the memorial luncheon at a bowling alley. - [Friday Funeral Film: The Descendants](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/friday-funeral-film-the-descendants/) - Today's Friday Funeral Film, The Descendants starring George Clooney, helps start funeral planning conversations around advance directives and end-of-life issues. It also shows how a party can be the center of a good goodbye BEFORE someone dies. You also get a good look at cremated remains, if you've never seen them up close. Hawaiian land - [It's a New Year: Live For Today](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/its-a-new-year-live-for-today/) - As we start 2018, let's resolve to make our end-of-life plans while we can and live for today. - [Video: Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? Book Review](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/video-will-my-cat-eat-my-eyeballs-book-review/) - A video book review of Caitlin Doughty's 3rd New York Times bestselling book, Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? Big Questions from Tiny Mortals about Death. - [Conversation: A Day in the Life of the Death Business](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/conversation-a-day-in-the-life-of-the-death-business/) - What are funeral directors and people who run cemeteries doing all day? Find out in this fascinating conversation. - [Funeral Directors & Cemeterians Highlight Before I Die Festival Events](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/funeral-directors-cemeterians-highlight-before-i-die-festival-events/) - People in the funeral and cemetery businesses need to be a part of these conversations in the Before I Die NM Virtual Festival. - [Before I Die New Mexico Virtual Festival Schedule](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/before-i-die-new-mexico-virtual-festival-schedule/) - The schedule for the 4th annual Before I Die New Mexico VIRTUAL Festival, four days of death-positive conversations and experiences, is now available. - [Video: New Trends in Cemeteries](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/video-new-trends-in-cemeteries/) - "Where the Bodies are Buried: New Trends in Cemeteries" is a panel discussion addressing the rise in cremation, green burial, pet cemeteries and public events. - [August 9: A Day in the Life of the Business of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-9-a-day-in-the-life-of-the-business-of-death/) - On August 9, 2020, join in a fascinating online conversation, "A Day in the Life of the Business of Death," part of the Reimagine: Life, Loss & Love festival. - [The Children's Hour Radio Show on Death and Grief](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/the-childrens-hour-radio-show-on-death-and-grief/) - Interviews on The Children's Hour, What's Up ABQ, the Albuquerque Journal, KRQE-TV, and KOB-TV regarding the 2019 Before I Die New Mexico Festival coming soon. - [RIP New Age Pioneer Louise Hay](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/rip-new-age-pioneer-louise-hay/) - Louise Hay passed peacefully in her sleep on August 30, 2017. Dr. Wayne Dyer, a Hay House Publishers author, died August 29, 2015. - [Church Women United Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/church-women-united-talk/) - On Friday, I had the honor of speaking to more than 50 women at the monthly Albuquerque Church Women United meeting. The title of the talk was "A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die." Among the high points: Comparing Monty Python's "Nobody Expects The Spanish Inquisition!" to The Princess Bride's - [Top Downsizing Tips from Professional Organizers](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/top-downsizing-tips-from-professional-organizers/) - Want to learn how to downsize and still keep your family legacy? Watch this video of professional organizers at the Before I Die New Mexico Festival. - [Connie Gotsch: Broadcaster, Author, NM Press Woman](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/connie-gotsch-broadcaster-author-nm-press-woman/) - Broadcaster, journalist, author and animal lover Connie Gotsch's family of friends remembered her at a memorial service at the NM Broadcasters Association. - [Alkaline Hydrolysis at ICCFA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/alkaline-hydrolysis-at-iccfa/) - Alkaline hydrolysis is an eco-friendly process that uses less energy and creates less CO2 than flame-based cremation. - [Organ Donation at Death: Witnessing a Walk of Honor in the Hospital](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/organ-donation-at-death-witnessing-a-walk-of-honor-in-the-hospital/) - Organ donation saves lives, even as the donor loses theirs. April is National Donate Life Month. Here are two stories illustrating the organ donation process. - [Explaining Alkaline Hydrolysis on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/explaining-alkaline-hydrolysis-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - A Good Goodbye Radio features an interview with Samantha Seiber with Bio-Response Solutions, a leading provider of alkaline hydrolysis technology. - [Start a Conversation with Your Clothing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/start-a-conversation-with-your-clothing/) - You can start a conversation with the clothes you wear? Yes, and more news & notes from A Good Goodbye. - [Funeral for Charlie Sheen Character](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-for-charlie-sheen-character/) - The news is just breaking that Charlie Sheen's character in the CBS sitcom "Two and a Half Men" will be killed off at the start of the new season that starts September 19. Where there's a death, there's a funeral, always a rich source for comedy situations. Deadline and TMZ report that Charlie Harper is - [First Before I Die Festival Tucson this Sunday, April 16](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/first-before-i-die-festival-tucson-this-sunday-april-16/) - The first Before I Die Tucson event takes place this Sunday, April 16 at The Loft Cinema, 3233 East Speedway, Tucson, Arizona. - [Update on Alkaline Hydrolysis Systems](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/update-on-alkaline-hydrolysis-systems/) - Alkaline hydrolysis is essentially an accelerated version of what takes place during natural decomposition. Here is more information about the process. - [Second Chances by Chuck Gallagher](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/second-chances-by-chuck-gallagher/) - Chuck Gallagher makes a strong entrance when he speaks. He shuffles up to the stage wearing an orange prison jumpsuit and shackled in handcuffs as he speaks about taking 23 steps into federal prison. "Choices have consequences" is Gallagher's mantra, and his book, Second Chances: Transforming Adversity into Opportunity, reinforces that message throughout. His talk - [Thanksgiving Thoughts from The Doyenne of Death®](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/thanksgiving-thoughts-from-the-doyenne-of-death/) - When you’re The Doyenne of Death®, discussing and thinking about mortality daily, you really appreciate life and good health. Thanksgiving thoughts for 2022. - [The Doyenne of Death® Podcast Explores Mortality Issues and Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/the-doyenne-of-death-podcast-explores-mortality-issues-and-funeral-traditions/) - Death educator Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist, is reviving her weekly podcast titled The Doyenne of Death®, starting end-of-life planning conversations. - [Learn From These Before I Die Festival Videos](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/learn-from-these-before-i-die-festival-videos/) - All of the videos from the 2021 Before I Die New Mexico Festival are now available online! Watch and learn about planning ahead for end-of-life issues. - [Royal Funeral Planning Applies to You Too](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/royal-funeral-planning-applies-to-you-too/) - Royal funeral planning has lessons for us commoners. Take a lesson from the film The Queen. You need to plan ahead, even if you're not royalty. - [Video: Write Your 'Upon My Death' Letter Today!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/video-write-your-upon-my-death-letter-today/) - What goes into an "Upon My Death" letter? In this video, Gail Rubin shares the heartfelt and humorous story of her friend who shared his end-of-life guidance. - [Thoughts on Being a Personal Representative](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/thoughts-on-being-a-personal-representative/) - Being a personal representative for an estate is a big job. Here's a glimpse into what's involved when you agree to be an estate executor. - [Gail Rubin a Featured Speaker at Prime Time 50+ EXPO Wednesday](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/gail-rubin-a-featured-speaker-at-prime-time-50-expo-wednesday/) - Gail Rubin is a featured speaker at the Prime Time 50+ EXPO this Wednesday, October 13 at 11:00 a.m. presenting "Not Planning to Die with The Kominsky Method." - [Gail Rubin to Speak at HERe Conference: Fear is So Last Year!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/gail-rubin-to-speak-at-here-conference-fear-is-so-last-year/) - Gail Rubin to speak November 5th at Arizona HERe Conference: Fear is So Last Year! Get a 20% discount with the code GAIL20. - [Ten Questions on Whether to Downsize Your Possessions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/ten-questions-on-whether-to-downsize-your-possessions/) - When you're downsizing, these ten questions can help you determine what to keep and what to release from your life when moving. - [Retirement After 60 Podcast: Funeral Planning Won't Kill You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/retirement-after-60-podcast-funeral-planning-wont-kill-you/) - On the Retirement After 60 Podcast, Gail Rubin talks about funeral planning with a light touch on a dark topic. - [A Short Memorial Service Template](https://agoodgoodbye.com/eulogies/a-short-memorial-service-template/) - Here's a structure for a short, but meaningful service that covers the "Four Rs" of a meaningful, memorable good goodbye memorial service. - [The 23rd Psalm](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/the-23rd-psalm/) - The 23rd Psalm is a popular reading at Jewish and Christian funerals. It affirms though we face trials in life, with God's support we move through dark times. - [Funny Films Can Help Foster Pre-Need Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/funny-films-can-help-foster-pre-need-funeral-planning/) - Comedy films that make us laugh can also help us relax into having funeral planning conversations with our loved ones. - [Psalms for Funerals: The 121st](https://agoodgoodbye.com/psalms-for-funerals/psalms-for-funerals-the-121st/) - If you live in an area with big hills or mountains that catch your attention on a daily basis the 121st Psalm can provide a dose of inspiration and comfort. - [Tim Burton Says Plan Your Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/tim-burton-says-plan-your-funeral/) - In today's New York Times Arts & Leisure section, there's a huge feature about film maker Tim Burton. He talks about his movies, his life and, yes, funeral planning. Burton, as you may know, made darkly comic films that include "Beetlejuice" "Edward Scissorhands" "The Nightmare Before Christmas" "Corpse Bride" and "Big Fish." You might wonder - [Bobby Wonderful on Burying Your Parents](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/bobby-wonderful-on-burying-your-parents/) - Bob Morris, author of Bobby Wonderful: An Imperfect Son Buries His Parents, joins Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on FuneralRadio.com. - [A Short History of Cremation in the U.S.](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/a-short-history-of-cremation-in-the-u-s/) - An overview of cremation history and memorialization in the U.S. by Jason Ryan Engler, funeral director and cremation historian. - [June 25: Meet the Author Book Signing at NM Arts & Crafts Fair](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-25-meet-the-author-book-signing-at-nm-arts-crafts-fair/) - Meet Gail Rubin, author of KICKING THE BUCKET LIST: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die, at EXPO New Mexico this Sunday, June 25. - [Woody Allen on Living Life Backwards](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/woody-allen-on-living-life-backwards/) - Woody Allen on Living Life Backwards and other humorous quotes about death from the comedian who is known for his fear of death. - [StoryClip Preserves Condolences on Video](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/storyclip-preserves-condolences-on-video/) - StoryClip is a tablet-based kiosk that allows family and friends to leave video condolences at your funeral home. - [June 10: Jewish Section Dedicated at Natural Burial Ground](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-10-jewish-section-dedicated-at-natural-burial-ground/) - The public is invited to attend the dedication of the Jewish section of this green burial cemetery south of Belen, New Mexico. The event is Sunday, June 10 at 9:30 a.m. Check this blog post for directions. - [Gail Rubin's Draft Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/gail-rubins-draft-obituary/) - Gail Rubin, host and author of A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, wrote her own obituary in advance of her eventual demise. - [Let's Help Legalize Body Composting in Maryland!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/lets-help-legalize-body-composting-in-maryland/) - Natural organic reduction, or body composting, might soon be legalized in Maryland. It could be the seventh state to okay it – but we need your help right now. - [Why You Want a Physicist to Speak at Your Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/readings/why-you-want-a-physicist-to-speak-at-your-funeral/) - You Want a Physicist to Speak at Your Funeral: for those who want a funeral or memorial service without any mention of spiritual matters, read this. - [Friday Funeral Film: The Six Wives of Henry Lefay](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-the-six-wives-of-henry-lefay/) - The Six Wives of Henry Lefay provides a lighthearted lesson in the serious business of funeral planning, wills, trusts and estate planning. - [Funeral Films: The Six Wives of Henry Lefay](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/funeral-films-the-six-wives-of-henry-lefay/) - By Gail Rubin The Six Wives of Henry Lefay (2009) is a comedic cautionary tale for those who don’t make funeral plans, or for those who make plans but get married way too many times. One of the tag lines is: He loves women - Lots of women. As a funny funeral film, it’s a - [Friday Funeral Film: Harold and Maude](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-harold-and-maude/) - http://youtu.be/hR-OojNoVDg By Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death® Whenever I mention funeral films, invariably those of the baby boomer generation cite Harold and Maude, a cult classic comedy film from 1971. Ironically, while this movie is remembered for the main characters attending the funerals of people they don't know (like me with my 30 Funerals - [[Video] Funeral Costs Examined on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-funeral-costs-examined-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on funeral costs and memorial services and different ways to pay, either in advance or at-need. - [[Video] How to Discuss End-of-Life Care](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-how-to-discuss-end-of-life-care/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV, now available on YouTube, brings home an informed conversation about hospice, palliative care and end-of-life issues. - [How To Protect Your Pet With a Pet Trust](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/how-to-protect-your-pet-with-a-pet-trust/) - A pet trust can ensure your furry, feathered, or four legged friends are cared for when you are no longer available to be a "Pet Parent." - [Introducing the Coronavirus Cinema Collection Videos](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/introducing-the-coronavirus-cinema-collection-videos/) - Coronavirus Cinema Collection: Funny Funeral Films, offer film recommendations for hunkering down at home from Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death. - [Crazy Photos: Frozen Dead Guy Days Coffin Race Teams, Costumes and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/crazy-photos-frozen-dead-guy-days-coffin-race-teams-costumes-and-more/) - From the 2023 Frozen Dead Guy Days Festival in Estes Park, Colorado, check out photos of the whole crazy scene: Coffin Races, Costumes, Hearses and Contests. - [Coming to Frozen Dead Guy Days: Newly-Dead® The Game](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/coming-to-frozen-dead-guy-days-newly-dead-the-game-and-film-screenings/) - Coming to Frozen Dead Guy Days in Estes Park: Newly-Dead® The Game. It's like The Newlywed Game, but it focuses on how well you know your partner's last wishes. - [Death Cafe Movement on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/death-cafe-movement-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Death Cafe founder Jon Underwood and U.S. pioneer Lizzy Miles discuss the worldwide movement with Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Medical Body Donation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/medical-body-donation/) - Body donation has a nice ring to it, but you need to decide this approach before you die, as pre-registration is a must with most medical school programs. - [Why are people calling me for body donation services?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/why-are-people-calling-me-for-body-donation-services/) - As The Doyenne of Death®, I get many interesting phone calls from the public and funeral homes. Happy to help, but please don't call me for body donation. - [Facelift Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/facelift-funerals/) - Yesterday, I had the pleasure of interviewing Stephanie West Allen, the creator of Create a Great Funeral Day. We had a wide-ranging conversation on how she started the funeral planning "holiday" in 2000, the benefits of discussing one's wishes, such as becoming aware of one's legacy, and "good" funerals versus "bad" funerals. A full-fledged article - [How to Avoid Political Arguments at Thanksgiving](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/how-to-avoid-political-arguments-at-thanksgiving/) - Remembering we all have a deadline, and rededicating ourselves to making the most of this lifetime before that last day, provides perspective. - [A Good Goodbye Radio Interview with Gale O'Brien](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/a-good-goodbye-radio-interview-with-gale-obrien/) - A Good Goodbye Radio is back online, now featured on FuneralRadio.com. - [New Season of A Good Goodbye TV Starts Tomorrow](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/new-season-of-a-good-goodbye-tv-starts-tomorrow/) - A Good Goodbye TV will air on ABQ's Comcast Channel 27 twice weekly: Thursdays at 12:30 p.m. and Sundays at 5:30 p.m. - [TV Interview Show on Funeral Planning Wins National Award](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/tv-interview-show-on-funeral-planning-wins-national-award/) - The TV interview series A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die just won a national award in NFPW's 2014 Communications Contest. - [[Video] Examining Grief Reactions on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-examining-grief-reactions-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - This episode of A Good Goodbye TV, now available on YouTube, explains how grief can affect us physically and how to address its effects. - [[Video] Talking Death and Taxes on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-talking-death-and-taxes-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - This financial planning episode of A Good Goodbye TV focuses on death, taxes, estates and executors. The guest is Steve Margulin, CPA and CFP®. - [Cremation on A Good Goodbye TV Tonight](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/cremation-on-a-good-goodbye-tv-tonight/) - Do you have questions about cremation? Tune in to watch A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die to learn what you need to know! - [Financial Issues After a Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/financial-issues-after-a-funeral/) - This week, A Good Goodbye TV focuses on the intricacies of financial planning, death and taxes with Steven P. Margulin, CPA, CFP® and Life Coach. - [Festival Video: How to Make Your Money Outlive You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/festival-video-how-to-make-your-money-outlive-you/) - One of the fears of growing old is running out of money before you die. That’s why this presentation with Steve Margulin, CPA, CFP® is so important. - [Friday Funeral Films: My Mexican Shivah](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-my-mexican-shivah/) - My Mexican Shivah is a very funny comedy funeral film that illustrates highly traditional shivah Jewish funeral traditions in an entertaining manner. - [Revive the Men of Mortuaries Calendar!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/revive-the-men-of-mortuaries-calendar/) - Check out this Men of Mortuaries calendar image from 2008. The Good Funeral Guide Blog in the U.K., headed up by Charles Cowling, recently ran a post about the charitable calendar that made appearances in 2007 and 2008. Obit Magazine did a fun story about the project back in 2007: OMG!! Men of Mortuaries? The - [Celebrating Hearses Through History](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/celebrating-hearses-through-history/) - Hearses, funeral coaches, carriages, dead wagons - whatever you call them, these vehicles are an object of fascination. Enjoy this collection of film clips! - [News and Notes: Free eBook on Memorial Services](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-free-ebook-on-memorial-services/) - News about the free eBook Celebrating Life, upcoming events and recent posts at The Family Plot Blog. - [NFDA Products and Services: Part Four](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/nfda-products-and-services-part-four/) - Funeral directors at the 2019 NFDA learned about services like Closure Path, Clear View Caskets, Love Urns, and books on marketing. - [Friday Funeral Film: Waking Ned Devine](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-waking-ned-devine/) - For those who want to win the lottery, Waking Ned Devine provides the reminder you never can tell when your number(s) will come up. - [August 28: The Emotionally Naked Truth About Suicide](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-28-the-emotionally-naked-truth-about-suicide/) - Emotionally Naked: Learn how to talk about suicide in this conversation with Anne Moss Rogers and Gail Rubin. - [AFTR Enables Virtual Cemetery Visits](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/aftr-enables-virtual-cemetery-visits/) - The news is out about AFTR, a pioneering funeral technology that connects the deceased in cemeteries with their loved ones who can't be there in person. - [COVID-19, End-of-Life and Funeral News Stories](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/covid-19-end-of-life-and-funeral-news-stories/) - COVID-19 illness and deaths bring end-of-life and funeral planning issues into our daily consciousness. These news stories help provide perspective. - [A Week's Worth of Interesting Death News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/a-weeks-worth-of-interesting-death-news/) - Don't miss these news stories and opinion pieces on death, cleaning up after "lonely" deaths in Japan, what cremated remains mean to us, clutter clearing, dementia-specific advance directives, and more. - [Celebrity Funerals to Die For](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/celebrity-funerals-to-die-for/) - "How the Celebrity Funeral Became the New Royal Wedding: A look at how the other half dies" by Bob Morris brilliantly illustrates a new trend in funerals. - [Over Our Dead Bodies: Undertakers Lift the Lid](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/over-our-dead-bodies-undertakers-lift-the-lid/) - Book review of Over Our Dead Bodies: Undertakers Lift the Lid, from the same authors of Mortuary Confidential: Undertakers Spill the Dirt. - [The Caregiver's Caregiver Radio Interview](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/the-caregivers-caregiver-radio-interview/) - An information-packed discussion of what caregivers need to know before there's a death in the family, with Gail Rubin, the Doyenne of Death. - [Wayne Dyer on Life and Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/live-for-today/wayne-dyer-on-life-and-death/) - Wayne Dyer, best-selling author and lecturer, was diagnosed with a rare disease, chronic lymphocytic leukemia. - [Funeral Planning and Finances Discussed on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/funeral-planning-and-finances-discussed-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Jodi Clock, an end-of-life consultant and author, discusses advance funeral planning and finances on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Baby Boomers and Funerals: The Party of Your Life?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/baby-boomers-and-funerals-the-party-of-your-life/) - Today's guest is Erika Dillman, author of The Party of Your Life: Get the Funeral You Want by Planning It Yourself. - [Friday Funeral Films: The Big Lebowski](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-the-big-lebowski/) - The Big Lebowski offers several good cremation and funeral planning lessons. - [BookPleasures.com Review of A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/bookpleasures-com-review-of-a-good-goodbye/) - June Maffin is an Episcopal/Anglican priest who facilitates workshops/retreats on "healthy" dying and grieving, and other workshops/retreats. She has conducted hundreds of funerals, led countless Grief Support Groups, and counseled many, many people who have been grieving losses of some kind over the years. She's also a reviewer for BookPleasures.com, a major book reviewing website. - [Coronavirus Cinema Collection: 'Based on a True Story'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/coronavirus-cinema-collection-based-on-a-true-story/) - The films in this Coronavirus Cinema Collection are "Based on a True Story" - Get Low, Grand Theft Parsons, and Bernie. - [Children and Grief: Video Interview with Tim Mostert](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/children-and-grief-video-interview-with-tim-mostert/) - Children and grief is addressed in the new book, What Now?, written and illustrated by cartoonist Tim Mostert. Learn more in this Q&A video. - [Qeepr #Talkdeath Roundtable June 17](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/qeepr-talkdeath-roundtable-june-17/) - Join the next live online #Talkdeath conversation on Wednesday, June 17 at 3:00 p.m. ET/noon PT and get your questions answered! - [Why not Spend Eternity in a Great American Pyramid?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/why-not-spend-eternity-in-a-great-american-pyramid/) - If you're looking for a final resting place that makes a big statement, look no further than The Great American Pyramid. This new exhibitor made a big splash at the expo of the 2018 International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association (ICCFA) convention. - [Friday Funeral Film: Grandpa's in the TUFF SHED](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-grandpas-in-the-tuff-shed/) - "Grandpa's in the Tuff Shed" tells the strange but true story of how the Frozen Dead Guy came to be in Nederland, Colorado. - [Body Composting Conference in Denver March 16-17: Register Now!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/body-composting-conference-in-denver-march-16-17-register-now/) - Everything you need to know about body composting, aka natural organic reduction (NOR), is the topic of the inaugural Body Composting Conference in Denver. - [How Adults Can Help Children with Grief on The Doyenne of Death Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/how-adults-can-help-children-with-grief-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - How adults can help children deal with grief is the topic with Wade Bergner, author of The Mirror Box, on The Doyenne of Death Podcast. - [On The Doyenne of Death® Podcast: Physical Impacts of Grief](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast-physical-impacts-of-grief/) - How grief affects our bodies is the topic of this episode of The Doyenne of Death® Podcast with Diane Polasky, Doctor of Oriental Medicine and death educator. - [Why are People Afraid of Hospice?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/why-are-people-afraid-of-hospice/) - Former President Jimmy Carter has chosen hospice at home, forgoing hospital medical treatment. Why are so many people afraid of hospice? - [Life.VU Social Media Platform for Memorialization](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/life-vu-social-media-platform-for-memorialization/) - Life.VU offers funeral directors a social media technology platform that focuses on celebrating life. - [Astral Caskets Living Statue at NFDA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/astral-caskets-living-statue-at-nfda/) - Astral Industries, a manufacturer of quality steel caskets, use a living statue at industry convention expos to stand out in a sea of caskets. - [Ash Scattering in Israel by Aley Shalechet](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/ash-scattering-in-israel-by-aley-shalechet/) - Aley Shalechet offers Americans the opportunity to have at least part of their mortal remains buried or scattered in the Holy Land. - [GiveForward.com Offers Families Online Fundraising](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/giveforward-com-offers-families-online-fundraising/) - GiveForward.com is an online fundraising website that helps families cover expenses after there’s been an unexpected death. - [My Gene Jewel Puts DNA into Jewelry](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/my-gene-jewel-puts-dna-into-jewelry/) - Beyond cremated remains: turning a loved one's DNA into gemstones is the new thing. - [Anointing Stone Memorials from Israel](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/anointing-stone-memorials-from-israel/) - The Siv Stone Group from Israel exhibited this unique reddish marble that comes from the same place where the Stone of Anointment was quarried. - [Roberts & Downey Chapel Equipment](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/roberts-downey-chapel-equipment/) - Roberts & Downey Chapel Equipment makes the specialized furniture needed by funeral homes and churches. - [All-in-One HONOR Bags Have Multiple Uses](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/all-in-one-honor-bags-have-multiple-uses/) - It's a body bag! A cot cover! A cremation container and a soft burial unit! It's the Honor Bag from Honor Funeral Products. - [Telepresence Robot for Funeral Homes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/telepresence-robot-for-funeral-homes/) - CARL from Orbis Robotics brings the science-fiction concept of a virtual presence to reality at funerals, arrangement conferences and visitations. - [Fundamentals of Chinese American Funeral Customs - Part Three](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-traditions/fundamentals-of-chinese-american-funeral-customs-part-three/) - This post on Chinese American Funeral Customs covers Red Envelopes, Funeral Music and Processions, Lucky and Unlucky Numbers, and Celebration Days. - [Fundamentals of Chinese American Funeral Customs – Part One](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-traditions/fundamentals-of-chinese-american-funeral-customs-part-one/) - Chinese funeral traditions in this post include Benevolent Family Associations, flower arrangements, and funeral timing. - [Fundamentals of Chinese American Funeral Customs – Part Two](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-traditions/fundamentals-of-chinese-american-funeral-customs-part-two/) - Chinese American Funeral Customs in this post: Visitation, Food Offerings, Blanketing Ceremony, Paper Burning Products, and Dress Code. - [Video: Millennial Morticians with ABQ Brews](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-millennial-morticians-with-abq-brews/) - "Millennial Morticians with ABQ Brews" was an innovative panel discussion with 30-something funeral directors in a brew pub discussing undertaking. - [New Mexico Before I Die Festival Wins National Funeral Industry Award](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/new-mexico-before-i-die-festival-wins-national-funeral-industry-award/) - A Good Goodbye from Albuquerque, New Mexico, won First Place in the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association’s 2018 Keeping It Personal (KIP) Awards. - [Video: Near Death Experiences and End-of-Life Visions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-near-death-experiences-and-end-of-life-visions/) - In this panel discussion, three remarkable women discuss Near Death Experiences and End-of-Life Visions. Take a walk on the woo-woo side! - [Video: Funeral Directors Panel on What You Need to Know](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-funeral-directors-panel-on-what-you-need-to-know/) - This panel discussion features Albuquerque funeral directors taking audience questions on a range of issues related to death, dying and funeral planning. - [Video: End-of-Life Legal and Financial Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-end-of-life-legal-and-financial-issues/) - This Before I Die New Mexico Festival Symposium panel discussion focuses on digital asset management and legal and financial issues related to end-of-life. - [Video: How to Reach a Gentle Death in NM](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-how-to-reach-a-gentle-death-in-nm/) - Before I Die Festival Symposium panelists addressed medical aid in dying, options for patients with terminal illnesses, and upcoming legislation in New Mexico. - [Video: How To Get a Green Burial in New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/video-how-to-get-a-green-burial-in-new-mexico/) - Panelist discuss a range of issues: what green burial means, eco-friendly funerals, shades of green in funeral arrangements, home funerals, and other topics. - [2018 New Mexico Death Discussion Festival Reaches More People](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/2018-new-mexico-death-discussion-festival-reaches-more-people/) - 685 people participated in the 2018 Before I Die New Mexico Festival, with 32 free or low-cost events that prompted death discussions and planning ahead. - [Before I Die New Mexico Festival Celebrates Life and Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/before-i-die-new-mexico-festival-celebrates-life-and-death/) - The Before I Die New Mexico Festival will take place Tuesday, October 30 to Sunday, November 4, 2018, in Albuquerque, Santa Fe and Belen, NM. - [Things You Need To Know Before You Die](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/things-you-need-to-know-before-you-die/) - Make your plans now to attend the Before I Die New Mexico Festival. It's one of the best places to openly discuss death and dying with like-minded people from all walks of life. - [Introducing the WeRemember.com Memorialization Service](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/introducing-the-weremember-com-memorialization-service/) - National Guardian Life Insurance Company teamed up with Ancestry to create WeRemember.com, a website to celebrate and share the stories of our loved ones. - [Before I Die NM Festival Celebrates Day of the Dead and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/before-i-die-nm-festival-celebrates-day-of-the-dead-and-more/) - The Before I Die NM Festival, six days of death positive events, now includes events in Albuquerque, Santa Fe and Belen, New Mexico Oct. 30 to Nov. 4, 2018. - [Friday Funeral Film: Departures](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-departures/) - The film Departures (2008) presents a beautiful and humorous meditation on life, death and funeral rituals. - [Jewish and Hmong Memorial Monuments](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-and-hmong-monuments/) - Katzman Monument Company, based in Minnesota, makes memorial markers for Jewish and Hmong cemetery headstones, in addition to other types of monuments in stone. - [Creative Ways to Keep Valentine’s Day Objects](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/creative-ways-to-keep-valentines-day-objects/) - A video about Valentine’s Day objects and tips for ways to creatively curate special keepsakes, with Martie McNabb, CEO of Thingtide Show & Tale®. - [A Life Untold Creates Books Celebrating Loved Ones](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/a-life-untold-creates-books-celebrating-loved-ones/) - A Life Untold is a company in Australia that helps people write their own life story and package it in a beautifully printed book, complete with photos. - [Marine Memorial - The Eyes of Freedom](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/marine-memorial-the-eyes-of-freedom/) - The Eyes of Freedom - Lima Company Memorial tribute is a collection of 23 life-sized paintings of Marines from one of the hardest-hit units in Operation Iraqi Freedom. These men gave their lives while deployed in Iraq between May and August of 2005. The panels in this traveling memorial depict 22 Marines and one Navy - [Video: Tour This Top-of-the-Line Hearse](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/video-tour-this-top-of-the-line-hearse/) - Gail Rubin talks with Nathan Hurst, National Sales Manager for Eagle and Federal Coach, and examines the top-of-the-line Echelon Limited funeral coach. - [Cool Funeral Vehicles at ICCFA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/cool-funeral-vehicles-at-iccfa/) - There were some pretty cool funeral vehicles on display at the ICCFA expo this week, from earth movers to hearses and multiple casket haulers. Check out the hearse and limo funeral car from Rosewood Classic Coach. Owner Richard Neal gave a quick tour around the two vehicles on display. These are amazingly stylish vehicles that - [Friday Funeral Films: Bernie](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-bernie/) - Bernie (2012 PG-13) is a comedy based on a true story of a funeral director who takes up with a much-hated wealthy widow in Carthage Texas. - [Discussing Shared Death Experiences on The Doyenne of Death Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/discussing-shared-death-experiences-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - What is a Shared Death Experience? You may have heard about Near Death Experiences (NDEs), when someone's body is clinically dead for a period of time. The person's consciousness leaves the body and travels to mystical realms before returning to life in the body. A Shared Death Experience (SDE) is when a person who is - [This Cadillac Hearse Has Good Looks and Value](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/this-cadillac-hearse-has-good-looks-and-value/) - Check out the features of this Kensington model Cadillac hearse at the 2018 NFDA expo. - [NDEs: We Are More Than 'Clods of Dirt'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/we-are-more-than-clods-of-dirt/) - Stephen Young considered himself a man of science, until he had four cardiac arrests and three near-death experiences. - [Funeral Director Todd Harra Interviewed on First Doyenne of Death® Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/funeral-director-todd-harra-interviewed-on-first-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - On The Doyenne of Death® podcast, Gail Rubin interviews Todd Harra, funeral director and author of LAST RITES: The Evolution of the American Funeral. - [Jewish Funeral Traditions on The Doyenne of Death Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/jewish-funeral-traditions-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - Jewish funeral traditions are the topic of this episode of The Doyenne of Death® Podcast. Host Gail Rubin interviews David Zinner, founder of Kavod v’Nichum. - [Greek Orthodox Funeral Traditions on The Doyenne of Death® Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/greek-orthodox-funeral-traditions-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - How do Greek Orthodox funeral traditions vary from other church funerals? Listen to this conversation with Father Conan Gill on The Doyenne of Death® Podcast. - [How to Consider Your Own Mortality: New Doyenne of Death Podcast Episode](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/how-to-consider-your-own-mortality-new-doyenne-of-death-podcast-episode/) - Dr. Jeffrey Piehler was interviewed on A Good Goodbye and The Doyenne of Death® Podcast about facing your own mortality and funeral planning issues. - [A Visit to LH Design Burial Gown Workshop](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/a-visit-to-lh-design-burial-gown-workshop/) - Leon Harris, owner and designer behind LH Design burial gown for women, takes you on a tour of his workshop and shows how his burial garments are created. - [Online ABQ Death Cafe Scheduled November 27](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/online-abq-death-cafe-scheduled-november-27/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will be held online over Zoom on Sunday, November 27 at 3:00 p.m. Mountain Standard Time. RSVP through the Meetup group. - [Advanced Funeral Planning Tips Every Baby Boomer Needs](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/advanced-funeral-planning-tips-every-baby-boomer-needs/) - You don’t have to spend your children's inheritance on a funeral. Here are some helpful tips about advanced funeral planning. - [Celebrating the Life of Mary Woods](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/celebrating-the-life-of-mary-woods/) - Mary Woods' life was celebrated with a Rosary and Vigil service at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church on Wednesday, February 1, 2023. - [Connect with Baby Boomers on End-of-Life Issues With the Before I Die Festival in a Box™](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/connect-with-baby-boomers-on-end-of-life-issues-with-the-before-i-die-festival-in-a-box/) - The Before I Die Festival in a Box shows how to draw potential clients to a funeral home or cemetery without having to experience the death of a loved one. - [Diana - An Excerpt from A Non-Swimmer Considers Her Mikvah](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/diana-an-excerpt-from-a-non-swimmer-considers-her-mikvah/) - This essay by Mary Carter provides a thoughtful look at feelings of guilt and grief over the death of her husband's ex-wife. - [Funeral Films: The Loved One](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/funeral-films-the-loved-one/) - The Loved One satirizes the funeral business, including pet funerals, as well as the movie industry and the military-industrial complex. - [Friday Funeral Films: The Loved One](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-the-loved-one/) - By Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death® The Loved One debuted in 1965, two years after Jessica Mitford’s exposé book The American Way of Death rocked the funeral industry. Despite its black-and-white vintage, The Loved One satirizes the funeral business, including pet funerals, as well as the movie industry and the military-industrial complex. It shows - [Coronavirus Cinema Collection: Jewish Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/coronavirus-cinema-collection-jewish-funeral-traditions/) - This Coronavirus Cinema Collection video focuses on Jewish Funeral Traditions on Film. We look at two movies from Mexico: Norah's Will and My Mexican Shivah. - [News and Notes: Muslim Funerals, Bernie and Funeral Etiquette](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-muslim-funerals-bernie-and-funeral-etiquette/) - Upcoming radio interviews, funeral etiquette tips and MP3s and CDs of A Good Goodbye Radio now available. - [News: Sex and Death, Eco-Friendly Funerals and Downsizing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/news-sex-and-death-eco-friendly-funerals-and-downsizing/) - These recent news stories and opinion pieces offer insights into love and death, pet loss grief, downsizing and eco-friendly funerals. - [July 12 SEO for Entrepreneurs with Conor Cunneen](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-12-seo-for-entrepreneurs-with-conor-cunneen/) - How can SEO (Search Engine Optimization) help you get more business? Conor Cunneen will help you understand how clients search online for speakers. - [Islamic Funeral Traditions on The Doyenne of Death® Podcast](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/islamic-funeral-traditions-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast/) - Islamic funeral traditions are discussed by Dr. Ahmad-Rufai Abdullah with host Gail Rubin on The Doyenne of Death® Podcast. - [ICCFA Responds to Money Article](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/iccfa-responds-to-money-article/) - In response to Money Magazine's article "The High Cost of Saying Goodbye" (Part One in the November 2012 issue), Robert M. Fells, the Executive Director and General Counsel of ICCFA, the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association, had a few choice words to say. I was cited as an expert in the story, which you - [News and Notes: Estate Planning Hollywood Myths and Facts](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-estate-planning-hollywood-myths-and-facts/) - News on upcoming events and talks, tips on planning a memorial service, FuneralRadio.com interviews and more. - [Caitlin Doughty on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/caitlin-doughty-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Caitlin Doughty discusses Smoke Gets in Your Eyes and Other Lessons from the Crematory, a memoir/call to action for educated and involved funeral consumers. - [Holiday & Family-Friendly Funeral Planning Films](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/holiday-family-friendly-funeral-planning-films/) - Hollywood movies can help start pre-need funeral planning conversations when you watch these family-friendly films over the holidays. - [How Do You 'Talk Turkey' About Cremation Over the Holidays?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/how-do-you-talk-turkey-about-cremation-over-the-holidays/) - End-of-life conversation starting suggestions for the holidays from Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death. - [Pre-Planning Your Funeral is the Right Thing to Do](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-book/pre-planning-your-funeral-is-the-right-thing-to-do/) - Why should you pre-plan your own funeral or memorial service? Here's a personal story that illustrates why it's the right thing to do. - [Odds and Ends: Funeral and Death News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/odds-and-ends-funeral-and-death-news/) - Here's the latest collection of odds and ends of funeral and death related news stories. - [TEDxABQ This Saturday!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/tedxabq-this-saturday/) - Get your tickets today and learn more at TEDxABQ.com. - [Sept. 24 Google Hangout with The Death Chicks](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/sept-24-google-hangout-with-the-death-chicks/) - On Thursday, September 24, Gail Rubin brings a light touch to the serious subject of death with The Death Chicks at 3:00 p.m. ET/noon PT. - [September 12: Gail Rubin Speaks at TEDxABQ!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/september-12-gail-rubin-speaks-at-tedxabq/) - TED talks - Technology, Entertainment and Design - are all about ideas worth spreading. Gail Rubin is speaking at the Main Event for TEDxABQ Sept. 12. - [TEDxABQ Talk Video on End-of-Life Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/tedxabq-talk-video-on-end-of-life-planning/) - Gail Rubin's funny, informative and moving talk offers persuasive reasons to undertake preneed funeral planning. - [Video: New Trends in Death Care](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/video-new-trends-in-death-care/) - Learn about new trends in death care - cremation, home funerals, green burial and creative celebrations of life - in this video speech. - [TEDxABQ Talk Preview Today!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/tedxabq-talk-preview-today/) - Gail Rubin will present her talk, A Good Goodbye, at the downtown Flying Star location, 723 Silver Avenue SW, between 2:00-4:00 p.m. today. - [August 22: Albuquerque Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-22-albuquerque-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Saturday, August 22, 2015 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at Gail Rubin's home - [Friday Funeral Film: Places in the Heart](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-places-in-the-heart/) - I'm starting a series looking at funeral films every Friday! Get the low down on movies that have lessons on life, death and funeral planning. You'll also be able to see these articles in the Funeral Films section at www.AGoodGoodbye.com. Places in the Heart (1984-PG) stars Sally Field in her Oscar Award-winning performance as a - [Think It's Too Soon to Preplan a Funeral? You're Wrong.](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/think-its-too-soon-to-preplan-a-funeral-youre-wrong/) - Funerals have the same elements of party planning as any other get-together. If brides and grooms planned their weddings the way most people plan their funerals, they’d scramble to pull everything together in three to five days. - ['Hail and Farewell' Provides Cremation Memorial Service Guidance](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/hail-and-farewell-provides-cremation-memorial-service-guidance/) - The new book Hail and Farewell: Cremation Ceremonies, Templates and Tips helps families with memorial service guidance and creative ideas. - [NPR Story on Self-Publishing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/npr-story-on-self-publishing/) - There was a great story on NPR this morning about self-publishing and how the book publishing industry is starting to get involved. Self-Publishing: No Longer Just A Vanity Project profiles some folks who took a chance on themselves and the gamble paid off big time. In an ironic twist, now Simon & Schuster is getting - [Review: Caitlin Doughty's New Book 'From Here to Eternity'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/review-caitlin-doughtys-new-book-from-here-to-eternity/) - Caitlin Doughty's book 'From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find The Good Death' offers an eye-opening death care travelogue well worth your time and attention. - [Garden Lore and End-of-Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/garden-lore-and-end-of-life-issues/) - Why can't we accept all the seasons of our lives and plan ahead? - [Obituary for R. Brian Burkhardt, Your Funeral Guy](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/obituary-for-r-brian-burkhardt-your-funeral-guy/) - Robert Brian Burkhardt, the funeral director who wrote the Your Funeral Guy blog, died after a heart attack on January 19, 2011. He was 58 years old. In a sad irony, while he was a crusader for funeral consumers, he left his family totally unprepared – no life insurance, no wishes to follow, no computer - [How to Make Pet Loss Easier to Bear](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-to-make-pet-loss-easier-to-bear/) - These three podcasts on A Good Goodbye Radio provide many great tips help address pet loss. - [Pet Loss and Disenfranchised Grief on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/pet-loss-and-disenfranchised-grief-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Coleen Ellis, founder of Two Hearts Pet Loss Center and co-chair of the Pet Loss Professionals Alliance, discusses saying goodbye to our furry friends. - [Friday Funeral Film: Hannah and Her Sisters](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-hannah-and-her-sisters/) - Woody Allen’s classic comedy Hannah and Her Sisters (1986) is an unlikely funeral film, as no one actually dies. But it’s instructive about living and dying. Allen shines at his hypochondriac best as Mickey, who obsesses about death and whether there’s an afterlife. Mickey is bothered by a ringing in his ear and undergoes numerous - [Encountering the Dead in Real Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/encountering-the-dead-in-real-life/) - In today's New York Times opinion section, there's a thought-provoking piece by Bess Lovejoy, author of the forthcoming book Rest in Pieces: The Curious Fates of Famous Corpses. The column, titled "The Dead Have Something to Tell You," provides a look at how death has drifted away from home, now handled by professionals. She also provides - [Exploring Buddhist Funeral Traditions on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/exploring-buddhist-funeral-traditions-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - The next A Good Goodbye Radio program focuses on Buddhist funeral traditions with guest Rev. Harry Gyokyo Bridge. - [The Family Plot Named a Top Funeral Website](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/the-family-plot-named-a-top-funeral-website/) - YourFuneralGuy, a respected blogger on funeral issues with the consumer in mind, recently came out with his list of top 10 funeral websites. Congratulations to My Last Song by Paul Hensby (#1), and The Good Funeral Guide Blog by Charles Cowling (#2), both based in the U.K., and (#3) Death Reference Desk, which gives an - [Radio Interview Thursday on WCOM-FM](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/radio-interview-thursday-on-wcom-fm/) - Gail Rubin, author of The Family Plot Blog and A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die, will be interviewed Thursday, July 29 at 1:00 p.m. ET/noon CT/11:00 a.m. MT/10:00 a.m. PT on the radio program The Boomer Beat on WCOM-FM in Carrboro, NC. This one-hour program is an interesting mix - [Memorial Art Glass](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/memorial-art-glass/) - Here are two glass artists represented at the 2012 ICCFA expo. The neat thing about the art you'll see in these videos is that cremated remains are embedded in the glass. Lennart Caspersen, representing Beverly's Tropical Glass Design Studio in Naples, Florida, shows off some very creative art glass. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgNm2CxkJ2A Kent Kahlen with Kahlen Studio - [Friday Funeral Films: Death at a Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-death-at-a-funeral/) - There are two versions of Death at a Funeral, and both deal with issues like writing a eulogy, paying for a funeral, and holding a funeral at home. - [October 30: What the Dead Want to Tell You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/october-30-what-the-dead-want-to-tell-you/) - "Women Who Know: What the Dead Want to Tell You" - this panel discussion on Friday, October 30, 5:00 p.m. MDT brings an upbeat message that death is not final. - [Video: Graveyards of the Wild West: New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/video-graveyards-of-the-wild-west-new-mexico/) - Learn about old cemeteries in New Mexico from Heather Moulton. - [Festival Video: Meaningful Memorials and How to Create a Digital Legacy](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/festival-video-meaningful-memorials-and-how-to-create-a-digital-legacy/) - Who will manage your digital legacy after you die? Shutting down social media accounts can be complicated, says Mandy Benoualid, President of Keeper. - [Festival Video: Estate Property Distribution and Downsizing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/festival-video-estate-property-distribution-and-downsizing/) - “Estate Property Distribution and Downsizing” is presented by Karen Hyatt, owner and manager EstatePros LLC, part of the 2021 Before I Die NM Festival. - [Festival Video: Making Altars to Honor the Deceased](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/festival-video-making-altars-to-honor-the-deceased/) - “How to Make Altars Honoring Deceased Loved Ones” was a 90-minute workshop with Annie Mattingley, part of the 2021 Before I Die New Mexico Festival. - [Abraham Lincoln, Embalming and Springfield's Oak Ridge Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/abraham-lincoln-embalming-and-springfields-oak-ridge-cemetery/) - “Abraham Lincoln and the Impact of His Death on Modern Embalming” is a Before I Die New Mexico Festival session that covers the history of modern embalming. - [Festival Video: Who Will Speak for You?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/festival-video-who-will-speak-for-you/) - In this Before I Die NM Festival video, Althea Halchuck addresses questions about medical surrogacy and how to pick a good spokesperson. - [Video: Property Reincarnation with Karen Hyatt of Estate Pros](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/video-property-reincarnation-with-karen-hyatt-of-estate-pros/) - This one-hour presentation features insights into how to tackle clutter and downsizing, valuation of goods and furniture, and dramatic Before and After photos. - [Nov. 2: Managing Possessions Panel](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/nov-2-managing-possessions-panel/) - "Managing Our Loved Ones' Possessions Before and After They Die," a panel discussion with authors and experts can help with downsizing and emotions. - [Announcing the 4th Annual Before I Die New Mexico Virtual Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/announcing-the-4th-annual-before-i-die-new-mexico-virtual-festival-2/) - The 4th annual Before I Die New Mexico Festival is going online as a virtual, safe experience, held October 30 to November 2, 2020, at www.BeforeIDieNM.com. - [Announcing the 4th Annual Before I Die New Mexico Virtual Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/announcing-the-4th-annual-before-i-die-new-mexico-virtual-festival/) - The Before I Die New Mexico Virtual Festival, offers four days of death-positive conversations and experiences Oct. 30 to Nov. 2, 2020, at www.BeforeIDieNM.com. - [TV Series “A Good Goodbye” Returns to Albuquerque Cable](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/tv-series-a-good-goodbye-returns-to-albuquerque-cable/) - Series starts January 5, 2021 on Comcast Cable Channel 27 The TV series A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die returns to Albuquerque’s Comcast Cable Channel 27 starting January 5, 2021, at 8:00 p.m. MST. The 14-episode series of 30-minute programs presents expert interviews on everything you need to know - [End-of-Life and Funeral News Stories](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/end-of-life-and-funeral-news-stories/) - Read these recent news stories about death doulas and end-of-life issues in the media. Stories in The Washington Post, NPR, Kiplinger.com and Psychology Today. - [Emails About Death and Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/emails-about-death-and-funerals/) - Emails are helpful for keeping large groups of friends and relatives informed and updated during a loved one’s illness. However, it has drawbacks for funerals. - [August 15: Volunteer Historic Cemetery Clean Up](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-15-volunteer-historic-cemetery-clean-up/) - There will be another volunteer clean up event at Historic Fairview Cemetery in Albuquerque on Saturday, August 15 starting at 9:00 a.m. Join us, won't you? - [On My Bucket List This Week: Dayton's Before I Die Festival Ohio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/on-my-bucket-list-this-week-daytons-before-i-die-festival-ohio/) - Put the Before I Die Festival Ohio, taking place in Dayton October 27-29, 2022, on your bucket list today! Check out the schedule in this blog post - [Register Now for the Before I Die Ohio Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/register-now-for-the-before-i-die-ohio-festival/) - The first Before I Die Ohio Festival will take place October 27-29, 2022 in Dayton, Ohio. Register today for this upbeat and fascinatingseries of events. - [Videos: Unique Funeral Products at the ICCFA Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/videos-unique-funeral-products-at-the-iccfa-expo/) - As the U.S. cremation rate keeps going up, the range of cremation products at the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association (ICCFA) expo expands. Here are three unique products introduced at the 2018 convention. - [Let's Play Death Ed Bingo!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/lets-play-death-ed-bingo/) - On January 21, be one of the first people to play Gail Rubin's new game, Death Ed Bingo. - [Next Online Death Cafe with Gail Rubin Coming February 12](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/next-online-death-cafe-with-gail-rubin-coming-february-12/) - The Death Cafe will be held on Sunday, February 12 at 3:00 p.m. Mountain Standard Time with your host Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®. - [Video: Dying with Ease Interview with Dr. Jeff Spiess](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/video-dying-with-ease-interview-with-dr-jeff-spiess/) - Got concerns about dying? Listen to Dr. Jeff Spiess, author of the book Dying with Ease: A Compassionate Guide for Making Wiser End-of-Life Decisions. - [Video Book Review: A Beginner's Guide to the End](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/video-book-review-a-beginners-guide-to-the-end/) - Beginner's Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death has valuable end-of-life details you won't find in other such nonfiction titles. - [Book Review: Finish Strong Helps at End-of-Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/book-review-finish-strong-helps-at-end-of-life/) - Finish Strong: Putting Your Priorities First at Life’s End by Barbara Coombs Lee is a great guide book to help people navigate the rocky shoals of end-of-life. - [End-of-Life Thoughts from Stephen Jenkinson](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/end-of-life-thoughts-from-stephen-jenkinson/) - Stephen Jenkinson, the author of Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul, has a lot to say about death and dying. - [News and Notes: NFDA Coverage to Come!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-nfda-coverage-to-come/) - News about the upcoming NFDA convention and expo, Create a Great Funeral Day, A Good Goodbye Radio and upcoming events. - [Book Review of Celebrating a Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/book-review-of-celebrating-a-life/) - Celebrating a Life: Planning Memorial Services and Other Creative Remembrances by Faith Moore (Stewart, Tabori & Chang, 2009) provides many good insights for memorial service or funeral planning. Moore has a wealth of creative ideas for meaningful ways to honor a loved one. I especially like how she refers to the deceased as "the honoree" - [Friday Funeral Film: The Way](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-the-way/) - The Way looks at the journey of life and making the most of this lifetime. The film also shows cremation scattering scenes. - [Funeral Business Advisor Review: Kicking the Bucket List](https://agoodgoodbye.com/kicking-the-bucket/funeral-business-advisor-review-kicking-the-bucket-list/) - Check out the review of KICKING THE BUCKET LIST: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die in the Sept./Oct. issue of Funeral Business Advisor. - [Introducing the PICLIF Memorial Video App](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/introducing-the-piclif-memorial-video-app/) - Here's a fast, easy way for multiple people to contribute photos for a memorial service video, making the funeral director's job easier. - [The Times, They Are A-Changing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/the-times-they-are-a-changing/) - This Saturday's ABQ Death Cafe is moved back to 3:00 p.m. - and there's a new administration moving into the White House. - [Oct. 24 and 25: NFDA Book Signings](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/oct-24-and-25-nfda-book-signings/) - Meet with with author Gail Rubin at the 2016 National Funeral Directors Association Convention and Expo 4:00 to 5:00 pm, Funeral Business Advisor's booth. - [A Peek at The Doyenne of Death's Mail](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/a-peek-at-the-doyenne-of-deaths-mail/) - As the Doyenne of Death, I get some interesting pieces of mail - to the great amusement of my husband. - [Talking Turkey on End-of-Life Issues at Thanksgiving](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/talking-turkey-on-end-of-life-issues-at-thanksgiving/) - With multiple generations under one roof during the holidays, discuss important end-of-life issues with these resources to get the conversation started. - [Story on Events in Cemeteries](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/story-on-events-in-cemeteries/) - The Wall Street Journal just did a story titled, "To Attract Future Customers, Cemeteries Hold Parties to Die For." Cemeteries are holding dances, concerts, barbecues, sky diving contests, anything to get people into the cemetery for an event besides a funeral. From the article: The goal: to nurture warm feelings about the cemetery, in hopes - [Pet Loss](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/pet-loss/) - Pet loss:How we treat our pets, and how we treat the people we love, reflect our individual approaches to end-of-life care. - [News and Notes: Charging into the New Year](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-charging-into-the-new-year/) - A lot of great news came in over the holidays that I'd like to share with you. - [Famous Dead Americans in New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/famous-dead-americans-in-new-mexico/) - This week's Alibi features the theme "7 Wonders of New Mexico." Of course, I'm partial to the story "7 Grave Wonders: Rest in Peace Famous Americans." Among those they recognize: Billy the Kid: Nov. 23, 1859-July 14, 1881 Legends about this outlaw will go on forever, but we do know that he was shot to - [Ash Scattering Far and Wide](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/ash-scattering-far-and-wide/) - Learn about ash scattering in this blog post. - [Court Ruling: Aid in Dying Is a Fundamental Right in New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/court-ruling-aid-in-dying-is-a-fundamental-right-in-new-mexico/) - Breaking news! New Mexico Judge Nan Nash issued a landmark decision that terminally ill, mentally competent patients can have aid in dying. - [Discussing End-of-Life Issues on Radio and in Print](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/discussing-end-of-life-issues-on-radio-and-in-print/) - Two media interviews of interest you may want to check out: today's Albuquerque Journal and tomorrow's Eric Tonningsen's Awakening to Awareness show. - [Estate Planning Lessons from the Frozen Dead Guy](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/estate-planning-lessons-from-the-frozen-dead-guy/) - Mark your calendar for two great events in Colorado: Frozen Dead Guy Days and a "Laughing in the Face of Death" presentation! - [Trends in Funerals in the U.K.](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/trends-in-funerals-in-the-u-k/) - The Funeral Service Journal in the United Kingdom, "The Industry Bible Since 1886," just reported on funeral planning trends there. Many of these findings reflect similar trends revealed in the Funeralwise.com survey of people in the US. The Ways We Say Goodbye is the first study to draw information from the arrangements being made at - [Mark Your Calendars and Vote for Frozen Dead Guy Days!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/mark-your-calendars-and-vote-for-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - Gail Rubin returns to the Frozen Dead Guy Days festival, March 13-15, 2020, presenting The Newly-Dead Game® and shows "Grandpa's in the TUFF Shed." - [Funeral Pre-Pay Pros and Cons](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/pre-pay-pros-and-cons/) - Pre-planning a funeral does not necessarily mean it’s pre-paid. There are arguments to be made both for and against pre-payment. - [Eulogies by Steve Martin and Martin Short](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-jokes/eulogies-by-steve-martin-and-martin-short/) - Eulogies can be hard to write. How can you incorporate humor? Check out this off-the-rails exchange of eulogies by Steve Martin and Martin Short on SNL - [Next Online ABQ Death Cafe January 8, 2023](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/next-online-abq-death-cafe-january-8-2023/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe, hosted by Gail Rubin, the Doyenne of Death® will be held online over Zoom on Sunday, January 8 at 3:00 p.m. MST. - [Life and Death After Fifty: Stories from "The Time of Your Life"](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/life-and-death-after-fifty-stories-from-the-time-of-your-life/) - Gayle Leona Jabour and Daniel Tigner join host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on November 6 to discuss amazing stories of living fully and dying well. - [Discussing Solstice, Hospice, NDEs and DVDs](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/discussing-solstice-hospice-ndes-and-dvds/) - These short days before the Winter Solstice remind us our time in the sunshine of this lifetime is limited. - [Friday Funeral Film: The Queen](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-the-queen/) - The 2007 film The Queen traces the Royal Family's evolving response to the death of Princess Diana in 1997 and planning for her funeral. - [How Much Mercury is in Your Mouth?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-much-mercury-is-in-your-mouth/) - Your dental fillings can harm the environment if you choose cremation for your final disposition. Read more about mercury in dental amalgams. - [Mary Tyler Moore Plans Chuckles' Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/mary-tyler-moore-plans-chuckles-funeral/) - The "Chuckles Bites the Dust" episode of The Mary Tyler Moore Show - a great tribute to a great actress and comedienne. - [Consumers Need to Focus On Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/consumers-need-to-focus-on-funerals/) - News about how hard it can be to get a handle on funeral costs, tips to make it easier, and other news and notes from Gail Rubin at A Good Goodbye. - [MesoLoft Can Scatter Your Ashes in the Stratosphere](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/mesoloft-can-scatter-your-ashes-in-the-stratosphere/) - MesoLoft offers an out-of-this-world ash scattering service that will appeal to weather geeks, space enthusiasts, aviation fans, and world travelers. - [Greek Orthodox Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/greek-orthodox-funeral-traditions/) - This post highlights funeral practices of the Greek Orthodox Church in general. The actual practices of individual families and congregations may vary. - [What to Know About Four Remarkable Religions' Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/what-to-know-about-four-remarkable-religions-funeral-traditions/) - Four A Good Goodbye podcasts answer questions about religious funeral traditions for adherents of the Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist and Greek Orthodox faiths. - [Christmas End-of-Life Conversation Starters](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/christmas-end-of-life-conversation-starters/) - When you are together with your family over the holidays, this can be a great time to find out each person's thoughts on end-of-life wishes. Yes, really. - [Tips to Approach Decluttering and Downsizing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/tips-to-approach-decluttering-and-downsizing/) - Eight tips to help approach the daunting task of downsizing, decluttering and minimizing your stuff. - [Fun Photos from the NFDA Convention & Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/fun-photos-from-the-nfda-convention-expo/) - NFDA has the largest funeral expo in the world, a colorful, unpredictable and amazing collection of all things funereal. A few fun photos to start. - [Review: The Soul Sitter's Handbook](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/review-the-soul-sitters-handbook/) - The Soul Sitter’s Handbook provides sensitive guidelines on how to be present and supportive in the face of the dying process. - [Emotional Wisdom Training Radio Interview](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/emotional-wisdom-training-radio-interview/) - Today on Emotional Wisdom Training Radio, Gail Rubin discusses how to use laughter and a light touch to proactively address death and end-of-life issues. - [Chaplain Karen Kaplan Speaks About Hospice, Book](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/chaplain-karen-kaplan-speaks-about-hospice-book/) - Chaplain Karen Kaplan was interviewed on A Good Goodbye Radio about her book, Encountering the Edge: What People Told Me Before They Died. - [News and Notes: Facebook Legacy Pages](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-facebook-legacy-pages/) - News about Facebook's legacy page policy changes, upcoming talks and events with Gail Rubin, and a humorous quote! - [Discussing Death and Dying with Joan Gibson](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/discussing-death-and-dying-with-joan-gibson/) - Joan Gibson, Ph.D., has been discussing death and dying since the 1970s. She shares her knowledge on medical ethics and decision making on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Baby Boomers to Funeral Industry: Change or Die](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/baby-boomers-to-funeral-industry-change-or-die/) - Josh Slocum, executive director of the Funeral Consumers Alliance and co-author of Final Rights, discusses funeral consumer issues on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Friday Funeral Film: Little Miss Sunshine](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-little-miss-sunshine/) - Little Miss Sunshine shows some of the paperwork involved with death, transporting a body in your own vehicle (illegally) and other funeral related issues. - [Friday Funeral Film: Get Low](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-get-low/) - A film based on the true story of Felix Bush, who held his own funeral while he was still alive. - [Keeper and GatheringUs Merge Online Memorial Services](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/keeper-and-gatheringus-merge-online-memorial-services/) - Keeper and GatheringUs, companies that specialize in online and hybrid memorial services, are joining forces. Both participated in Before I Die NM Festivals. - [A Good Goodbye's Twelve Days of Christmas](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/a-good-goodbyes-twelve-days-of-christmas/) - "The Twelve Days of Christmas" with a twist. These are items that funeral homes might sell or families may provide at memorial services - set to music! - [July 8: Virtual Coffee with Gail Rubin through the JCC](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-8-virtual-coffee-with-gail-rubin-through-the-jcc/) - This Wednesday, July 8, 2020, join the JCC's Virtual Coffee Hour from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. with Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death®. - [Fabulous New Products at the NFDA Convention: Part Three](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/fabulous-new-products-at-the-nfda-convention-part-three/) - More videos from the 2019 NFDA expo: UPD Urns, Sich cremation caskets, The Stepper from Mortuary Lift, Evangelical Garment Services, and Post and Boost. - [August 29: What the Dead Want You To Know](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-29-what-the-dead-want-you-to-know/) - As part of the virtual death discussion festival Reimagine: Life, Loss & Love, join in the conversation, "What the Dead Want You To Know" on August 29, 2020. - [August 11: A Quick Talk on Before I Die ABQ](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/august-11-a-quick-talk-on-before-i-die-abq/) - The Alibi hosts ABQ PechaKucha Night at the South Broadway Cultural Center, featuring Gail Rubin introducing the first Before I Die ABQ festival. - [Dec. 10: Talk and Signing at Treasure House Books](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/dec-10-talk-and-signing-at-treasure-house-books/) - The weekly Alibi did a cheeky promo for Gail's book signing at Treasure House Books tomorrow! - [Five Downsizing and Organizing Tips for the New Year](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/five-downsizing-and-organizing-tips-for-the-new-year/) - Take this time between Christmas and New Year's to review your stuff, delete the excess and organize your information. - [Radio Interview on "Having The Last Say"](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/radio-interview-on-having-the-last-say/) - Why writing a "last say" is important, and how to capture your legacy in one small story - an interview with author Alan Gelb. - [Wayne Dyer and Wes Craven Deaths](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/wayne-dyer-and-wes-craven-deaths/) - The deaths of Wayne Dyer and Wes Craven over the weekend provide a pop culture contrast of light and dark. - [The Palliative Care Four Questions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/the-palliative-care-four-questions/) - These aren't the Passover Four Questions, but they will help chart a course in the wilderness of medical treatment toward end-of-life. - [News and Notes: A Good Goodbye Radio Returns](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-a-good-goodbye-radio-returns/) - News about the return of A Good Goodbye Radio, Medicare covering end-of-life conversations, videos and upcoming events with Gail Rubin. - [Five Funeral Planning Tips](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/five-funeral-planning-tips/) - Today my guest blog post for the American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys (www.aaepa.com) is about five tips to help start the funeral planning conversation. You can read all the details at the AAEPA blog. In a nutshell, the five tips are: 1. Shop Before You Drop 2. Watch a Funny Film 3. Watch a - [Reacting to News of a Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/reacting-news-death/) - Debra Greene, Ph.D., recently sent me this letter about her mother's death. Her mom had done her funeral planning arrangements, and still, the news is such a shock. Debra, an Energy Health Specialist practicing Mind-Body Medicine, has some good insights on processing grief. Debra said I could share her story on the blog. She is - [Hearses Through History at AFDA is a Hit!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/hearses-through-history-at-afda-is-a-hit/) - Check out this new video clip collection created as part of the evening entertainment for the Alabama Funeral Directors Association convention. - [Funeral Arrangements for Aretha Franklin and John McCain](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-arrangements-for-aretha-franklin-and-john-mccain/) - With thousands wanting to pay tribute to Aretha Franklin and John McCain, it's a challenge to coordinate multiple events in different places. - [News About A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/news-about-a-good-goodbye-2/) - Just released this news today and wanted to share it with you: Those Who Don’t Plan to Die Are Killing Their Families Americans plan their finances, their families, their retirement, just about everything – except their funerals. That omission can mess up all their other life plans. A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who - [A Good Goodbye Selected as 2010 Book of the Year Award Finalist](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/a-good-goodbye-selected-as-2010-book-of-the-year-award-finalist/) - A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die is a finalist for the 2010 Book of the Year Awards in the Family and Relationships category. Americans plan their finances, their families, their retirement, just about everything – except their funerals. That omission can mess up all their other life plans. A - [Jewish Funeral and Mourning Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-funeral-and-mourning-traditions/) - A quick overview of Jewish funeral and mourning traditions with links to more resources. - [Funeral Traditions for Various Orthodox Churches](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/funeral-traditions-for-various-orthodox-churches/) - This post highlights general funeral practices for various Orthodox churches besides Greek Orthodox: Antiochian Orthodox, Carpatho-Russian Orthodox, Romanian Orthodox, Russian Orthodox, Serbian Orthodox and Ukranian Orthodox. The actual practices of individuals, families, and congregations may vary. Treatment of the body: Embalming is accepted. The body is usually viewed during the funeral. Cremation is frowned upon - [Alkaline Hydrolysis - An Excerpt from A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/alkaline-hydrolysis-an-excerpt-from-a-good-goodbye/) - A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die is now available! Here's a small excerpt from the chapter titled "We Can Do That? New Trends in Death Care" about alkaline hydrolysis. A New Eco-Friendly Disposal Method While not in widespread use by funeral homes yet, there’s a relatively new process that - [YourFuneralGuy Names A Good Goodbye #1 for 2010](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/yourfuneralguy-names-a-good-goodbye-1-for-2010/) - A GOOD GOODBYE IS NUMBER ONE! Respected funeral blogger R. Brian Burkhardt, YourFuneralGuy, just posted about his top picks in the best funeral books of 2010. A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die by yours truly, Gail Rubin, was his number one pick. High praise from professionals in hospice, funeral - [A Good Goodbye is a Book of the Year Award Finalist](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/a-good-goodbye-finalis-book-of-the-year-award/) - A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die is a finalist in the 2010 Book of the Year Awards Family and Relationships category. The awards were announced by ForeWord Reviews magazine at the American Library Association annual convention in New Orleans. Americans plan their finances, their families, their retirement, just about - [2011 Best of Show Award for A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/2011-best-of-show-award-for-a-good-goodbye/) - A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die by Gail Rubin just won the 2011 Best of Show Award for the New Mexico Book Awards. The book also won in the Family Issues category and was a finalist in four other categories. There were 37 award categories overall. "It was such - [A Jewish Headstone Unveiling Ceremony](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/a-jewish-headstone-unveiling-ceremony/) - What one Jewish headstone unveiling ceremony looks like, by Gail Rubin, author of A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die. - [Massachusetts Death with Dignity Act](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/massachusetts-death-with-dignity-act/) - This Election Day, November 6, voters in Massachusetts will decide whether to adopt a Death with Dignity Act. The vote will determine whether a dying patient can obtain a medication from his or her physician, with the intent to bring about a faster, easier death, if the patient chooses. It's a topic we'll touch on - [“Ask A Mortician” Caitlin Doughty on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/ask-a-mortician-caitlin-doughty-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Caitlin Doughty joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on Oct. 2 to talk about staring death in the face – and laughing. - [How Can Baby Boomers Handle Aging Parents’ Healthcare Crises?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-can-baby-boomers-handle-aging-parents-healthcare-crises/) - How can Baby Boomers handle aging parents’ healthcare crises? Find out on A Good Goodbye Radio Oct. 23. - [News and Notes: Halloween and Day of the Dead](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-halloween-and-day-of-the-dead/) - News and Notes about Create a Great Funeral Day, Everybody Dies: Lessons from Six Feet Under, and tips from Katy Butler's interview. - [The Legacy of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/the-legacy-of-elisabeth-kubler-ross/) - Dianne Gray, president, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation, joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on Wednesday, Oct. 16 on The RockStar Radio Network. - [Friday Funeral Films: Undertaking Betty](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-films-undertaking-betty/) - Undertaking Betty provides a comedic romp behind-the-scenes at two funeral homes in the small village of Wrottin-Powys in Wales. - [Walt Disney: Baked, Not Frozen](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/walt-disney-baked-not-frozen/) - Urban legend set straight in Southwest Airline's Spirit Magazine March issue: Walt Disney was NOT cryogenically preserved, as some people seem to think. According to Albert Jack, author of Phantom Hitchhikers and Other Urban Legends: The Strange Stories Behind Tall Tales, Disney is not cryopreserved at Disneyland. Says Jack: "It's rumored that Walt Disney had - [Smoke Gets In Your Eyes by Caitlin Doughty](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/smoke-gets-in-your-eyes-by-caitlin-doughty/) - Humor shines throughout Caitlin Doughty's new (and first) book, Smoke Gets In Your Eyes & Other Lessons from the Crematory. - [Book Review: MORGUE - A Life in Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/book-review-morgue-a-life-in-death/) - Dr. Vincent DiMaio, author of MORGUE A Life in Death, is a forensic pathologist who's performed more than 9,000 autopsies and an expert on gunshot wounds. - [ABQ Death Cafe: Don't Fear the Reaper](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/abq-death-cafe-dont-fear-the-reaper/) - RSVP for the next ABQ Death Cafe on June 4 and let's take Death out of the closet and talk about what's on your mind about mortality issues. - [SouthWest Writers Interview with Gail Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/southwest-writers-interview-with-gail-rubin/) - SouthWest Writers did a Q&A with Certified Thanatologist Gail Rubin on writing KICKING THE BUCKET LIST and marketing for writers. - [Books to Die For Video: Opening to Grief](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/books-to-die-for-video-opening-to-grief/) - Claire B. Willis, co-author of Opening to Grief: finding your way from loss to peace, offers insights about how to manage grief during a year of loss. - [Videos: Donating Blood and Social Distancing Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/videos-donating-blood-and-social-distancing-funerals/) - These two Doyenne of Death videos were recently posted on YouTube: Funerals in the Age of Coronavirus and Watch the Doyenne of Death Donate Blood. - [Hail and Farewell: Cremation Ceremonies, Templates and Tips](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/hail-and-farewell-cremation-ceremonies-templates-and-tips/) - HAIL AND FAREWELL: Cremation Ceremonies, Templates and Tips provides all the answers for families looking for direction to celebrate the life of a loved one. - [Benjamin Franklin on Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/eulogies/benjamin-franklin-on-death/) - From Benjamin Franklin, some wise words expressing his view of life and death, featured in the book Hail and Farewell: Cremation Ceremonies, Templates and Tips. - [Decluttering Tips for the Fall Season](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/decluttering-tips-for-the-fall-season/) - Seven smart ideas to help get a handle on clutter and sanity this fall. - [News and Notes: The Wayne Dyer Effect](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-the-wayne-dyer-effect/) - Wayne Dyer's obituary, TEDxABQ news, and upcoming events with Gail Rubin, CT. - [Radio Interview on WHRV-FM](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/radio-interview-on-whrv-fm/) - From noon to 1:00 p.m. ET (10:00 a.m. MT) today, I'll be with Cathy Lewis live in her studio to talk about funeral planning for those who don’t plan to die and the "funny" in funeral. We'll be joined by Robert Webster, a licensed embalmer, funeral director, and author of "Does This Mean You’ll See - [[Video]: Faking Your Funeral for the Holidays](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/video-faking-your-funeral-for-the-holidays/) - Don't be so busy this holiday that you can't make time to be with your family, however you define it. - [Starting the Conversation on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/starting-the-conversation-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - A Good Goodbye Radio starts the conversation on end-of-life issues with Martha Hayward of The Conversation Project. - [Friday Funeral Film: The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/friday-funeral-film-the-best-exotic-marigold-hotel/) - This film features a beautiful Hindu funeral scene: a burning pyre that reduces the body to ash, and the ceremonial scattering of ashes in water. - [U.S. Undertakers in the 1800s](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/u-s-undertakers-in-the-1800s/) - In the 19th century, most undertakers made furniture or cabinets. They expanded their lines to include wooden coffins or caskets. The difference between a coffin and a casket is the shape – coffins taper at the feet and head, with a distinctive six-sided configuration. Then these entrepreneurs offered to “undertake” services for the grieving families, - [Remembering Robert Burkhardt](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/remembering-robert-burkhardt/) - Your Funeral Guy, R. Brian Burkhardt, died of a heart attack on January 19, 2011. - [Engage With Grace This Thanksgiving](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/engage-with-grace-this-thanksgiving/) - As the family gathers together this Thanksgiving weekend, it's an ideal time to start a conversation on end-of-life wishes, don't you think? Actually, you probably haven't thought about it. You just want to get through the turkey feast, the football games, the Black Friday shopping, and hanging out with your family without getting too deep. - [More Coronavirus Funeral News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/more-coronavirus-funeral-news/) - Coronavirus funeral news continues to pile up. How funeral directors are responding to the worst mass death event in more than 100 years. - [Funeral News You Can Use](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-news-you-can-use/) - A collection of recent news stories about the coronavirus pandemic, grief, body disposition, and advance medical directives. - [More Funeral News Stories](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/more-funeral-news-stories/) - These recent funeral news stories focus on COVID-19 pandemic deaths, unclaimed bodies, hospice care access, bucket lists, and why we treasure certain items. - [Coronavirus News Impacting Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/coronavirus-news-impacting-funerals/) - News around coronavirus deaths and funerals continues to develop. Here are a few more stories from various news outlets. - [The Long Viral Obituary for the Remarkable Joe Heller](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/the-long-viral-obituary-for-the-remarkable-joe-heller/) - The exceedingly long obituary for Joe Heller of Centerbrook, Connecticut proves that a well-told life story is well worth sharing. - [News to Know Now About Death, Dying and Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-to-know-now-about-death-dying-and-funerals/) - A news round up of human body composting, doctors discussing end-of-life, green burial, and other recent developments in the media. - [Pre-Need Funeral Planning in the News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/pre-need-funeral-planning-in-the-news/) - Check out these two articles on pre-need funeral planning in The New York Times and the Huffington Post in Canada. - [Can You Actually Benefit from Sadness?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/can-you-actually-benefit-from-experiencing-sadness/) - Even though death and loss breaks hearts, many people strive to stay positive and upbeat. “Must not cry” is the unconscious mantra of many grievers – and it’s harmful. The animated film Inside Out provides great lessons on sadness. - [Dogs Find Lost Cremated Remains and Other News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/dogs-find-lost-cremated-remains-and-other-news/) - How do you find human ashes within the burned rubble of homes caught in the October firestorm in Santa Rosa? This story shows the importance of a permanent final resting place (i.e. a cemetery) for cremated remains kept at home. - [More News on End-of-Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/more-news-on-end-of-life-issues/) - You know, Sarah Palin may have done the hospice and palliative care movement a great favor with her incendiary comment about "death panels." Look for these two thoughtful articles from yesterday's New York Times: Months to Live: At the End, Offering Not a Cure, but Comfort by Anemona Hartocollis, a wonderful profile of a palliative - [Discussing Dying with Parents](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/discussing-dying-with-parents/) - Communications over advance directives is one of the toughest conversations to start. End-of-life issues literally scare most families down a path toward a needlessly painful, extended death. Today's New York Times Sunday Dialogue is titled Discussing Dying With Loved Ones. It's an exchange of letters on the topic of how aging parents, their children and - [October 11: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/october-11-online-death-cafe/) - The next online ABQ Death Cafe will take place on Zoom on Sunday, October 11 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. - [Woodmen of the World had Amazing Memorial Markers](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/woodmen-of-the-world-had-amazing-memorial-markers/) - Some people say they would like to become a tree when they die. The Woodmen of the World used to give you a memorial marker that looked like a tree. - [Before I Die Festival Starts End-of-Life Conversations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/before-i-die-festival-starts-end-of-life-conversations/) - Before I Die Festivals offer a creative way to get people thinking ahead about end-of-life care, funeral arrangements, wills, etc, and spark conversations. - [Gail Marie Matthews: Celebrating a Remarkable Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/gail-marie-matthews-celebrating-a-remarkable-life/) - The celebration of Gail Marie Matthews' life filled the funeral home chapel to overflowing with people who came to honor the memory of an awesome woman. - [Pet Loss Issues on Episode 6 of A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/pet-loss-issues-on-episode-6-of-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Pet loss and ways to memorialize a pet are covered in this week's episode of A Good Goodbye TV. The guests interviewed are pet loss grief counselor Ann Beyke and Vaughn Hendren with Best Friends Pet Cremation Services and Best Friends Forever cemetery. This episode also features the pet loss resources available at Funeralwise.com. This - [An Obituary Through the Eyes of Grandchildren](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/an-obituary-through-the-eyes-of-grandchildren/) - How would your grandchildren describe you for your obituary? - [Contribute to the Interactive Map: Death in a Time of Corona](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/contribute-to-the-interactive-map-death-in-a-time-of-corona/) - Do you work in the death care sector? Have you recently experienced a death? Want to share your stories of death during the coronavirus pandemic with the world? - [Fabulous New Products at the NFDA Convention: Part Two](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/fabulous-new-products-at-the-nfda-convention-part-two/) - More videos featuring the interesting products and services on display at the National Funeral Directors Association convention and expo. - [Cool Hot Wheels at NFDA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/cool-hot-wheels-at-nfda/) - The cutting edge funeral directors at NFDA looked at very cool hot wheels from the Tombstone Motorcycle Hearse Company and Vaca Limousines. - [NFDA: Merry Christmas From Heaven, Flagpoles and Digital Registries](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/nfda-merry-christmas-from-heaven-flagpoles-and-digital-registries/) - A few more videos of innovative products showcased at NFDA's 2013 convention and expo in Austin. Did you know such tools for this trade exists? - [Funny Death Ad for Before I Die New Mexico Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/funny-death-ad-for-before-i-die-new-mexico-festival/) - Which version of this death ad funny video for the Before I Die New Mexico Festival do you prefer? - [Death Education is a Lot Like Sex Education](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/death-education-is-a-lot-like-sex-education/) - This medical doctor agrees with my motto: "Just as talking about sex won't make you pregnant, talking about funerals won't make you dead." - [Oct. 20: ABQ Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/oct-20-abq-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Sunday, October 20, 2019 from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. - [EXPIRATION INSPIRATIONS: Thesaurus of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/expiration-inspirations-thesaurus-of-death/) - Kel McBride, the Lively Death Lady, has put together a delightful list of euphemisms for death. - [Before I Go: The Essential Guide to Creating a Good End-of-Life Plan](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/before-i-go-the-essential-guide-to-creating-a-good-end-of-life-plan/) - To prepare for end-of-life issues, read and use the advice in Before I Go: The Essential Guide to Creating a Good End of Life Plan by Jane Duncan Rogers. - [Video: Interview with Before I Go Solutions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/video-interview-with-before-i-go-solutions/) - Listen and learn about funeral planning issues on this online video interview with Before I Go Solutions hosted by Jane Duncan Rogers. - [More Cowbell: The 40th anniversary of '(Don't Fear) the Reaper'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/more-cowbell-the-40th-anniversary-of-dont-fear-the-reaper/) - You might not believe it, but the message behind "(Don't Fear) The Reaper" is not meant to be spooky. More cowbell! - [Obituary as One Act Play: Shannon L. Marshall](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/obituary-as-one-act-play-shannon-l-marshall/) - This creative obituary for actress Shannon Marshall shares her life story as a play script. Bravo to whoever wrote this obituary! - [The TEDxABQ-Toastmasters Connection](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/the-tedxabq-toastmasters-connection/) - The training Toastmasters International provides helped Gail Rubin become a speaker at TEDxABQ 2015. - [Video: How a Thesaurus Makes You Appear Smarter](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/video-how-a-thesaurus-makes-you-appear-smarter/) - Here's a short speech on how to use a thesaurus to liven up your language in speaking and writing. It can help you sound smarter. - [You Can Ditch Old Issues in the New Year](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/you-can-ditch-old-issues-in-the-new-year/) - So, how about dropping old end-of-life issues you're dragging around from last year? How to make specific, measurable, action-oriented, time-bounded goals. - [Videos: Discussing Cremation and COVID-19](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/videos-discussing-cremation-and-covid-19/) - Talking cremation with J.P. DiTroia, president of Fresh Pond Crematory, built in 1884. It's the oldest continually operating crematory in the United States. - [More Coronavirus Victims: Death Cafes and Conferences](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/more-coronavirus-victims-death-cafes-and-conferences/) - The coronavirus has upended life in America, including Death Cafes and speeches Gail Rubin was planning to present. - [Learn How to Green Your Funeral Arrangements at Osher](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/learn-how-to-green-your-funeral-arrangements-at-osher/) - Sign up for the August 9 class "How to 'Green' Your Final Arrangements" at the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute and make your funeral more eco-friendly. - [The Latest Before I Die NM Festival Schedule](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/the-latest-before-i-die-nm-festival-schedule/) - The second annual Before I Die New Mexico Festival is just 10 days away! Here's the latest schedule of events, also available on the Whova app. - [Have You Planned Your Funeral Yet?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/have-you-planned-your-funeral-yet/) - The Before I Die NM Festival is the perfect opportunity for those interested in putting the “fun” in funerals and planning in advance for end of life. - [Get Your End-of-Life Affairs in Order](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/get-your-end-of-life-affairs-in-order/) - If you’re not sure how to get your affairs in order before you die, make plans to attend the Before I Die New Mexico Festival, Oct. 30 to Nov. 4, 2018. - [Time’s Up! Before I Die NM Festival Starts Tomorrow](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/times-up-before-i-die-nm-festival-starts-tomorrow/) - The Before I Die New Mexico Festival starts tomorrow, October 30, and goes through Sunday, November 4, 2018. - [News and Videos on Life and Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-videos-on-life-and-death/) - Could the zeitgeist be shifting to discussing death honestly? News stories and videos to help the Death Positive Movement bring the conversation out of the closet. - [OASIS and Osher Class Updates!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/oasis-and-osher-class-updates/) - Good news if you were on the wait list for the OASIS cremation talk! They've secured a larger venue and opened it up to more attendees! And don't wait to register for the three Six Feet Under classes at UNM's Osher Lifelong Learning Institute in March. Here's more information about both programs. Ashes to Ashes, - [New on The Doyenne of Death Podcast: Near-Death Experiences](https://agoodgoodbye.com/podcasts/new-on-the-doyenne-of-death-podcast-near-death-experiences/) - Lee Witting, with the International Association for Near-Death Studies (IANDS), joins Gail Rubin on The Doyenne of Death Podcast about near-death experiences. - [Spiritual Needs at End-of-Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/spiritual-needs-at-end-of-life/) - New study results published online Dec. 14 in the Journal of Clinical Oncology indicates being at peace with God is very important to people close to death. - [Coronavirus and Funeral Director News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/coronavirus-and-funeral-director-news/) - News stories continue to show the impact COVID-19 has on grieving families, funeral directors, and society in general. Stores are now running out of sympathy cards. - [September 23: Albuquerque Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/september-23-albuquerque-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe is scheduled for Sunday, September 23 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at Manzano de Sol Village, 5201 Roma Street NE. - [Final Embrace Products at the NFDMA Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/final-embrace-products-at-the-nfdma-expo/) - When he was young, Tim Totten wanted a Star Trek Next Generation costume. His grandmothers lived right next door to each other, and he asked one if she would make a costume for him. She said she wouldn't make it, but she'd teach him to sew. By the time he went to ask his other - [The Death Diaries Interview with Gail Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/the-death-diaries-interview-with-gail-rubin/) - Each person interviewed on The Death Diaries Podcast is asked to write and recite their reflections on some aspect of mortality. Here's what Gail Rubin wrote. - [Caskets Galore at the National Funeral Directors Association Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/caskets-galore-at-the-national-funeral-directors-association-expo/) - It's Caskets Week at AGoodGoodbye.com! We've got three videos about different types of caskets, from eco-friendly to something that will not biodegrade. - [Richard Abruzzo Burial](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/richard-abruzzo-burial/) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Llppkyv_rTM Today the body of Richard Abruzzo was laid to rest in the Gates of Heaven cemetery, almost two months after his gas balloon crashed into the Adriatic Sea on September 29, 2010. He and his ballooning partner Carol Rymer-Davis disappeared in a thunderstorm as they participated in the Gordon Bennett gas balloon race. Their - [Who's Supposed to Plan a Memorial Service Anyway?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/whos-supposed-to-plan-a-memorial-service-anyway/) - In this Dear Abby column, the writer is appalled that a now-deceased friend's adult sons want others to organize a memorial service for their father. - [Returning a Relative's Ashes: Ask the Doyenne of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/returning-a-relatives-ashes-ask-the-doyenne-of-death/) - What is the right thing to do about sharing cremated remains with family members? - [In-Person Death Cafe Changed to Online This Sunday](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/in-person-death-cafe-changed-to-online-this-sunday/) - The Albuquerque Death Cafe which was to take place in person this Sunday in Historic Fairview Cemetery will be held online through Zoom due to bad weather. - [Mexicans Celebrate Their Dead - Why Can't Americans?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/mexicans-celebrate-their-dead-why-cant-americans/) - Attitudes about death differ south and north of the border. The film "Coco" helps bridge the divide. Learn how Dia de los Muertos is different from Halloween. - [Casket Lowering in a Conventional Cemetery Burial](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/casket-lowering-in-a-conventional-cemetery-burial/) - How is a casket is lowered into the grave in a conventional cemetery burial? Watch this video. You can get a free 20 point checklist for planning a funeral. - [Checklist: Memorable Life Celebration or Funeral Must-Haves](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/checklist-memorable-life-celebration-or-funeral-must-haves/) - Wondering what information you'll need to create a moving, memorable memorial service or funeral? Fill out this checklist questionnaire. - [Obituary for Helen Fuller](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/obituary-for-helen-fuller/) - Helen Fuller led a remarkable life and she had a peaceful death at the age of 89. Read more in this obituary. The memorial service will be held on September 30. - [April 3: Kicking the Bucket List Talk in Reston, VA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/april-3-kicking-the-bucket-list-talk-in-reston-va/) - Lunch, laugh and learn about downsizing and organizing for end-of-life issues at this event at the Reston Community Center - [During this Pandemic, Thank Your Local Funeral Directors](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/during-this-pandemic-thank-your-local-funeral-directors/) - Funeral homes are taking steps to keep you safe in the midst of grieving the death of loved ones during the pandemic. Thank a funeral director today. - [Body Composting, Funeral Parties, and Other News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/body-composting-funeral-parties-and-other-news/) - Body composting, mushroom burial suits, the Departure Lounge and more: the latest news roundup from the fringes of funeral developments! - [Green Burial Interest Keeps Growing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/green-burial-interest-keeps-growing/) - Interest in green burial keeps growing, and funeral homes are starting to take notice - three news items. - [Favorite Film Harold and Maude Holds Time-Tested Laughs](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/favorite-film-harold-and-maude-holds-time-tested-laughs/) - Film writer Mark Caro asks if "Harold and Maude," a favorite film from his youth, can still hold its charms all these years later. There's good news! - [News About Funerals and End-of-Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/news-about-funerals-and-end-of-life-issues/) - Here's a round up of five recent news stories about funerals and end-of-life issues, collected from leading news sources. - [How to Make Moving Less Stressful](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/how-to-make-moving-less-stressful/) - Here's a helpful countdown to moving day checklist that covers many details you may not have considered. - [Headstones with Personality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/headstones-with-personality/) - "When I Was Left to Speak for Both of Us," author Paula Ganzi Licata detailed her shopping excursion to select headstones for both she and her husband. - [Death News: Green Burial, Decomposition, Obituary Scams, and Buying Local Urns](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/death-news-green-burial-decomposition-obituary-scams-and-buying-local-urns/) - Recent news stories about new trends in death: how decomposition works, green burial options, how to avoid obituary scamming, and how one funeral home is buying local artists' urns to offer their customers. - [Jan. 29: End of Life Options Act Lobby Day in Santa Fe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/jan-29-end-of-life-options-act-lobby-day-in-santa-fe/) - Here's your opportunity to let New Mexico state legislators know your thoughts about medical aid in dying. - [Aug. 16: One Foot in the Grave - Next Steps](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/aug-16-one-foot-in-the-grave-next-steps/) - Learn what you need to know, and do, BEFORE someone dies to help create a good goodbye, with this talk by Gail Rubin on Thursday, August 16. - [Time to Be Cool at Frozen Dead Guy Days!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/time-to-be-cool-at-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - The big event is this weekend, March 10-12, 2017! - [Musical Video from the New Zealand Coffin Club](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/musical-video-from-the-new-zealand-coffin-club/) - The senior citizens who build their own coffins now star in a music video about their coffin club and their caskets! - [LoveToKnow Interview](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/lovetoknow-interview/) - The information website LoveToKnow.com, "Everything You'd Love to Know," posted an interview with your humble correspondent Gail Rubin. - [The Remarkable Tom Root Celebration of Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/the-remarkable-tom-root-celebration-of-life/) - Tom Root was a remarkable man, as you can see in the Celebration of Life service that was held in his honor. - [Fabulous New Products at the NFDA Convention: Part I](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/fabulous-new-products-at-the-nfda-convention-part-i/) - At the 2019 National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) convention in Chicago, a number of interesting products and services were shown at the expo. - [Appraisals and Estate Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/appraisals-and-estate-planning/) - Appraisals provide a snapshot in time of the value of art, jewelry, collectibles, antiques, musical instruments, and even your house. - [Listen to Gail Rubin on Loss and Found Radio Show Today](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/listen-to-gail-rubin-on-loss-and-found-radio-show-today/) - Certified Thanatologist Gail Rubin is interviewed on the "Loss and Found" radio hour hosted by Cathy Cooper on Seattle station KKNW 1150 AM. - [Witness to a Native American Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/witness-to-a-native-american-funeral/) - Witnessing the funeral and burial for Tu Moonwalker, of the Apache tribe reveals many rituals. - [More Obituaries Weighing in on Election 2016 Choices](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/more-obituaries-weighing-in-on-election-2016-choices/) - This NPR story focuses on the growing number of obituaries that urge readers to vote for or against a candidate, based on the deceased's wishes. - [Mary Leigh Schaaf Ries Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/mary-leigh-schaaf-ries-obituary/) - Here's an upbeat obit that salutes a woman who lived life her way and didn't care what people thought. - [A Snappy Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/a-snappy-obituary/) - I love the attitude exuded in this obituary. Makes me want to have known this guy. Many thanks to Stephanie West Allen for alerting me to this wonderful obituary that appeared in yesterday's Denver Post. If you like this obit, leave a nice message for his family through the Visit Guest Book link. Michael "Flathead" - [A "Breaking Bad" Tour of Albuquerque](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/a-breaking-bad-tour-of-albuquerque/) - After binge-watching Breaking Bad, Shelly and Ruth Rubin got a private tour of filming sites in Albuquerque. - [Grandpa's in the TUFF SHED at Frozen Dead Guy Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/grandpas-in-the-tuff-shed-at-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - Gail Rubin hosts screenings of the documentary, “Grandpa’s in the TUFF SHED,” which tells the whole crazy story behind the Frozen Dead Guy and the festival, and emcees three rounds of The Newly-Dead Game. - [EternityGardens.com Sponsors Before I Die Festival in New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/eternitygardens-com-sponsors-before-i-die-festival-in-new-mexico/) - EternityGardens.com is the first national sponsor of the Before I Die ABQ Festival, taking place in the Albuquerque/Santa Fe metro markets October 30 to November 4, 2018. - [Couples Focus on Winning The Newly-Dead Game](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/couples-focus-on-winning-the-newly-dead-game/) - At the 2018 Frozen Dead Guy Days Festival in Nederland, Colorado, 12 couples battled it out playing The Newly-Dead Game with pioneering death educator and game creator Gail Rubin. - [Darrell Hill of EternityGardens.com Featured on FuneralRadio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/darrell-hill-of-eternitygardens-com-featured-on-funeralradio/) - EternityGardens.com founder Darrell Hill discusses the rising cremation rate and what people can do with cremated remains they have at home. - [Ease Pet Loss Issues with EternityGardens.com](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/ease-pet-loss-issues-with-eternitygardens-com/) - Families may now use the EternityGardens.com platform to search for cemeteries and scattering services that will lay to rest the remains of family pets. Pet funerals are the fastest growing segment of the funeral industry. - [These Boots are Made for Talking About Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/these-boots-are-made-for-talking-about-death/) - Look out world, The Doyenne of Death has a new pair of cowboy boots! These incredible sugar skull embroidered boots are made by Old Gringo. - [Introducing the First "Before I Die" Albuquerque Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/introducing-the-first-before-i-die-albuquerque-festival/) - The inaugural “Before I Die” Albuquerque Festival, will be held October 20 to October 25, 2017 at various locations around Albuquerque, NM. - [Fun News About Funerals - Really](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/fun-news-about-funerals-really/) - Stories about new funeral products and services from ICCFA, Frozen Dead Guy Days and highlights from The Family Plot Blog. - [Enjoy These Videos on The Family Plot YouTube Channel](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/enjoy-these-videos-on-the-family-plot-youtube-channel/) - More than 1,000 people now subscribe to The Family Plot YouTube channel, with 400+ videos on funerals, cremation, downsizing, and end-of-life issues. - [New Developments in Meaningful Funerals and Cremations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/new-developments-in-meaningful-funerals-and-cremations/) - Funeral directors found new ways to make meaningful memorial services at the ICCFA expo. - [Five Ways to Make Your Death More Eco-Friendly](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/five-ways-to-make-your-death-more-eco-friendly/) - If you bicycle, recycle, or just want to minimize your final carbon footprint, consider these unique eco-friendly approaches for a greener disposition. - [Radio Interview This Saturday: What You Need to Know](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/radio-interview-this-saturday-what-you-need-to-know/) - News and Notes about a radio show with Gail Rubin on funeral planning and other end-of-life issues, recent posts at The Family Plot Blog and upcoming events. - [Celebrating the History of African-American Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-traditions/celebrating-the-history-of-african-american-funeral-traditions/) - African-American funeral traditions originated centuries ago, and rituals from the African continent still echo in today's services. - [Why Include a Thanatologist in Your Circle of Life Experts?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/kicking-the-bucket/why-include-a-thanatologist-in-your-circle-of-life-experts/) - Just what is a thanatologist, and why would you need to add one to the circle of life experts you rely upon? - [Seven Funeral Trends to Watch in 2017](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/seven-funeral-trends-to-watch-in-2017/) - Funeral directors, let’s take a look into the crystal ball, ponder funeral trends the industry will face in the New Year, and heed the voices of baby boomers. - [Requiem: A Free and Simple App for Funeral Communications](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/requiem-a-free-and-simple-app-for-funeral-communications/) - The Requiem app helps bring loved ones together for a memorial service, reduces the fear of missing important people, and offers other benefits. - [A Story to Comfort Mothers of Stillborn Babies](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/a-story-to-comfort-mothers-of-stillborn-babies/) - How one woman navigated the uncharted waters of mourning a stillborn daughter. - [How to Make "Time for Family, Time For Talk" NOW](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/how-to-make-time-for-family-time-for-talk-now/) - Tools and events that families can use to share traditions, play games and make this the season to give the gift of time well spent and new memories made. - [How to Treat Cremated Remains: New Vatican Rules for Catholics](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/how-to-treat-cremated-remains-new-vatican-rules-for-catholics/) - The Vatican says no to scattering cremated remains, keeping them at home, working them into artwork or mementos, or sharing in keepsake urns or jewelry. - [How to Express Your Condolences to a Mourner](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/how-to-express-your-condolences-to-a-mourner/) - Seven tips on how to write a sympathy card or send your condolences to a mourner, using an actual card. - [Goodbye to Gene Wilder](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/goodbye-to-gene-wilder/) - Gene Wilder has earned a Golden Ticket through the gates of heaven: Obituaries and an appreciation. - [Statistics on Americans' Astounding Amount of Clutter](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/statistics-on-americans-astounding-amount-of-clutter/) - Do you see yourself in these staggering statistics on household stuff and clutter? - [Live Long and Prosper: Star Ship Enterprise Featured in Smithsonian](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/live-long-and-prosper-star-ship-enterprise-featured-in-smithsonian/) - The freshly-restored star ship Enterprise from the original Star Trek series takes a place of honor at the Smithsonian's Air & Space Museum. - [University of Michigan Grief Awareness Week](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/university-of-michigan-grief-awareness-week/) - Laughing and learning at Grief Awareness Week with Gail Rubin's speech, "Laughing in the Face of Death: Movies, Medicine and Mortality." - [May 18: Two Ann Arbor Presentations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/may-18-two-ann-arbor-presentations/) - From medicine and mortality to Jewish funeral traditions, laugh and learn at two film clip illustrated presentations by Gail Rubin in Ann Arbor, MI. - [Save My Ink Forever Makes Tattoos into Life Memorials](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/save-my-ink-makes-tattoos-into-life-memorials/) - Save My Ink Forever gives funeral directors a unique way to preserve a life story told in skin art, and generate revenue in the process. - [Public Grieving Prince's Death, Private Cremation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/public-grieving-princes-death-private-cremation/) - Prince's death at 57: When celebrities die, people mourn publicly in ways that they wouldn't for their own family members. - [Here Comes The Newly-Dead Game!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/here-comes-the-newly-dead-game/) - The Newly-Dead Game® pits up to four couples against each other in a test of how well the partners know each others' last wishes. - [Nov. 19: Stephen Jenkinson in Santa Fe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/nov-17-stephen-jenkinson-in-santa-fe/) - If you haven't seen Stephen Jenkinson do a presentation, you need to be in Santa Fe on November 19 to catch Nights of Grief and Mystery. - [Who Decides Your Healthcare for You?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/who-decides-your-healthcare-for-you/) - On Healthcare Decisions Day, April 16, have some serious conversations with your loved ones. - [The Infinity Burial Suit from Coeio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/the-infinity-burial-suit-from-coeio/) - From a TED talk in 2011 to the 2016 ICCFA convention, Jae Rhim Lee's company Coeio is bringing the Mushroom Burial Suit to the masses. - [News and Notes: And to All, A Good Night](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-and-to-all-a-good-night/) - News about grief and mourning during the holidays, funny films for funeral planning, and upcoming events. - [It's Create a Great Funeral Day!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/its-create-a-great-funeral-day/) - History of Create a Great Funeral Day and this in-depth video tour of a funeral home will help you get the conversation started. - [NFDA Announces Arrangement Conference Training Program](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/nfda-announces-arrangement-conference-training-program/) - In response to a downward trend in public sentiment regarding the value of funerals, NFDA is launching a new training program for arrangement conferences. - [Feb. 21: A Taste of Honey Jewish Funeral Traditions Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/feb-21-a-taste-of-honey-jewish-funeral-traditions-talk/) - Check out all the great speakers at the ABQ JCC's 13th annual education event, including Gail Rubin presenting "Jewish Funeral Traditions on Film." - [News and Notes: Going Green, TEDx Adventure and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-going-green-tedx-adventure-and-more/) - Funny videos, funeral arrangements by an ex, upcoming talks and Gail's excellent TEDx Adventure news. - [New Mexico and Death With Dignity](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/new-mexico-and-death-with-dignity/) - Erin Marshall with Compassion & Choices New Mexico makes the case for the state Supreme Court to rule in favor of physician aid in dying. - [News and Notes: Greening Final Arrangements, New Book, Etc.](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-greening-final-arrangements-new-book-etc/) - If you're "green" in life, consider greening your final arrangements. If you plan to be cremated, check out the new book, Hail and Farewell. - [Unique Urns at NFDA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/unique-urns-at-nfda/) - Creative urns for everyone - assuming you want to be cremated. - [Vision Casket: Economical Cremation and Burial Products](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/vision-casket-economical-cremation-and-burial-products/) - How casket manufacturers distribute their products to funeral homes, the evolution of the cloth covered casket, and low-cost cremation innovations. - [News and Notes: Caring for Caregivers](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-caring-for-caregivers/) - On The Caregiver's Caregiver, we discuss anticipatory grief, new trends in death care, and why a funeral or memorial service is healing for caregivers. - [The Difference Between Ossuaries and Columbaria](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/the-difference-between-ossuaries-and-columbaria/) - Today we look at columbaria and ossuaries - what they are and why the growing cremation rate makes them an attractive investment for cemeteries. - [Glass Cremation Art at CANA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/glass-cremation-art-at-cana/) - Here at the 97th annual CANA convention and expo, this post highlights glass memorial art options on display by vendors in attendance. - [NY Times Editorial on End-of-Life Care](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/ny-times-editorial-on-end-of-life-care/) - The New York Times editorial board published this opinion piece, "Helping Patients and Doctors Talk About Death," on July 26, 2015. - [Aid in Dying in New Mexico Ruling Reversal](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/aid-in-dying-in-new-mexico-ruling-reversal/) - Now, mentally competent, terminally ill patients can't choose their own time to die with aid from a physician. Next stop: the New Mexico Supreme Court. - [How to Mail Cremated Remains](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/how-to-mail-cremated-remains/) - Ten tips for mailing cremated remains via the U.S. Postal Service - the only legal way to ship! - [A Star Wars-Themed Funeral for a Big Fan](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/a-star-wars-themed-funeral-for-a-big-fan/) - Check out the short video of the Imperial Storm Troopers escorting the horse drawn casket in this Star Wars funeral. - [Helping Out with Timely Holiday Tips](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/helping-out-with-timely-holiday-tips/) - Helpful holiday videos for memorializing loved ones and cutting back on Christmas gift giving clutter and other news from Gail Rubin and A Good Goodbye. - [New Cremation Statistics from CANA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/new-cremation-statistics-from-cana/) - The Cremation Association of North America (CANA) issued its report on statistics on cremation rates in America and Canada up to 2014. - [Religious "Nones" and Celebrant Services](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/religious-nones-and-celebrant-services/) - 56 million Americans have no religious affiliation. They have few rituals to guide them when a death occurs. Certified funeral celebrants can help. - [A Will for the Woods on PBS Stations Feb. 24](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/a-will-for-the-woods-on-pbs-stations-feb-24/) - A Will for the Woods, the award-winning documentary about green burial, debuts on selected PBS stations on Tuesday, February 24 (check local listings). - [FRENCH Funerals Pioneers Improvements with Passare](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/french-funerals-pioneers-improvements-with-passare/) - FRENCH Funerals-Cremations pioneers ground-breaking improvements in the funeral business, using Passare's End-of-Life Management platform. - [A 400-Person Death Cafe!?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/a-400-person-death-cafe/) - Yes, there will be a 400-person Death Cafe event in Las Cruces, New Mexico this Friday, May 1. - [News and Notes: Back From San Antonio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-back-from-san-antonio/) - It was most gratifying to meet people at both the ADEC and ICCFA conventions who told me they enjoy these occasional newsletters. - [Journey Santa Fe on Greening Final Arrangements](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/journey-santa-fe-on-greening-final-arrangements/) - Discussing green burial opportunities, cremation's carbon footprint, how Jewish burial is naturally green burial, donating your body to science, and more. - [May 1 Symposium - A Beautiful Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/may-1-symposium-a-beautiful-death/) - “A Beautiful Death: What will you choose?” full day free symposium in Las Cruces includes a Death Cafe over lunch. - [Jewish Funeral Tradition Presentations on Video](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/jewish-funeral-tradition-presentations-on-video/) - Many Jews and their interfaith partners don’t know what to do when a death in the family occurs. It doesn't have to be that way. - [Talking About Tomorrow's Las Vegas Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/talking-about-tomorrows-las-vegas-talk/) - Two Las Vegas radio interviews about my “Jewish Funeral Traditions on Film” presentation this Tuesday, November 18 from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. - [Event: Nov. 18 Jewish Funeral Traditions Presentation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-nov-18-jewish-funeral-traditions-presentation/) - An upbeat free presentation called “Jewish Funeral Traditions on Film” will be presented by Gail Rubin and the JCC of Southern Nevada in Las Vegas November 18. - [News and Notes: NFDA and Create a Great Funeral Day](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-nfda-and-create-a-great-funeral-day/) - Tools of the funeral trade exhibited at NFDA and today is Create a Great Funeral Day - start talking! - [News and Notes: The Day After Groundhog Day](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-the-day-after-groundhog-day/) - The 1993 comedy film Groundhog Day stars Bill Murray as Phil Connors, an arrogant, self-centered weatherman who relives the same day over and over again until he learns some valuable life lessons. Since yesterday was the day Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow, forecasting six more weeks of winter, at least we can enjoy the life - [Comparing Cornea and Organ Donation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/comparing-cornea-and-organ-donation/) - There are several key differences between donations of corneas versus organs. Find out what they are in this blog post. - [News and Notes: Seeking Light in Dark Times](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-seeking-light-in-dark-times/) - Death can be the beginning of a journey into a dark time for the living. It doesn't have to be so dark or prolonged - here are some tips. - [News and Notes: Medicine and Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-medicine-and-mortality/) - Physician aid-in-dying, videos to start the conversation on advance directives and upcoming events with Gail Rubin, CT, The Doyenne of Death. - [News and Notes: Mortality Salience](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-mortality-salience/) - A report on “Estate Planning, Hollywood Style" and tidbits about the Terror Management Theory. - [Event: February 1 Jews and Cremation Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-february-1-jews-and-cremation-talk/) - Gail Rubin presents “Jews and Cremation” as part of the annual A Taste of Honey Jewish educational event in Albuquerque. - [Event: Nov. 23 Albuquerque Unitarian Universalist Fellowship](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-nov-23-albuquerque-unitarian-universalist-fellowship/) - Gail Rubin presents “End-of-Life Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die” at the Albuquerque Center for Peace & Justice, 202 Harvard SE at Silver. - [Joan Rivers Death Can Help with End-of-Life Conversations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/joan-rivers-death-can-help-with-end-of-life-conversations/) - Several articles and opinion columns on end-of-life issues to help get the conversation started. - [NFDA News: Cremation Rate to Exceed 50% by 2015](https://agoodgoodbye.com/nfda/nfda-news-cremation-rate-to-exceed-50-by-2015/) - It's official - cremation is here to stay. Yes, change is inevitable, even in the funeral industry, traditionally so resistant to changes. - [Videos that Demystify Hospice and Medical Procedures](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/videos-that-demystify-hospice-and-medical-procedures/) - Videos can help explain end-of-life issues and foster patient and family understanding better than words alone. - [News and Notes: Appreciating Today](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-appreciating-today/) - Thoughts on appreciating our loved ones today, and lessons we can learn from the Casey Kasem end-of-life saga. - [News & Notes: Media Moves](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-notes-media-moves/) - News from A Good Goodbye about the television program and radio show, tips and upcoming events. - [Budstikka Story on Frozen Dead Guy Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/budstikka-story-on-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - The story about the Frozen Dead Guy Days festival and the history of Bredo Morstoel has appeared in the Norway publication, Budstikka. - [Federal Trade Commission Issues New Funeral Rule Brochures](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/federal-trade-commission-issues-new-funeral-rule-brochures/) - The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) has revised two brochures to help consumers make funeral choices, either in advance or at a time of need. - [Online Planners to Help You Put It All Together](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/online-planners-to-help-you-put-it-all-together/) - What to know about online sites that can securely store your funeral planning and financial information for your family to access in the event of your death. - [Shrouds and Green Burial Products](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/shrouds-and-green-burial-products/) - Discussing green burial today on A Good Goodbye Radio, and looking at some green burial products on a YouTube video. - [What Makes an Obituary Go Viral and a Eulogy Memorable?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/what-makes-an-obituary-go-viral-and-a-eulogy-memorable/) - How to make a eulogy memorable and an obituary go viral, discussed on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [News & Notes: Funeral Email Scam, Tips and Talks](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-notes-funeral-email-scam-tips-and-talks/) - Tips on avoiding funeral email scams and getting the most out of life. Upcoming talks and A Good Goodbye Radio shows too! - [It IS "A Wonderful Life"](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/it-is-a-wonderful-life/) - Movie Night December 12, tips for advance directive conversations, and other upcoming A Good Goodbye events! - [10 Good Reasons to Discuss Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/10-good-reasons-to-discuss-death/) - Elaine Voci, a Death Cafe host in Indiana, wrote this great column, "10 reasons why I want to talk about death" that just appeared in the Indianapolis Star. - [Hemlock Society Founder Gerald Larue Obituary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/hemlock-society-founder-gerald-larue-obituary/) - Gerald A. Larue, co-founder and first president of the Hemlock Society, died on September 17 in Newport Beach, California. He was 98. - [Event: August 7 Jewish Funeral Traditions on Film Presentation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-august-7-jewish-funeral-traditions-on-film-presentation/) - Learn Jewish traditions related to death, funerals and mourning in this upbeat talk! - [Video: Speaking at the ICCFA 2014 Convention](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/video-speaking-at-the-iccfa-2014-convention/) - The International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association (ICCFA) is holding their annual convention and expo in Las Vegas, Nevada April 8-11, 2014. - [March 10-12: Frozen Dead Guy Days!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/march-10-12-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - Pack your freezing fun gear for Frozen Dead Guy Days in Nederland, Colorado March 10-12, 2017. - [Denver Post Story on Thursday's Funeral Planning Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/denver-post-story-on-thursdays-funeral-planning-talk/) - Read more about how The Doyenne of Death encourages laughter in face of funeral planning. - [Giving Thanks for All Our Blessings](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/giving-thanks-for-all-our-blessings/) - Thanksgiving holiday weekend is the time to have those conversations that will enable you to act well when a medical crisis affects a loved one. - [News and Notes: Death and Taxes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-death-and-taxes/) - Death and taxes on April 15, videos from the ICCFA convention, tips from the Soul Sitter's Handbook, and more. - [News and Notes: This Won't Stay in Vegas](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-this-wont-stay-in-vegas/) - This is the week for the All Star convention and expo of the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association (ICCFA), taking place in Las Vegas, NV. - [News and Notes: Laughing at Adversity](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-laughing-at-adversity/) - This April Fool's Day, we look at humor, trends in funeral services, and upcoming A Good Goodbye interviews - [News and Notes: On Ethical Wills and Jewish Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-on-ethical-wills-and-jewish-traditions/) - Ethical wills, Jewish funeral traditions, upcoming guests on A Good Goodbye Radio and tidbits on the differences between U.K. and U.S. funerals. - [News & Notes: Can You Read Norwegian?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-notes-can-you-read-norwegian/) - Frozen Dead Guy Days news, an interview with the author of We Don't Die, and tips on obituaries and eulogies. - [News & Notes: Time for Frozen Dead Guy Days!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-notes-time-for-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - Frozen Dead Guy Days, funny film talks, and tips on getting over the grief of widowhood. - [News & Notes: Talks, Toastmasters and Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-notes-talks-toastmasters-and-traditions/) - Applause for talks by Gail Rubin, tips on Buddhist funerals, and upcoming A Good Goodbye events. - [News and Notes: Artists, Entertainers and Estates](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-artists-entertainers-and-estates/) - News about upcoming A Good Goodbye radio interviews, fascinating talks, and Frozen Dead Guy Day tips! - [News and Notes: Life Planning and Death Cafes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-life-planning-and-death-cafes/) - This week's guest on A Good Goodbye Radio, top tips from last week, and Everybody Dies: Lessons from Six Feet Under - [News and Notes: Facing Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-facing-mortality/) - Dr. Jeffrey Piehler on A Good Goodbye Radio, estate planning tips for artists, authors and entertainers, and upcoming events and interviews. - [Artists and Entertainers Need Wills and Trusts, Too](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/artists-and-entertainers-need-wills-and-trusts-too/) - Prof. Sherri Burr joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio Weds. Feb. 5 to discuss estate planning for artists, entertainers and average people. - [News and Notes: Frozen Dead Guy Days and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-frozen-dead-guy-days-and-more/) - Frozen Dead Guy Days, top tips on pet hospice, upcoming talks and a funny quote to consider in this edition of News & Notes. - [How To Keep Your Loved One's Ashes Close](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/how-to-keep-your-loved-ones-ashes-close/) - If you have ever wondered how you can keep the cremated remains of beloved people or pets close by, here is a brief guide to your options. - [News and Notes: Pet Hospice a Growing Trend](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-pet-hospice-a-growing-trend/) - The topic of pet hospice is considered on tomorrow's A Good Goodbye Radio show, with tips from last week and upcoming events - [More on Brain Death and Life Support](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/more-on-brain-death-and-life-support/) - Two thoughtful articles on brain-death and clinging to life with medical technology. - [Want to Discuss Physician Aid-In-Dying?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/want-to-discuss-physician-aid-in-dying/) - At tomorrow's ABQ Death Cafe, you can discuss the current debate over whether a physician can assist a terminally ill patient end his or her suffering. - [Talkin' Turkey: Life and Death Issues this Holiday Weekend](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/talkin-turkey-life-and-death-issues-this-holiday-weekend/) - Engage With Grace suggests we discuss our advance directives this Thanksgiving. Will you? - [People and Pet Cemeteries](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/people-and-pet-cemeteries/) - More cemeteries are allowing burial of humans with their pets - if both are cremated. - [Kudos to Scott Simon for His Tweets](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/kudos-to-scott-simon-for-his-tweets/) - By now you've probably seen the wave of news coverage about NPR's weekend host Scott Simon tweeting from his mother's hospital bedside as she lay dying of cancer. His mom said it was okay to do this. His string of tweets presents beautiful raw prose, thoughts about love, the ICU, family reactions. When she died on - [Medical Implant Recycling](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/medical-implant-recycling/) - At the recent ICCFA expo of products and services, I came across Implant Recycling LLC. Medical implants of titanium and other metals, such as hip or knee replacements, screws, rods and plates, survive the cremation process, but they aren't usable. What to do with the scrap metal? Implant Recycling LLC is an environmental and recycling - [Life Insurance Survey Says We Don't Talk About Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/life-insurance-survey-says-we-dont-talk-abut-death/) - The economic downturn of the past two years has impacted family budgets in some unexpected ways - such as couples not talking about death and life insurance. - [Radio Interview Monday October 4](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/radio-interview-monday-october-4/) - "Whassup with Weddings and Funerals?" is the topic I'll be discussing with Bonnie D. Graham aka RadioRed on her BlogTalkRadio program this coming Monday, October 4. She interviewed me years ago when my first book came out, A Girl's Pocket Guide to Trouser Trout: Reflections on Dating and Fly-Fishing. I guarantee you'll hear a very - [Immortality and Cyberspace](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/immortality-and-cyberspace/) - There's a very interesting New York Times Magazine story by Rob Walker titled "Cyberspace When You're Dead" that is now online. It's got plenty of food for thought about pre-planning and communications to family and friends - Facebook and otherwise. Here are the first few paragraphs: Suppose that just after you finish reading this article, - [Poker Players Provide Widow with Supportive Community](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/poker-players-provide-widow-with-supportive-community/) - On the CBS Evening News on Monday, July 12, Steve Hartman did a really nice story about ways to remember a loved one who has died. His story is titled "Keeping a Poker Player's House Full - The Death of Russell Hughes Didn't End Poker Night at His Home - and That's Just How His - [End-of-Life Conversations and New Medicare Rules](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/end-of-life-conversations-and-new-medicare-rules/) - The top story in today's New York Times focuses on a new Medicare policy that goes into effect on January 1, 2011 to pay doctors who discuss and advise patients on options for end-of-life care. The conversation may include advance medical directives from the patient as to whether they may wish to forgo aggressive life-sustaining - [Religious Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/religious-funeral-traditions/) - How do interfaith couples deal with their different religions when there is a death in the family? Couples from different faith backgrounds often face hurdles when they marry, as I know from my first marriage – a Jew and a Catholic. Clergy may try to counsel the couple on how they can bring their different - [How to Explain Death to Children](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/how-to-explain-death-to-children/) - Mr. Rogers had a gentle way to explain death to children by talking about a dog he loved. - [Stop for Funeral Cortege Says Dear Abby](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/stop-for-funeral-cortege-says-dear-abby/) - Today's Dear Abby column looks at the etiquette of stopping for a funeral procession. A reader asks: For years I have wondered about this every time I have gone to a funeral and have ridden in the procession to the cemetery. As the procession travels to the cemetery, all cars and trucks pull over and - [Elizabeth Taylor's Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/elizabeth-taylors-funeral/) - Elizabeth Taylor was laid to rest Thursday in Forest Lawn Cemetery in Los Angeles in a small private ceremony attended by her children, grandchildren, and selected close friends. By her request, she was 15 minutes late for her own funeral. Taylor converted to Judaism before her 1959 wedding to Eddie Fisher. Jewish tradition for funerals - [New Trends in Memorial Jewelry](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/new-trends-in-memorial-jewelry/) - At the ICCFA convention and expo this week, I saw some interesting trends in memorial jewelry. Some pieces incorporate cremated remains, some highlight fingerprints. These bracelets below from Wilbert Memorialization Choices™ are sterling silver. The decorative end caps can be personalized with birthstones, silver, or four pavé band settings. The ends unscrew and can hold - [Discussing Death Cafes on August 31](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/discussing-death-cafes-on-august-31/) - Want to know more about Death Cafes? Join leading Death Cafe hosts Gail Rubin, Amy Cunningham, Nancy Gershman and Harvey Newman on Wednesday, August 31 online - [The Party No One Wants to Plan](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/the-party-no-one-wants-to-plan/) - Have you ever gone to a party, showing up with a bottle of wine as a gift for the hosts, and found they’re not ready yet? Maybe they’re still cleaning up or putting the kids’ toys away, the food isn’t ready, or oh no, the bar’s not set up! Two attributes that set a gracious - [Silver City Film Talk Tonight](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/silver-city-film-talk-tonight/) - Laughing in the Face of Death: Funny Films for Funeral Planning is tonight at 7:00 p.m. in lovely Silver City, New Mexico! - [Event: Nov. 19 Hospice Conference Presentation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-nov-19-hospice-conference-presentation/) - Gail Rubin, CT, presents "Laughing in the Face of Death" at the California Hospice and Palliative Care Association conference on Wednesday, November 19. - [Create a Great Funeral Day October 30](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/create-a-great-funeral-day-october-30/) - Stephanie West Allen, creator of Create a Great Funeral Day, is on A Good Goodbye Radio this October 30. - [Create A Great Funeral Day](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/create-a-great-funeral-plan-day/) - Funeralwise recognizes Create a Great Funeral Day, created by Stephanie West Allen. - [Muslim Burial Ground Misconceptions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/muslim-burial-ground-misconceptions/) - To help illuminate what Muslim burial actually entails, Gail Rubin, the Doyenne of Death® offers these insights. - [Event: Albuquerque Death Cafe August 9](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-albuquerque-death-cafe-august-9/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will be on Saturday, August 9 at 2:00 p.m. at the Swiss Alps Bakery Cafe. - [Event: ABQ Death Cafe June 28](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-abq-death-cafe-june-28/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe event will be held Saturday, June 28 at 2:30 p.m. at Sheila’s Sweets, 8600 Indian School Road NE, Albuquerque. - [Leading Funeral Home CEO Discusses New Trends in Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/leading-funeral-home-ceo-discusses-new-trends-in-funerals/) - Tom Antram, President and CEO of FRENCH Funerals-Cremations, joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio on 3/26 to discuss trends in the funeral industry. - [A Will for the Woods Puts a Human Face on Green Burial](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/a-will-for-the-woods-puts-a-human-face-on-green-burial/) - There aren't hard statistics on green burial, but a building cache of anecdotes indicate more people would like to return to the earth as naturally as possible. - [How Do British Funerals Compare to American Funerals?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-do-british-funerals-compare-to-american-funerals/) - Charles Cowling, with the Good Funeral Guide, is interviewed on A Good Goodbye Radio March 19, comparing similarities and differences of US and UK funerals. - [Happily Even After Widowhood](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/happily-even-after-widowhood/) - Happily Even After: A conversation on getting through widowhood with Carole Brody Fleet on next week's A Good Goodbye show - [What is a Good Death?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/what-is-a-good-death/) - The public radio program The Really Big Questions just ran an hour-long program titled "What is a Good Death?" - [Freeze the Dates for the 2014 Frozen Dead Guy Days Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/freeze-the-dates-for-the-2014-frozen-dead-guy-days-festival/) - Just how did How did Grandpa Bredo Morstoel become the celebrated Frozen Dead Guy? - [What People Don’t Know About Hospice Can Kill Them](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/what-people-dont-know-about-hospice-can-kill-them/) - Hospice and palliative care are the topic on A Good Goodbye Radio Wednesday, December 18 at 6:00 p.m. ET/3:00 p.m. PT on The RockStar Radio Network. - [Learning Life Lessons from 'The Death Class'](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/learning-life-lessons-from-the-death-class/) - College and university classes on death and dying can teach a young adult a lot about life and living. - [Updates for Today's Radio Shows!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/updates-for-todays-radio-shows/) - Death educator Norma Bowe joins Erika Hayasaki, author of The Death Class, on A Good Goodbye Radio, and Gail Rubin is on The Home Movie Legacy Project. - [How Will You Have The Talk of a Lifetime with Your Family?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-will-you-have-the-talk-of-a-lifetime-with-your-family/) - FAMIC's "Have The Talk of a Lifetime" campaign helps families sit down and talk to each other about what is important and how to celebrate people’s lives. - [This Thanksgiving, How About Discussing Advanced Directives?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/this-thanksgiving-how-about-discussing-advanced-directives/) - Alexandra Drane, co-founder of the nonprofit organization Engage With Grace, joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio this Wednesday. - [Home Death Care and Funerals on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/home-death-care-and-funerals-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Beth Knox and Char Barrett with the National Home Funeral Alliance discuss death care at home on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Discussing September 11 and Grief with Audrey Pellicano](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/discussing-september-11-and-grief-with-audrey-pellicano/) - Audrey Pellicano of WiseWidow.com joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio this Wednesday, September 11. - [Discussing Veterans Funeral and Burial Benefits August 7](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/discussing-veterans-funeral-and-burial-benefits-august-7/) - Cliff Shields, Director of the Santa Fe National Cemetery discusses veterans funeral and burial benefits. - [Discussing Cremation Trends August 14](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/discussing-cremation-trends-august-14/) - Bob Boetticher, Jr., on the board of CANA, discusses cremation trends on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [What Funeral Celebrants Do](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/what-funeral-celebrants-do/) - A growing number of “spiritual but not religious” families are turning to Funeral Celebrants to create meaningful memorial services. - [Baby Boomers Want Personalized "Funeral-Palooza" Parties](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/baby-boomers-want-personalized-funeral-palooza-parties/) - Professional Funeral Creationeer Joe Pray, a fifth generation funeral director with the family-owned Pray Funeral Home, discusses personalization of funerals. - [Compassion and Choices on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/compassion-and-choices-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - Erin Marshall, New Mexico Campaign Manager for Compassion & Choices, discusses death with dignity issues on A Good Goodbye Radio. - [Donating Your Body to Science Discussed on A Good Goodbye Radio](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/donating-your-body-to-science-discussed-on-a-good-goodbye-radio/) - A Good Goodbye Radio examines body donation for medical research with Valere Beck of MedCure.org. - [Ask Your Mom These Questions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/ask-your-mom-these-questions/) - Mother's Day is this Sunday, May 8. How well do you know your mother, if she's still alive? Here are five great questions to ask her this weekend, to help open the lines of communication. I received this thought-provoking note from Mary Cantando, who sends out Woman's Advantage Tip of the Week. She granted permission - [Obon Festival in Albuquerque's Japanese Garden](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/obon-festival-in-albuquerques-japanese-garden/) - Japan's Obon Festival, a time to honor ancestors and deceased loved ones, is like Day of the Dead in Mexico and Central America. - [Honor Your Ancestors at ABQ's Obon Festival](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/honor-your-ancestors-at-abqs-obon-festival/) - Come to the Japanese Garden to make floating lanterns during one of the Garden's Summer Night music performances. - [Preneed Sales Tips Every Funeral Home and Cemetery Needs](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/preneed-sales-tips-every-funeral-home-and-cemetery-needs/) - If you're serious about learning how to sell preneed funerals and cemetery property, then this list of tips holds the keys you need to succeed. - [Abruzzo Memorial Service Follow-Up](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/abruzzo-memorial-service-follow-up/) - A month after the memorial service for missing balloonist Richard Abruzzo was held at the balloon museum that bears the family's name, the family planted a special pine tree. - [How to Get a Free Cremation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/how-to-get-a-free-cremation/) - Read this post to learn the secrets to getting a free cremation! - [How To Avoid Medical Donation Fraud](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/how-to-avoid-medical-donation-fraud/) - If you plan to donate your body to science, plan ahead and work out arrangements with either a medical school or a reputable organization. - [Cremation Concerns](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/cremation-concerns/) - Two stories about cremation that illustrate why you need to have a conversation and make arrangements BEFORE there's a death in the family. - [Searching for the Cremated Remains of Jerry Honeycutt](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/searching-for-the-cremated-remains-of-jerry-honeycutt/) - Ever have the cremated remains of a loved one disappear? In Friday's Albuquerque Journal, UpFront columnist Joline Gutierrez Krueger wrote this story, an appeal to help this family find the missing ashes of a man: a son, a father, a veteran. Joline gave me permission to run her article, in the hopes of spreading the - [The Body Scoop System saves backs, not lives](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/the-body-scoop-system-saves-backs-not-lives/) - One of the interesting pieces of equipment spotted at the ICCFA convention and expo: The Body Scoop. The Body Scoop is a ceiling mounted lift system that funeral homes and morgues use to move bodies. Check out the video with your faithful correspondent getting a ride from table to casket! http://youtu.be/h6OetMeEQY4 Some key benefits of - [ICCFA Opening Reception Exhibits](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/iccfa-opening-reception-exhibits/) - Opening night at the 2011 ICCFA Convention and Exposition in Las Vegas revealed some interesting new developments in funeral supplies. - [Van Towed With Body Inside](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/van-towed-with-body-inside/) - Did you see the news the other day about a New York City funeral home that had one of its mini-vans towed away for being illegally parked? A common enough occurrence, but there was a body inside! Paul DeNigris came out of Redden's Funeral Home on 14th Street in Brooklyn on Thursday to find the - [Dying the Way One Lives](https://agoodgoodbye.com/live-for-today/dying-the-way-one-lives/) - One can fully live one's life by recognizing its end, by focusing on death at the healthier times. - [August 14: Next Online Death Cafe with Gail Rubin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/august-14-next-online-death-cafe-with-gail-rubin/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will be held online on Sunday, August 14 at 3:00 p.m. MDT, hosted by pioneering death educator Gail Rubin. - [Telephone How-To](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/telephone-how-to/) - Information on how to use the telephone to share sad news about a death of a loved one. Social media is not the way to go in many instances. - [The Way We Die Now](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/the-way-we-die-now/) - At The New York Times online, Timothy Eagan has written a powerful opinion piece about the option of "walking away from the medical-industrial complex" at the end of life. The Way We Die Now looks at how the governor of Oregon, John Kitzhaber, who was a doctor before becoming governor, has been trying to engage - [Down The Drain?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/from-death-to-funeral/down-the-drain/) - There's a new process that presents an environmentally-sensitive way to dispose of human remains. It's so clean, what's left after the process can be safely poured down the drain! While not in widespread use by funeral homes yet, the process liquefies the body into a coffee-colored sterile solution that can be safely disposed of in - [Funeral Disaster Story in New Mexico](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-disaster-story-in-new-mexico/) - The headline in today's Albuquerque Journal blared "Funeral Home Sends Brain to Family." The copyrighted story tells of a grandmother who died in a car accident in Utah, and somewhere between Utah's medical examiner's office and burial, her brain was separated from her body and put in a separate bag with the woman's belongings. Here's - [Facebook for Extending Condolences](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/facebook-for-extending-condolences/) - My friend Thelma Domenici has a weekly etiquette column in the Albuquerque Journal, and today she addressed the idea of using Facebook to extend condolences. She says it's an appropriate medium. Thelma gave the example of a friend whose mother recently died, and how Facebook became a source of comfort as she received support from - [Dry Ice Cooling Blanket for Home Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/dry-ice-cooling-blanket-for-home-funerals/) - When caring for your own dead at home prior to burial or cremation, unless you live in colder climates such as Ireland (where waking the dead is an honored tradition), refrigeration is a must. When keeping a body for more than 24 hours in warmer climes, without refrigeration or embalming, decomposition quickly sets in. But - [Jim Henderson Celebrated at Hoffmantown](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/jim-henderson-celebrated-at-hoffmantown/) - The obituary for James T. Henderson, 71, said, "a sinner saved by God's Grace, went to see his Lord on November 7, 2010." - [2nd Annual Indigent Burial for Bernalillo County](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/second-annual-indigent-burial-for-bernalillo-county/) - This post focuses on the indigent burial ceremony held by Bernalillo County and Riverside Funeral Home in 2013. - [Who Is Gail Rubin and Why is She Writing About Funeral Planning?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/why-pre-plan/who-is-gail-rubin-and-why-is-she-writing-about-funeral-planning/) - As a columnist for the now-defunct Albuquerque Tribune, I wrote “Matchings, Hatchings, and Dispatchings,” a how-to feature about local weddings, births, and deaths. The columns on death invariably elicited the greatest number of responses from readers who resonated with the information. To help people better handle the life cycle event associated with death, I have - [Introducing A Good Goodbye Radio Show](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/introducing-a-good-goodbye-weekly-radio-show/) - Talking about sex won't make you pregnant, talking about funerals won't make you dead. - [Jewish-Christian Dialogue Colloquium Coming March 5](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-christian-dialogue-colloquium-coming-march-5/) - The Jewish-Christian Dialogue (JCD) is holding its Spring Colloquium with the topic "50 Years of Vatican II: Where Are We Now?" - [Comparing Cremation and Alkaline Hydrolysis](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/comparing-cremation-and-alkaline-hydrolysis/) - "A clean green process" is how Jeff Edwards of Edwards Funeral Services describes Aquamation, his term for alkaline hydrolysis. - [When Ash Scattering, Be Considerate](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/when-ash-scattering-be-considerate/) - Scattering ashes or cremated remains can be done in plenty of places, but please don't do it on tribal lands. - [FTC Undercover: 23% of Funeral Homes Break the Law](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/ftc-undercover-23-of-funeral-homes-break-the-law/) - The Federal Trade Commission has The Funeral Rule to help protect consumers when they shop for funeral goods and services. - [Bronze Statuary from The Garden Gallery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/bronze-statuary-from-the-garden-gallery/) - In this video from the ICCFA expo, see a collection of bronze statuary for cemeteries for cremation scattering areas and cremated remains plots. - [Restricting Flowers in Cemeteries Sends Wrong Message](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/restricting-flowers-in-cemeteries-sends-wrong-message/) - Is it wrong for cemeteries to remove flowers to keep things tidy? In yesterday's Albuquerque Journal, columnist Leslie Linthicum wrote about a policy change at the Catholic cemeteries run by the Catholic Cemetery Association, titled Flowerless Cemetery Feels 'Cold'. The Catholic Cemetery Association, an independent agency that manages two Catholic cemeteries in Albuquerque and one - ["Death Panels" or Prudent Planning?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/death-panels-or-prudent-planning/) - Even with advance medical directives in place, when the time comes to put the patient's wishes into action, real life gets messy. - [Funeralwise.com TV Body Count Study Says It's Deadly Out There](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/funeralwise-com-tv-body-count-study-says-its-deadly-out-there/) - The funeral planning website Funeralwise.com has come out with it's second TV show body count study - and baby, it's deadly out there! The bad news - the body count is higher than it was for the first study, and the number of funerals shown for all of these deaths is next to nil. Out - [Poem on Mortality: Notice by Steve Kowit](https://agoodgoodbye.com/live-for-today/poem-on-mortality-notice-by-steve-kowit/) - At today's Doorways of Santa Fe meeting, a gentleman who goes by the name Mudman shared this poem. It's a reminder that living and dying are all part of the same process. Notice - by Steve Kowit This evening, the sturdy Levi's I wore every day for over a year & which seemed to the - [Green Burial and Home Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/green-burial-and-home-funerals/) - Steps to take for a home-directed funeral in New Mexico and green burial, body donation and other how-to information for end-of-life issues. - [TV Show Body Count Study by Funeralwise.com](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/tv-show-body-count-study-by-funeralwise-com/) - A Funeralwise.com study counted dead bodies on television shows to measure the role of death in popular culture. The 40 TV series averaged 132 dead bodies. - [Jewish Burial and Resurrection](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/jewish-burial-and-resurrection/) - During a radio interview on WIBC in Indianapolis Gail Rubin discussed the ritual cleansing and dressing of the body that precedes a traditional Jewish burial. - [60 Minutes Story on Cemeteries](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/60-minutes-story-on-cemeteries/) - In 2012, on 60 Minutes, Anderson Cooper reported on abuses by cemeteries and asked if dishonesty and mismanagement was rampant in the industry. - [Services Behind-the-Scenes at ICCFA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/services-behind-the-scenes-at-iccfa/) - In the funeral industry, there are a number of companies that offer funeral services you may not know about. Find out more at the ICCFA convention! - [Tweeting at Funerals: Wrong, Wrong, Wrong](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/tweeting-at-funerals-wrong-wrong-wrong/) - Tweeting and using electronic devices during a memorial service is dead wrong. Here are 10 points that illustrate why. - [Doctors Die Differently](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/doctors-die-differently/) - In these columns and articles on how doctors approach end-of-life care for themselves, doctors choose quality of life over quantity of time almost every time. - [Hidden Retirement Trend - The Good Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/hidden-retirement-trend-the-good-death/) - "Five hidden retirement trends of 2011" focuses on important emerging trends that will require your attention in the months and years to come. - [In Australia, Costs Factor into Choices There, Too](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/in-australia-costs-factor-into-choices-there-too/) - The decision between burial and cremation is a personal one but it carries many financial implications, with price tags that can differ by thousands of dollars. - [Upcoming Talks and Events](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/upcoming-talks-and-events/) - Gail Rubin, "The Doyenne of Death," has lots of talks coming up that you might find of interest. Outside of Albuquerque, I'm coming soon to Miami, Florida and Denver, Colorado. Check out the schedule: Wednesday, February 22: 10:15 a.m. “Funny Films for Serious Funeral Planning” presentation to Silver Sneakers participants at the McLeod YMCA, 12500 - [The Ice Man Meets The Doyenne of Death at Frozen Dead Guy Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/the-ice-man-meets-the-doyenne-of-death-at-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - The Ice Man cometh to meet the Doyenne of Death at the annual Frozen Dead Guy Days Festival on Saturday, March 14, 2020 at 4:00 p.m. - [Introducing The Newly-Dead Game Individuals Edition](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/introducing-the-newly-dead-game-individuals-edition/) - Everyone, not just couples, can now play The Newly-Dead Game at Frozen Dead Guy Days! - [More News on the Frozen Dead Guy](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/more-news-on-the-frozen-dead-guy/) - Who says you can't make news when you're dead? - [Frozen Dead Guy Days Round Two](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/frozen-dead-guy-days-round-two/) - Mark your calendars for March 2-4, 2012 for the 11th annual Frozen Dead Guy Days festival in Nederland, Colorado! I'll be at this wild and wacky celebration of all things dead and frozen, bringing back The Newly-Dead Game™ which debuted there last year. Frozen Dead Guy Days is enjoying a surge of publicity over the - [Ideas for Children at Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/ideas-for-children-at-funerals/) - Dear Abby recently ran a column about ways to help children grieve and address the dearly departed at a funeral. Readers also had additional helpful ideas. - [Regina Leader Post Mentions A Good Goodbye!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/regina-leader-post-mentions-a-good-goodbye/) - Lifestyle editor Irene Seiberling with The Regina Leader Post, based in Regina, Saskatchewan (way up north in Canada), just posted this in her online column, Anything and Everything: Book Helps People Plan Their Own End-of-Life Event Just as talking about sex won’t make you pregnant, talking about funerals won’t make you dead, says Gail Rubin, - [Event: New Hampshire Funeral Directors Association Meeting](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-new-hampshire-funeral-directors-association-meeting/) - Gail Rubin is the keynote speaker at the summer meeting of the New Hampshire Funeral Directors Association. - [Eco-Friendly Disposal and Green Burial](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/eco-friendly-disposal-and-green-burial/) - This story on new trends in environmentally friendly disposal methods is titled "The greening of death - eco-friendly burials boom." - [Does Happiness Equal Longetivity?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/happiness-equal-longetivity/) - Helen “Happy” Reichert, who died at age 109, had this recipe for success: chocolate truffles, hamburgers, Budweiser beer, cigarettes and New York nightlife. - [Celebrants Offer More Meaningful Funerals](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/celebrants-offer-more-meaningful-funerals/) - Meaningful funerals. Isn’t that a given? Aren’t most funerals meaningful and personal? If you’ve been to one recently, you know that’s not always the case. - [New Trend: 3-D Faces on Gravestones](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/new-trend-3-d-faces-on-gravestones/) - A company in Florida called LOOKLIKES is using 3-D mapping technology to make eerily realistic face sculptures of the deceased to put on their memorial markers. - [Eleanor Clift on the Conversation about Hospice](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/eleanor-clift-on-the-conversation-about-hospice/) - Eleanor Clift had a column in today's Cleveland Plain Dealer about the importance of talking about hospice and end-of-life care and choices. - [Gail Rubin Becomes a Certified Celebrant](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/gail-rubin-becomes-a-certified-celebrant/) - In our mobile society with fewer ties to church or a specific religion, Funeral Celebrants offer families a personalized and individualized funeral or memorial service experience. Gail Rubin, author of A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, recently became a Funeral Celebrant certified by the In-Sight Institute. A Funeral Celebrant - [Food for Thought on End-of-Life Issues](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/food-for-thought-on-end-of-life-issues/) - David Brooks op-ed column, titled "Death and Budgets," makes a number of good points about facing death and the costs we incur avoiding the final deadline. - [News and Notes: Comparing Funeral Traditions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-comparing-funeral-traditions/) - British versus American funerals, the truth about Bredo Morstoel, and upcoming A Good Goodbye events and interviews. - [DNA Memorial Saves Genetic Information](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/dna-memorial-saves-genetic-information/) - DNA Memorial offers families an option for saving genetic material prior to cremation or burial of a loved one. - [Witness to the El Paso Strong Weekend](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/witness-to-the-el-paso-strong-weekend/) - A report from the front lines of the El Paso mass shooting aftermath, as the community comes together to mourn and rise again. - [Feb. 16: Grief Resource Center Book and Author Event](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/feb-16-grief-resource-center-book-and-author-event/) - The Grief Resource Center of New Mexico will hold a two-hour book signing event featuring presentations by authors of books and poetry that help heal grief. - [Advice for Widows in First Year](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/advice-for-widows-in-first-year/) - "Don't make any changes for a year" is the conventional wisdom after a spouse dies. However, it's not always the best financial advice for widows. - [Two and a Half Men Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/two-and-a-half-men-funeral/) - Charlie Sheen's character is killed off at the beginning of the 2011 season of Two and a Half Men, and the funeral is quite traditional. - [The Living Wake Looks Promising](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/the-living-wake-looks-promising/) - Just found out about a new film called "The Living Wake." It looks like an intriguing take on living and dying from the trailer. I'm a big fan of the idea of a memorial service while you're still alive to share thoughts and feelings with your family. Here's the official description of the movie: “The - [Backstage at the Crematorium](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/backstage-at-the-crematorium/) - The Week, "The best of the U.S. and international media," has an excerpt from a new book, Curtains by Tom Jokinen, in the May 7 issue. It's in "The last word" section, and they titled the piece Backstage at the crematorium. Jokinen writes, "I have come on a mission - to understand the rituals of - [Liberate and Honor Cremated Remains for Free](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/liberate-and-honor-cremated-remains-for-free/) - Mark your calendars for "Scattering Day" on August 26 at Sunset Memorial Park and give those closeted cremated remains a final resting place. - [Introducing The Bonsai Urn: Growing Life from Loving Memories](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/introducing-the-bonsai-urn-growing-life-from-loving-memories/) - The Bonsai Urn offers an elegant option for cremated remains, with portability and a living plant to memorialize loved ones. - [Sept. 14: Women Make a Difference Lunch and Learn](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/sept-14-women-make-a-difference-lunch-and-learn/) - It's not too late to sign up for the Sept. 14 Women Make a Difference with Gail Rubin speaking on "Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die." - [Video: Discreetly Scatter Ashes with Walking Stick Urn](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/video-discreetly-scatter-ashes-with-walking-stick-urn/) - You could take the cremated remains of a loved one over a favorite hiking trail and inconspicuously release their remains to rest in peace. - [Nov. 11: Authors Fair at the Albuquerque Museum](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/nov-11-authors-fair-at-the-albuquerque-museum/) - Gail Rubin is among the New Mexico authors featured at this year's Albuquerque Museum Foundation fund-raising book festival. - [Funerals in Commercials](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/funerals-in-commercials/) - Collected a few fun funeral-themed commercials on YouTube for your amusement today! When I played this classic Beetle commercial, my husband (who can quote movie and TV show lines by heart) started saying the lines. http://youtu.be/fCHWhIHIuhY Love this Cell Phone Karma commercial from Kyocera: http://youtu.be/qnqhQMUeMkQ The Golden Gate Funeral Home did this interesting take on - [Video Review: Consider the Conversation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/film-and-video-reviews/video-review-consider-the-conversation/) - http://youtu.be/dHzho42Osvk Consider the Conversation: a documentary on a taboo subject presents an insightful look at the American struggle with communication about and preparation for end-of-life issues. This film provides a warm way to open the door to those conversations, with interviews featuring leaders in hospice care, religious leaders, medical professionals, and people who faced the - [Could You Manage Your Parents Finances Right Now?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/could-you-manage-your-parents-finances-right-now/) - Managing someone else’s finances, such as your parents', can be incredibly complicated. - [September 10: ABQ Death Cafe at Morris Hall](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/september-10-abq-death-cafe-at-morris-hall/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Tuesday, September 10 from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. at the offices of Morris Hall Estate Planning Attorneys. - [US Funeral Protests - A British View](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/us-funeral-protests-a-british-view/) - The current Supreme Court consideration of funeral protests as protected free speech has one funeral blogger in the UK "Relieved to be British." After the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay group based in Topeka, Kansas, picketed the 2006 funeral of Marine Lance Cpl. Matthew Snyder bearing signs that read "God Hates the USA," the serviceman's - [The Good Funeral Guide Reviews A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/the-good-funeral-guide-reviews-a-good-goodbye/) - Charles Cowling, author of The Good Funeral Guide, based in the U.K., just gave A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die a nice review on his blog. He says the Brits have a lot to learn from U.S. funeral customs and Jewish funeral practices. In the U.K., cremation is widely - [Introducing the "Dump-A-Drawer" Way to Declutter](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/introducing-the-dump-a-drawer-way-to-declutter/) - Overwhelmed by clutter every time you open a drawer, a cabinet or a closet? Try Gail Rubin's "Dump-A-Drawer" approach to decluttering! - [May 20: ABQ Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/may-20-abq-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe is scheduled for Saturday, May 20, from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at Gail Rubin’s home. - [Publishers Weekly Gives Rubin's Bucket List Book a Positive Review!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/publishers-weekly-gives-rubins-bucket-list-book-a-positive-review/) - The respected Publishers Weekly recently ran a positive review of KICKING THE BUCKET LIST: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die. - [Lessons on Grief and Mourning in Cartoons](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/lessons-on-grief-and-mourning-in-cartoons/) - Gail Rubin's presentation features clips from popular cartoon films to illustrate and instruct about mourning, grief and sadness and strategies for growth. - [Love These Creative Urns from Mexico!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/love-these-creative-urns-from-mexico/) - The word sacbé means a path to walk through . Sacbé Urns from Mexico brought their handmade urns to the 2018 ICCFA expo. - [FAQ on Shipping Bodies Overseas](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/faq-on-shipping-bodies-overseas/) - The National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) posted a FAQ page on shipping bodies internationally. - [Fun Photos from Frozen Dead Guy Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/fun-photos-from-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - The 2019 Frozen Dead Guy Days festival in Nederland, Colorado drew a record-breaking 20-25,000 attendees March 8-10. - [July 10 Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/july-10-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe, hosted by Gail Rubin online, will be Sunday, July 10, 3:00 p.m. MDT - sign up through the Meetup event link in this blog post. - [Green Burial Curious? Join the Conversation October 21!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/green-burial-curious-join-the-conversation-october-21/) - On October 21, death educator Gail Rubin hosts a free virtual conversation about what green burial means, opening the 2021 Green Burial Council conference. - [Desmond Tutu's Funeral Featured Plain Pine Coffin and Aquamation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/desmond-tutus-funeral-featured-plain-pine-coffin-and-aquamation/) - Desmond Tutu’s funeral supported environmentally friendly disposition methods to help fight against climate change with a pine coffin and Aquamation. - [Big News from the Nonprofit Fathers Building Futures](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/big-news-from-the-nonprofit-fathers-building-futures/) - The nonprofit Fathers Building Futures is transitioning to become one of the Atrisco Companies. - [Jewish Funeral Traditions Interrupted by Pandemic](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-funeral-traditions-interrupted-by-pandemic/) - Should a Jewish family experience a death, funeral homes and cemeteries have implemented many of these precautions that alter Jewish funeral traditions. - [How to Hold a Death Cafe While Social Distancing](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/how-to-hold-a-death-cafe-while-social-distancing/) - While social distancing due to COVID-19, you can't hold a traditional in-person Death Cafe, but you can still successfully hold one virtually. - [Coronavirus Kills Frozen Dead Guy Days, ICCFA Convention](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/coronavirus-kills-frozen-dead-guy-days-iccfa-convention/) - The coronavirus killed the Frozen Dead Guy Days festival and the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association (ICCFA) convention. - [DeathTech Projects Look to the Future of Cemeteries and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/deathtech-projects-look-to-the-future-of-cemeteries-and-more/) - The DeathTech Research Team at the University of Melbourne in Australia works to understand the intersection of death, technology, and society. - [News and Notes: ICCFA and ADEC Converge](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-iccfa-and-adec-converge/) - Two death-related conferences in the same place at the same time! Interesting blog posts to come. - [Event: July 24 A Good Goodbye Funny Films Talk](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/event-july-24-a-good-goodbye-funny-films-talk/) - Check this Albuquerque funny films for funeral planning talk at the David Specter Shalom House on Thursday, July 24 at 2:00 p.m. - [News and Notes: Your Burning Questions Answered](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-your-burning-questions-answered/) - Posts on information gleaned at the recent CANA convention and expo and last call for Early Bird rates on TEDxABQ tickets! - [Weird Ways How People Die in America](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/weird-ways-how-people-die-in-america/) - Every year, nearly 120,000 people die from accidents. Although over two-thirds of them occur from vehicle collisions and poisonings, there are plenty of unusual ways people kick the bucket. From a post at www.TermLifeInsurance.org, here's a listing of unusual fatalities for one year, taken from the most recent government statistics: 6 - Ignition or melting - [News and Notes: The Latest on Cremation at CANA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-the-latest-on-cremation-at-cana/) - Weird job titles, news from the Cremation Association of North America convention, and other developments from Gail Rubin and A Good Goodbye. - [Revisions to the Before I Die Seminar in El Paso August 17](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/revisions-to-the-before-i-die-seminar-in-el-paso-august-17/) - After the mass shooting in El Paso on Saturday, August 3, changes are being made to the Before I Die El Paso seminar on Saturday, August 17. - [June 3: Kicking the Bucket List Talk at OsteoStrong](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-3-kicking-the-bucket-list-talk-at-osteostrong/) - On Monday, June 3 starting at 6:00 p.m., Gail Rubin, CT, presents her popular talk, Kicking the Bucket List: Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die. - [Video: How to Assemble a Bamboo Coffin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/video-how-to-assemble-a-bamboo-coffin/) - Got an eco-friendly bamboo casket or coffin that needs assembly? Here's a video that shows how easy it is to put one together for green burial. - [Creative Urn Towers Offer New Options for Cremated Remains](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/creative-urn-towers-offer-new-options-for-cremated-remains/) - Urn Towers Cremation Memorials, Companion Memorials for pets, and Celtic Urns were introduced at the 2019 ICCFA convention and expo. - [April 23: A Good Goodbye at B2B Networking Expo](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/april-23-a-good-goodbye-at-b2b-networking-expo/) - Come meet Gail Rubin at A Good Goodbye's booth #51 at the B2B Networking Expo on Tuesday, April 23, 2019. - [2019 Before I Die NM Festival Schedule](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/2019-before-i-die-nm-festival-schedule/) - Register for the free events taking place November 3-10 in Albuquerque, Santa Fe, Taos and Espanola, New Mexico. - [Celebrate Day of the Dead November 3rd in Albuquerque](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/celebrate-day-of-the-dead-november-3rd-in-albuquerque/) - Missing the Marigold Parade in Albuquerque? Come to the Dia de los Muertos celebration Nov. 3 instead, the start of the Before I Die New Mexico Festival. - [Help Kickstart A Will for the Woods Green Burial Documentary](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/help-kickstart-a-will-for-the-woods-green-burial-documentary/) - A Will for the Woods is a groundbreaking (ha! pun intended) documentary about the growing of the green burial movement in the U.S., focused on one man's cancer journey toward a sustainable final resting place. The highly-praised film is only just starting to become available after its film festival debut in April, 2013. Want to help - [Announcing the All Men Are Cremated Equal T-Shirt!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/announcing-the-all-men-are-cremated-equal-t-shirt/) - "All men (and women) are cremated equal" makes a bold statement in white text on this black short-sleeved T-shirt. - [Videos: Fun Times at Frozen Dead Guy Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/videos-fun-times-at-frozen-dead-guy-days/) - Watch videos of couples and individuals playing The Newly-Dead Game at Frozen Dead Guy Days! - [News and Notes: TEDxABQ and Mortality Minute](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-tedxabq-and-mortality-minute/) - News about Gail Rubin's upcoming TEDxABQ talk on preneed funeral planning and preparing advance medical directives, Mortality Minute spots and more. - [60 Minutes on the Cost of Dying](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/60-minutes-on-the-cost-of-dying/) - If you missed last night's 60 Minutes story on the cost of dying, I recommend you visit their web site to see the story and all the web extras on this page. Steve Kroft introduced the piece saying, "Every medical study ever conducted has concluded that 100 percent of all Americans will eventually die. This - [ABQ Death Cafe November 7](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/abq-death-cafe-november-7/) - Will the results of the election tomorrow prompt thoughts of mortality for you? Come and talk it out at the second Death Cafe in Albuquerque! This opportunity to talk about whatever is on your heart or mind about death will take place on Wednesday, November 7. So far, we have six people signed up to - [Saluting Pioneering Funeral Planner Allison Copening](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/saluting-pioneering-funeral-planner-allison-copening/) - Allison Copening, founder of Seasons Funeral Planning in Las Vegas, Nevada, recently died at the age of 55. - [2019 Before I Die NM Festival was a Big Success!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die/2019-before-i-die-nm-festival-was-a-big-success/) - The Before I Die New Mexico Festival drew between 1,200 to 2,000 participants in Albuquerque, Santa Fe, Taos and Espanola. - [September 22 Albuquerque Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/september-22-albuquerque-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Sunday, September 22, 2019 from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m., hosted by Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®. - [Webinar: How to Downsize and Organize Your Life Before Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/webinar-how-to-downsize-and-organize-your-life-before-death/) - This free online talk by Gail Rubin shares practical ways to downsize without being overwhelmed by the job and planning ahead for end-of-life issues. - [Gail Rubin Shares Her Best 2019 Highlights](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/gail-rubin-shares-her-best-2019-highlights/) - Here's an electronic version of Gail Rubin's holiday letter, a roundup of highlights from 2019, with links to the videos and posts mentioned! - [Medicine and Mortality](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/medicine-and-mortality/) - Today, two items regarding end-of-life and having a conversation about one's own mortality. Medical directives are imperative to ensure living and dying the way you want. The following chat and op-ed give you lots of food for thought. For more than a year now, Los Angeles Times columnist Steve Lopez has been writing and talking - [Before Their Time Memorial Songs and Music](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/before-their-time-memorial-songs-and-music/) - No one expects to have their child die. Michael Whitman certainly didn't. After getting the phone call that Whitman's son Breck had killed himself at the age of 23, Sydney Long immediately sat down at the piano and wrote a song for the young man. She performed it at his memorial service three weeks later. - [Funeral Board Game in the Works](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/funeral-board-game-in-the-works/) - FUNERAL DIRECTOR: A Race to Your Final Resting Place is a proposed board game to make funeral planning fun. It's currently a project at Kickstarter.com, an innovative avenue for independent entrepreneurs to get funding for their creative projects. The game is best played by four people. They pick a card to learn how they die, - [Funeral for Johnny Tapia](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-for-johnny-tapia/) - The news here in Albuquerque is yesterday's big funeral for deceased boxer Johnny Tapia. A legendary local figure, almost 7,000 people attended a spirited memorial service for him held at the UNM Arena, a.k.a. The Pit. One interesting thing about this outpouring of public connection: no one questioned that there would be some sort of - [The Styx Chyx AfterParty with Peter Callan](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/the-styx-chyx-afterparty-with-peter-callan/) - Watch this video to learn about preparing for end-of-life issues with Peter Callan, author of "Prepare to Die!!! and Other Stuff Nobody Told You." - [July 1: Virtual Visits, a Reimagine Festival Conversation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-1-virtual-visits-a-reimagine-festival-conversation/) - With coronavirus social distancing, AFTR provides a new way to stay connected. This event is part of Reimagine: Life, Loss & Love, a Worldwide Virtual Festival. - [Model A and Model T Fords at Historic Fairview Cemetery Memorial Day Tours](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/model-a-and-model-t-fords-at-historic-fairview-cemetery-memorial-day-tours/) - Look at Model T and Model A Fords and learn about the history of Albuquerque with guided tours at Historic Fairview Cemetery this Memorial Day, May 31, 2021. - [January 16: Xeric Garden Groundbreaking at Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/january-16-xeric-garden-groundbreaking-at-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - Attend the groundbreaking event for the xeric demonstration garden at Historic Fairview Cemetery on Saturday, January 16 at 1:30 p.m. - [Free Live Webinar May 7: Funny Films for Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/free-live-webinar-tomorrow-funny-films-for-funeral-planning/) - Join Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death®, for 90-minutes of funny film and TV show clips that put the "fun" in funeral planning! - [Audition for TV Show on Fabulous Women of the Funeral Industry](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/audition-for-tv-show-on-fabulous-women-of-the-funeral-industry/) - There is a reality TV show looking to cast Fabulous Women of the Funeral Industry - and who else is more fabulous than yours truly, The Doyenne of Death? Could A Good Goodbye be on national television? The producers put out a call for women to be considered, so why not shoot for the moon? - [2012 Edition of 30 Funerals in 30 Days](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/2012-edition-of-30-funerals-in-30-days/) - The third "30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge" is coming soon. From mid-August to mid-September, Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death™, will attend a funeral a day and write about each on The Family Plot Blog. The goals of the 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge are to: 1. Illustrate the many creative ways people - [The Curve Balls of Life and Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/the-curve-balls-of-life-and-death/) - Four members of my immediate family passed away over the last year. In answer to your question, two were older, and two were not. - [Body Broker Bill to Protect Families Making Body Donations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/body-broker-bill-to-protect-families-making-body-donations/) - Body brokers give body donation a bad name. A new bill in Congress seeks to help protect families from bad actors in the business. - [COVID-19 Funeral Costs to be Reimbursed by FEMA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/covid-19-funeral-costs-to-be-reimbursed-by-fema/) - The Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) is offering to help pay for COVID-19 funeral costs, up to $9,000 per funeral. - [Announcing the Urn Store at A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/announcing-the-urn-store-at-a-good-goodbye/) - Need a cremation urn, cremation jewelry, or keepsake urns? Check out A Good Goodbye’s Urn Store. - [Clothing for the Deceased](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/clothing-for-the-deceased/) - A.R.K. Garment Company has been manufacturing burial garments since 1928. It takes some unique tailoring to make garments look good on the dead. - [What To Do With Pet Remains?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/what-to-do-with-pet-remains/) - What you do with your pet's remains can vary widely: burial, cremation, and other options to help deal with a pet's death. - [Pet Transportation Boxes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/pet-loss-issues/pet-transportation-boxes/) - Custom Air Trays Pet Products Division provides cardboard boxes to transport deceased pets. - [Pet Urn Innovation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/pet-urn-innovation/) - Gracious Remembrance offers urns for pets that allow you the opportunity to slip in a photo. - [ABQ Death Cafe a Big Success!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/abq-death-cafe-a-big-success/) - The first Death Café west of the Mississippi was a resounding success. Held at a restaurant in Albuquerque on Sunday, people came together in a relaxed, confidential and safe setting to discuss mortality and death while eating delicious cake and cookies. “As The Doyenne of Death, I’m all about helping to start this conversation, and - [Final Thoughts on the 2012 30 Day Challenge](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/final-thoughts-on-the-2012-30-day-challenge/) - After attending and writing about 30 funerals and memorial services in 30 days, I have made it through to the other side. It has been a journey of tears and laughter, of rituals and symbols, of love and loss. - [Rev. Sun Myung Moon Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/rev-sun-myung-moon-funeral/) - The three and a half hour funeral for the Rev. Sun Myung Moon was the longest of my 30 Funerals in 30 Days Challenge. Actually, it's the longest funeral I've ever experienced. - [Remembering Phillip Jordan](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/remembering-phillip-jordan/) - Phillip Jordan traveled all over this country, from Maine to Alaska, Montana to New Mexico, Seattle to Long Island, and up and down the East Coast. - [6 Celebration Of Life Ideas For Your Senior Loved Ones](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/6-celebration-of-life-ideas-for-your-senior-loved-ones/) - Here are six Celebration Of Life ideas for your senior loved ones, a more creative and casual approach to a funeral or memorial service. - [These Creative Caskets From Trey Ganem Designs Will Amaze You](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/these-creative-caskets-from-trey-ganem-designs-will-amaze-you/) - Thanks to his wildly creative, personalized caskets, Trey Ganem Designs has come a long way in just two years. He also donates caskets for tragic deaths. - [Trey Ganem Personalized Caskets at NFDA](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/trey-ganem-personalized-caskets-at-nfda/) - These one-of-a-kind personalized caskets from Trey Ganem are designed to help the family talk about their deceased loved one and remember them with love. - [Dr. Jeffrey Piehler on Building Your Own Coffin](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/dr-jeffrey-piehler-on-building-your-own-coffin/) - Dr. Jeffrey Piehler joins host Gail Rubin on A Good Goodbye Radio to discuss facing mortality, building his own coffin, and funeral planning issues. - [May 31: How to Downsize and Organize Your Stuff](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/may-31-how-to-downsize-and-organize-your-stuff/) - This talk by death educator Gail Rubin will take place on Thursday, May 31, 1:15 to 2:30 p.m. at the Meadowlark Senior Center, 4330 Meadowlark Lane, Rio Rancho. - [How To Downsize Our Household Goods Before We Die](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/how-to-downsize-our-household-goods-before-we-die/) - The average person in the U.S. consumes twice as much as we did 50 years ago. This is not a sustainable way to live – or die. - [News and Notes: Back From the Dead!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-back-from-the-dead/) - Catching up on A Good Goodbye Radio programs, Greek Orthodox funeral traditions and a new affiliate program for end-of-life and funeral planning websites. - [Fishing for Men This Spring?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/field-notes/fishing-for-men-this-spring/) - A Girl's Pocket Guide to Trouser Trout: Reflections on Dating and Fly-Fishing is your how-to guide to land a good catch. - [Celebrating Christmas with Luminaria and End-of-Life Discussions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/celebrating-christmas-with-luminaria-and-end-of-life-discussions/) - A holiday tradition to embrace this Christmas: luminaria displays and discussing end-of-life decision-making BEFORE a loved one goes to the hospital. - [News and Notes: Resolving to Plan Ahead in 2016](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news-and-notes/news-and-notes-resolving-to-plan-ahead-in-2016/) - We can only laugh about death when it seems far away. Resolve to do your funeral plans early in 2016. - [A Ceremony for Cremation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/a-ceremony-for-cremation/) - A template for a memorial service when cremation is the disposition methods, with options. - [Jewish Funeral Traditions and Superstitions on DVD](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-funeral-traditions-and-superstitions-on-dvd/) - A one-hour DVD that explains Jewish funeral traditions and superstitions is now available! - [Ethical Wills - Part Two](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/ethical-wills-part-two/) - Here is part two of the guest blog post by Gary Newman on ethical wills. - [Ethical Wills - Part One](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/ethical-wills-part-one/) - An excellent guest blog post by Gary Newman on ethical wills, in two parts. - [A Good Goodbye TV Wins Press Women Award](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/a-good-goodbye-tv-wins-press-women-award/) - The TV series A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die took first place in New Mexico Press Women's 2014 Communications Contest. - [Options for Cremated Remains: A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/options-for-cremated-remains-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - In this segment from A Good Goodbye TV, host Gail Rubin discusses options for keeping the cremated remains of a loved one around the house. - [Video: Funeral Cost Management](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/video-funeral-cost-management/) - This short video details funeral financing choices: life insurance, final expense insurance, pre-need insurance, cash and credit cards. - [New DVD Series Kick-Starts Funeral Planning Conversations](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/new-dvd-series-kick-starts-funeral-planning-conversations/) - A Good Goodbye TV interviews are now available as a 4-DVD set with everything you need to know before you go. - [Jeff Harbeson of Funeral Finance Interviewed on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/jeff-harbeson-of-funeral-finance-interviewed-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Examining funeral and memorial service costs and the different ways to pay, either in advance or at-need. - [Cemetery Questions and Answers on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/cemetery-questions-and-answers-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Starting Monday at 2:00 p.m. MT, A Good Goodbye TV looks at cemetery questions and answers. The discussion includes: What you need to know about cemetery trends; Breaking down the costs of a funeral home's services and the cemetery's costs; What are QR codes and how are they used in memorialization; The impact of cremation on the - [Cremation Issues Discussed on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/cremation-issues-discussed-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - A Good Goodbye TV looks at cremation issues: why the cremation rate in the U.S. has climbed, what actually happens in the process, and options for what to do with cremated remains. - [A Good Goodbye TV Series Begins Airing Again Monday](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/a-good-goodbye-tv-series-begins-airing-again-monday/) - UPublic.TV on Comcast Cable in Albuquerque is going to start running the entire A Good Goodbye TV show series again, beginning this coming Monday, July 15. They are re-starting the series from the first episode, in new time slots. Each new episode starts on Monday. The new air days and times on each channel are: - [Facing Mortality on A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/facing-mortality-on-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - If you were given only a few months to live, what would you do? We wrap up the interviews on A Good Goodbye TV with a special guest who is facing his own mortality. Arturo Francisco Olivas is a santero artist, a Franciscan Brother and a cancer survivor who has outlived the initial prognosis he - [Celebrants and Funerals: Episode 5 of A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/celebrants-and-funerals-episode-5-of-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Starting today, Episode Five of A Good Goodbye TV looks at the elements of life celebrations and how celebrants make memorial services all about the person who died and the people who love them. The guests interviewed are Paul Layer with FRENCH Funerals and Cremations and Certified Celebrant Samara Rivett. The discussion includes topics such - [Green Burial and Eco-Friendly Funerals: Episode 4 of A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/green-burial-and-eco-friendly-funerals-episode-4-of-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Want to "go green" with your funeral or cremation? Episode Four of A Good Goodbye TV looks at green burial and eco-friendly funerals. While most people associate green only with living, green funerals and green burials provide a way to make end-of-life more meaningful. The discussion includes cremation scattering, funeral resource use and ways to - [Cemetery Q and A: Episode 3 of A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/cemetery-q-and-a-episode-3-of-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Starting today, Episode Three of A Good Goodbye TV looks at cemetery questions and answers. The discussion includes what you need to know about cemetery costs and trends, memorial QR codes, mausoleums, cemeteries and cremation, and clearing up misconceptions regarding cemeteries. The guests interviewed are Chris Keller and Vaughn Hendren, both with FRENCH Funerals and - [Cremation Issues: Episode 2 of A Good Goodbye TV](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/cremation-issues-episode-2-of-a-good-goodbye-tv/) - Episode Two of A Good Goodbye TV looks at cremation issues. - [A Good Goodbye TV Starts Next Week in ABQ!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-tv/a-good-goodbye-tv-starts-next-week-in-abq/) - Exciting news! Episodes of the brand-new A Good Goodbye TV show will start airing on Albuquerque's Comcast cable system on the uPUBLIC.tv Channels 26 and 27 beginning next week on April 9, 2013. A Good Goodbye TV, an educational and entertaining 14-episode series of 30-minute programs, presents expert interviews on "everything you need to know - [Easy How To Tips for Writing a Condolence Card or Note](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/easy-how-to-tips-for-writing-a-condolence-card-or-note/) - Use journalism’s “Five Ws” to guide your way writing as condolence card or sympathy note: Who, What, When, Where, and Why. - [Writing Condolence Cards and Letters](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/writing-condolence-cards-and-letters/) - How to compose a card with a note of sympathy or condolences. - [The One Who Dies With The Most Toys... Still Dies](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/the-one-who-dies-with-the-most-toys-still-dies/) - If you love T-shirts with snappy sayings, snap up the latest T-shirt from A Good Goodbye: "The One Who Dies With The Most Toys... Still Dies." - [The One Who Dies With The Most Toys...](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/the-one-who-dies-with-the-most-toys/) - We've got more of those black T-shirts with the eye-catching slogan, "The one who dies with the most toys... still dies." Order yours today! - [July 21: Albuquerque Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-21-albuquerque-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place on Sunday, July 21, 2019 from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. - [Skeletons in the Closet: Fun Shopping at the L.A. Coroner's Office](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/skeletons-in-the-closet-fun-shopping-at-the-l-a-coroners-office/) - From beach towels to coffee mugs, aprons to t-shirts, the L.A. Coroner's office gift shop has items that help you laugh in the face of death. - [March 25: ABQ Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/march-25-abq-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe, hosted by Gail Rubin, is scheduled for Saturday, March 25, from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. More information at this post. - [Videos from the ICCFA Funeral Convention](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/videos-from-the-iccfa-funeral-convention/) - Watch videos from the expo at the 2022 International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association convention and expo, back in person after the pandemic. - [April 10 Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/april-10-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will be held online on Sunday, April 10 at 3:00 p.m. MDT. It's hosted by Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®. - [Funeral News Stories](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/funeral-news-stories-2/) - These funeral news stories offer ways to talk about death and dying, compiled by Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death®. - [Curating Family Photos with Martie McNabb](https://agoodgoodbye.com/downsizing/curating-family-photos-with-martie-mcnabb/) - Have you inherited your family’s photo collection? Here are some tips to manage what to keep and what to toss, from personal historian Martie McNabb. - [KICKING THE BUCKET LIST: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/kicking-the-bucket-list-100-downsizing-and-organizing-things-to-do-before-you-die/) - Kicking the Bucket List: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die helps you plan ahead for end-of-life issues. - [March 20 Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/march-20-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe, hosted by Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death, will be held online on Sunday, March 20 at 3:00 p.m. MDT. - [The Pandemic Changed Our World Two Years Ago Today](https://agoodgoodbye.com/frozen-dead-guy-days/the-pandemic-changed-our-world-two-years-ago-today/) - After two pandemic years off, The Newly-Dead Game is coming back to Frozen Dead Guy Days, with Martie McNabb hosting at this year's festival. - [Albuquerque Business First Gives Best Nonprofit Board Award to Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/albuquerque-business-first-gives-best-nonprofit-board-award-to-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - The Board of Historic Fairview Cemetery was recognized by Albuquerque Business First's 2022 Philanthropy Awards for Best Boards. - [Historic Fairview Cemetery Board Honored with Philanthropy Award](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/historic-fairview-cemetery-board-honored-with-philanthropy-award/) - The Board of Historic Fairview Cemetery is being recognized by Albuquerque Business First's 2022 Philanthropy Awards for Best Boards. - [Video Interview: Navigating the Pandemic](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/video-interview-navigating-the-pandemic/) - In this "Books to Die For" interview, Teresa Schreiber Werth talks about the book, "Navigating the Pandemic: Stories of Hope and Resilience." - [How Being Prepared for End-of-Life Helps Us with Our Grief](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/how-being-prepared-for-end-of-life-helps-us-with-our-grief/) - Grief can be made easier to bear with instructions from the deceased. Here's a story of one such letter, titled Upon My Death. - [Talking About Near Death Experiences and Shared Death Experiences](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/talking-about-near-death-experiences-and-shared-death-experiences/) - William Peters, author of At Heaven's Door, talks with Gail Rubin about Near Death Experiences and Shared Death Experiences in this video interview. - [What Medical Professionals Need to Know About NDEs](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/what-medical-professionals-need-to-know-about-ndes/) - Doctors and nurses receive little training about Near Death Experiences (NDEs), largely due to a lack of informational training materials. That is changing. - [How Near-Death Experiences Change Views of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/a-good-goodbye-radio/how-near-death-experiences-change-views-of-death/) - Could having a near-death experience reduce fear of death and of funeral planning? Listen to A Good Goodbye on December 11 and find out! - [More on Alkaline Hydrolysis](https://agoodgoodbye.com/trends-in-death-care/more-on-alkaline-hydrolysis/) - There's an opinion column in today's Roanoke Times titled "Flush and bone: the future of alkaline hydrolysis in Virginia." - [Alkaline Hydrolysis Halted in Ohio: Will Still Change Funeral Industry](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/alkaline-hydrolysis-halted-in-ohio-will-still-change-funeral-industry/) - The state of Ohio has halted the use of alkaline hydrolysis, a process that uses heat and chemicals to render body tissue to an environmentally-friendly liquid. - [Green Burial Tips for Earth Day](https://agoodgoodbye.com/how-to-tips/green-burial-tips-for-earth-day/) - In honor of Earth Day, here are some eco-friendly tips for greening your burial and other funeral planning arrangements from the Green Burial Council. - [Video: Gary Mayhew Memorial Service](https://agoodgoodbye.com/memorable-life-celebrations/video-gary-mayhew-memorial-service/) - This memorial service for Gary Mayhew was held on November 5, 2021. The video starts with a photo montage and ends with a video message from Gary in 2013. - [Gail Rubin Presents New Video Illustrated Talk Online December 9](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/gail-rubin-presents-new-video-illustrated-talk-online-december-9/) - On December 9, pioneering death educator Gail Rubin presents a new video-illustrated talk on Zoom: Not Planning to Die with The Kominsky Method. - [Use This Executor's Checklist to Smooth Estate Transitions](https://agoodgoodbye.com/kicking-the-bucket/use-this-executors-checklist-to-smooth-estate-transitions/) - Check out this executor's checklist of 50 steps to shut down the many aspects of a life and estate. - [Obituary for Gary Mayhew](https://agoodgoodbye.com/notable-obituaries/obituary-for-gary-mayhew/) - Gary Mayhew would rather not make a fuss over his death on October 26, 2021. But his many friends miss him and will celebrate his life November 5. - [Why Aren't More New Mexicans Claiming COVID-19 Funeral Expenses?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/why-arent-more-new-mexicans-claiming-covid-19-funeral-expenses/) - Only about 35% of New Mexicans are claiming COVID-19 funeral expenses from a FEMA program that provides up to $9,000 per death. Why aren't more applying? - [Register Today for Cemetery Stories Storytelling Event November 2](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/register-today-for-cemetery-stories-storytelling-event-november-2/) - Cemetery Stories: Life, Death and Beyond, a live storytelling event, takes place November 2 at 6:00 p.m. in Historic Fairview Cemetery in Albuquerque. - [News Stories: Open Air Cremation in Maine and More](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-news-bits/news-stories-open-air-cremation-in-maine-and-more/) - News about open air cremation developments in the U.S., Before I Die NM Festival schedule, green burial news and saying goodbye in the age of COVID. - [In Person ABQ Death Cafe Moves to Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/in-person-abq-death-cafe-moves-to-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - This Sunday, August 29, the Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place at Historic Fairview Cemetery, located at 700 Yale Blvd. SE. - [Video: Psychic Reading at Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/video-psychic-reading-at-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - Renowned psychic Tammy Holmes visited Historic Fairview Cemetery and shared information about Ruth Hanna McCormick Simms and an uplifting message. - [The Bubblegum Film](https://agoodgoodbye.com/humorous-death-videos/the-bubblegum-film/) - This college film production assignment predicted my future career as The Doyenne of Death - using funny films to discuss end-of-life issues. - [How to Operate a Back Hoe in a Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/how-to-operate-a-back-hoe-in-a-cemetery/) - Watch this video with Gail Rubin to see how a back hoe in a cemetery is operated with the help of hand signals from a spotter. - [July Death Cafe Events Now Scheduled Online or In-Person](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-death-cafe-events-now-scheduled-online-or-in-person/) - The Death Cafe in Albuquerque will hold two events in July: one online on July 11 and one in-person on July 18. Both are hosted by death educator Gail Rubin. - [ABQ Death Cafe to Return to In-Person Meetings!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/abq-death-cafe-to-return-to-in-person-meetings/) - It's time to discuss death - in person! After 15 months, the Albuquerque Death Cafe is now able to meet again in person at Manzano Del Sol. - [Bodies in the Ganges, Ashes to India](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/bodies-in-the-ganges-ashes-to-india/) - Cremation in India is a given. Sending cremated remains to India for scattering is a growing business, even if you aren't a Hindu. - [Common Grief Reactions: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance](https://agoodgoodbye.com/speaking-engagements/common-grief-reactions-denial-anger-bargaining-depression-acceptance/) - Can grief be a good thing? Learn how to recognize our reactions to loss in this video with Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist and The Doyenne of Death®. - [April 18: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/death-cafe/april-18-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place ONLINE on Sunday, April 18, 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. - [A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die Television Interview Series](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/a-good-goodbye-funeral-planning-for-those-who-dont-plan-to-die-television-interview-series/) - Millions think a basic legal will can handle their estate, funeral arrangements and post-death formalities. They’re dead wrong. - [Death & Toys T-Shirt](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/death-toys-t-shirt/) - If you love T-shirts with snappy sayings, snap up this T-shirt from A Good Goodbye. Declare the obvious with this existential statement: “The One Who Dies With The Most Toys… Still Dies.” - [Equalitee Shirt](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/equalitee-shirt/) - If you love T-shirts with snappy sayings, snap up this T-shirt from A Good Goodbye. Declare the obvious with this existential statement: “All men (and women) are cremated Equal!” - [The Book A Good Goodbye](https://agoodgoodbye.com/shopping/the-book-a-good-goodbye/) - Provides the information, inspiration and tools to plan and implement creative, meaningful and memorable end-of-life rituals for people and pets. - [Baby Boomers Have to Deal with Parents' Estates](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/baby-boomers-have-to-deal-with-parents-estates/) - Don’t try to do an estate sale without the help of a professional. - [April 3: Ready to Take the Cholla Challenge?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/april-3-ready-to-take-the-cholla-challenge/) - You have the opportunity to help transplant native cholla cactus in Historic Fairview Cemetery at the monthly volunteer clean up April 3. - [Local TV Station Salutes Gail Rubin as a Remarkable Woman](https://agoodgoodbye.com/media-interviews/local-tv-station-salutes-gail-rubin-as-a-remarkable-woman/) - Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®, was recently saluted as a Remarkable Woman by the local CBS/FOX/CW stations in Albuquerque, New Mexico. - [March 21: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/march-21-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place ONLINE on Sunday, March 21, 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time, hosted by Gail Rubin, CT. - [March 6: Historic Fairview Cemetery Volunteer Clean Up](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/march-6-historic-fairview-cemetery-volunteer-clean-up/) - Want to volunteer your time to make a difference in your community? Join in this clean up at Historic Fairview Cemetery on March 6! - [February 21: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/february-21-online-death-cafe/) - Join the next Albuquerque Death Cafe on Sunday, February 21 online with host, Gail Rubin. - [Body Shipping with Eagle's Wings Air](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/body-shipping-with-eagles-wings-air/) - In this YouTube video, Frank Kaiser talks about how Eagle's Wings Air helps funeral directors and families with the air shipment of bodies. - [Video: The Embalmers' Cookbook Interview with Jeff Chancellor](https://agoodgoodbye.com/book-and-music-reviews/video-the-embalmers-cookbook-interview-with-jeff-chancellor/) - In this video, Jeff Chancellor, co-author of The Embalmers' Cookbook, talks about the book's fun recipes and funeral trivia. - [January 24: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/january-24-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place ONLINE on Sunday, January 24, 2020, 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. Mountain Standard Time. - [Why Did This 88-Year-Old Undo His Funeral Plans?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/why-did-this-88-year-old-undo-his-funeral-plans/) - Why did Gary Newman, CLU, decide to undo his funeral plans, put in place years ago? - [December 20 Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/december-20-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place ONLINE on Sunday, December 20, 2020, 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. MST, hosted by Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death. - [Kyle Tevlin on How to Create Meaningful Memorial Activities](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/kyle-tevlin-on-how-to-create-meaningful-memorial-activities/) - Kyle Tevlin, founder of I Want a Fun Funeral, spoke about “Raising the Bar on Our Funeral Traditions” at the fourth annual Before I Die New Mexico Virtual Festival. - [November 22: Online Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/november-22-online-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will take place ONLINE on Sunday, November 22, 2020, 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. Mountain Standard Time. - [Day 19: Doug Johnson](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/day-19-doug-johnson/) - Doug Johnson was a gift to his family and all who knew him. - [Crazy Things to Do With Ashes](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/crazy-things-to-do-with-ashes/) - There are many unusual things you can do with ashes. - [Conversation: The Emotionally Naked Truth About Suicide](https://agoodgoodbye.com/before-i-die-festivals/conversation-the-emotionally-naked-truth-about-suicide/) - A loss by suicide is like no other and survivors are especially vulnerable in grief. Learn helpful information in this conversation with Anne Moss Rogers. - [Sept. 7: Cemetery Volunteer Clean Up](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/sept-7-cemetery-volunteer-clean-up/) - On Labor Day Monday, September 7, starting at 8:30 a.m., volunteers will help clean up a section of Historic Fairview Cemetery by weeding, harvesting tumbleweeds and picking up trash. - [Body Donation Details with LifeLegacy Foundation](https://agoodgoodbye.com/tools-of-the-trade/body-donation-details-with-lifelegacy-foundation/) - As of February 2017, Science Care handles the operations of LifeLegacy Foundation. Call Science Care to make body donation arrangements at 1-800-417-3747. - [September 13: ABQ Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/september-13-abq-death-cafe/) - The next online ABQ Death Cafe will take place on Zoom on Sunday, September 13 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. - [July 19: ABQ Death Cafe Online](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/july-19-abq-death-cafe-online/) - Our next online ABQ Death Cafe will take place on Zoom on Sunday, July 19 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. - [Flag Replacement Ceremony at Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/historic-fairview-cemetery/flag-replacement-ceremony-at-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - Historic Fairview Cemetery, established in Albuquerque, NM in 1881, is run by a local nonprofit organization. - [How to Scatter Ashes on Sandia Mountain 2020](https://agoodgoodbye.com/cremation/how-to-scatter-ashes-on-sandia-mountain-2020/) - The Crest of Sandia Mountain in Albuquerque, New Mexico is a popular place to scatter cremated remains. Here are some tips on do's and don'ts. - [Mortality Salience with Ernest Becker Scholars](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/mortality-salience-with-ernest-becker-scholars/) - How mortality salience impacts people's willingness to do end-of-life planning. - [How Much More Death Awareness Can You Take?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/ask-the-doyenne/how-much-more-death-awareness-can-you-take/) - News coverage of coronavirus death and illness, police brutality, deadly encounters and protests make us more aware of our mortality. How are you reacting? - [Back by Popular Demand: Funny Death T-shirts!](https://agoodgoodbye.com/gallows-humor/back-by-popular-demand-funny-death-t-shirts/) - Funny death T-shirts: “The One Who Dies With The Most Toys… Still Dies.” and “All men and women are cremated equal.” - [Reimagine Virtual Seminar with The Doyenne of Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/reimagine-virtual-seminar-with-the-doyenne-of-death/) - Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death, hosts a Kicking the Bucket List discussion on June 24 as part of Reimagine: Life, Love, & Loss, a Worldwide Virtual Festival. - [Mortality Salience and End-of-Life Planning Avoidance](https://agoodgoodbye.com/end-of-life-issues/mortality-salience-and-end-of-life-planning-avoidance/) - Mortality Salience and the Terror Management Theory influence people to avoid end-of-life planning. - [Jewish Traditions Regarding Death](https://agoodgoodbye.com/religious-traditions/jewish-traditions-regarding-death/) - Gail Rubin, Certified Thanatologist (a death educator), presents Jewish traditions and rituals that take place before, during and after a funeral. - [June 28: Online ABQ Death Cafe](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/june-28-online-abq-death-cafe/) - The next Albuquerque Death Cafe will be held online through Zoom on Sunday, June 28, 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. - [Free Memorial Day Tours at Historic Fairview Cemetery](https://agoodgoodbye.com/events/free-memorial-day-tours-at-historic-fairview-cemetery/) - This Memorial Day, Monday, May 25, 2020, the public is welcome to visit Historic Fairview Cemetery in Albuquerque and take a free guided tour. - [Day 7: Sharon Erickson](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/day-7-sharon-erickson/) - Sharon Abra Fullilove, known on-air on Albuquerque's KOB-TV Eyewitness News morning show as Sharon Erickson, died too young at the age of 30 after complications from heart surgery. - [Day 17: Sidney N. Stone](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/day-17-sidney-n-stone/) - The amazing obituary for Sidney N. Stone, and the setting for the memorial service at the German American Club, spoke volumes about the man. - [Vernon Garcia Rosary and Wake](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/vernon-garcia-rosary-and-wake/) - Vernon Garcia faced death ten years ago when he suffered a massive heart attack at age 54. Quadruple bypass surgery saved his life. - [Paul Holcomb Celebration of Life](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/paul-holcomb-celebration-of-life/) - Paul Holcomb was only 42 when he died in his sleep on Saturday night, but he had lived three decades longer than doctors predicted. - [Kimberly Marie Sauter Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/kimberly-marie-sauter-funeral/) - Purple was the color scheme for Kimberly Marie Sauter's funeral. - [Ralph Perea: A Victory Celebration](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/ralph-perea-a-victory-celebration/) - A victory celebration for Ralph Perea coming into the radiant presence of his heavenly Father filled the funeral home chapel with family and friends. - [Do You Need Burial Insurance?](https://agoodgoodbye.com/guest-blog-posts/do-you-need-burial-insurance/) - If you want a proper funeral for yourself or a family member, you may want to take out burial insurance to be able to afford funeral or cremation costs. - [Good Tips on Funeral Planning](https://agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home-how-to/good-tips-on-funeral-planning/) - You can find tons of great funeral planning information in this article by Tom Murphy of the Associated Press. - [Friday Funeral Film: The Great Gatsby](https://agoodgoodbye.com/friday-funeral-films/friday-funeral-film-the-great-gatsby/) - The life and death of F. Scott Fitzgerald draws a strong parallel to that of Jay Gatsby, the namesake of the book's title. - [Freddie Drake Junior Motorcycle Funeral](https://agoodgoodbye.com/30-day-challenge/freddie-drake-junior-motorcycle-funeral/) - It was standing room only at the Bandidos-supported funeral for Freddie Drake, a.k.a. Junior, a.k.a. 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Rubin uses gentle humor to convey vital information about funeral arrangements that - [UMich](https://agoodgoodbye.com/umich/) - Thank you for visiting AGoodGoodbye.com! If you'd like to get a copy of the list of films in Gail Rubin's Grief Week presentation, Laughing in the Face of Death: Movies, Medicine and Mortality, please enter your information in the form below. After you've completed filling in the form, you'll be redirected to the page to - [Frozen Dead Guy Days News](https://agoodgoodbye.com/news/news-releases/frozen-dead-guy-days-news/) - Freeze The Day for Frozen Dead Guy Days March 4-6, 2011 Play “The Newly-Dead Game” with Gail Rubin, “The Doyenne of Death” It’s the hottest ticket in town: Frozen Dead Guy Days, a wild and wacky celebration of all things dead and frozen, gets underway in Nederland Colorado March 4-6, 2011. 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